Ukuzihlonipha kubhekwa njengento eyinkimbinkimbi yemicabango nezinkolelo zomuntu mayelana naye. Indima yokuzihlonipha kwabafundi akuyona nje ekufundeni okuhle kakhulu, ingane ekwazi ukuzibheka ihlose ukuphumelela nokuphila. Ukuzihlonipha okunempilo kuyisiqinisekiso sokuthuthukiswa kobuntu. Umfundi ongavikelekile empilweni yakhe emdala uyobe engacabangi.
Yithini indlela yokwakha ukuzethemba komfundi wesifunda esiphakeme?
Ukwakheka ukuhlonishwa komfundi wesikole osemncane kwenzeka enkulisa yobudala bese kugcwaliswa iminyaka engu-6-8. Kungabandakanya ukuhlola kwakho, isikhundla sakho eqenjini lesikole, imisebenzi yakho, ukusebenza kwezemfundo. Ucwaningo lokuzihlonipha izingane zesikole abancane lubonisa ukuthi ezinganeni zalesikhathi ukuzigxeka kungakhiwa kahle. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kunoma yikuphi ukuphikisana, ingane izofakazela ukuthi umphikisi wakhe kuphela ongalungile. Ukwakhiwa kokuzihlonipha kuthonywe ukusebenza okuhle kwezemfundo, okusiza ukuthola udumo ekilasini. Kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukuxhumana eqenjini. Isitayela sokubeletha sithinta nokuthuthukiswa kokuzihlonipha kwabafundi abasebancane. Emndenini lapho umntwana ehlazeka khona, ephukile, engadunyiswa, abantu bakhula bengakhuselekanga.
Akunzima ukuphazamiseka kokuzihlonipha kwezingane zesikole ezincane. Dweba isitebhisi sezinyathelo ezingu-7 ephepheni, uzifake futhi ucele ingane ukuthi ihlele izingane ezifunda nabo ngale ndlela: ngezinyathelo ezingu-1-3 - abantu abalungile, 4 - abafana nabalungile noma ababi, ngezinyathelo ezingu-5-7 - ezimbi. Futhi ekugcineni, cela ukuthi uziphawule kulobu buqhawe obungokomfanekiso. Uma ingane ikhetha isinyathelo esingu-1, lokhu kubonisa ukuzethemba okuzenzekelayo, 2-3 - ngokwanele, ukuzethemba okuphansi kwe-4-6.
Indlela yokwandisa ukuzihlonipha komfundi?
Kubalulekile ukuba ingane izwe ukusekelwa kokuqala kubantu abazalwa kakhulu - abazali. Kungabantu abadala abangathuthukisa umbono womntwana mayelana nabo. Ngakho, amathiphu ambalwa:
- Zama ukuncoma ingane yakho oyintandokazi kaningi ukuze uthole impumelelo encane, futhi ubonise uthando lwakho nokuziqhenya kwakhe.
- Thola imisebenzi ingane ezophumelela ngayo - ukudweba, ukudweba, ulimi lwangaphandle, njll.
- Yiba ukuvikelwa kwengane, ukwesekwa, ukusekelwa. Zama ukuba njalo eceleni kwakhe. Ukwazi ukuthi unokwethenjelwa
"Emuva", omncane uzozizwa eqiniseka kakhulu. - Nweba umbuthano womphakathi wengane yakho, umazi nabantwana bakho nabangani bakho.
- Yinike isigaba sezemidlalo noma umbuthano: izithakazelo ezihlanganyelwe, umzabalazo wokuphakama, umoya wethimba unomthelela ekwandiseni ukuzethemba kwezingane zesikole ezincane.
- Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ithi "Cha!".
Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzama ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba komntwana wengane yesikole esiphakeme, abazali kudingeka babe isibonelo esihle.