Kungani ungabizi igama ngemuva komuntu oshonile?

Ngezinye izikhathi ukukhethwa kwegama lomntwana osanda kuzalwa kunzima kakhulu. Ubaba ufuna ukubiza indodana yakhe njengomdlali webhola elidumile, unina - ngendlela yesimanje, yangaphandle, namaphupho omkhulu ukuthi igama lomzukulu wakhe, njengoye. Kodwa kunzima kakhulu uma omunye wabazali noma bobabili abazali befuna ukubiza usana ngokuhlonipha isihlobo esashonile, esithukuthele, kungani umuntu engakwazi ukukubiza njengoba befuna. Ake sithole ukuthi singenza njani esimweni esinzima kangaka.

Kungenzeka yini ukubiza ingane ngemuva kokushona?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani ongasho, impilo yethu yonke ixhunywe ngandlela-thile ngokubandlululwa okuhlukahlukene, okuyizinto eziningi eziye zaba cishe isiko. Izimpande zalezi zinto zisezinkathini zamahedeni, lapho abantu bebengaboni izinto ezibonakalayo, bekholelwa ngokungekho emthethweni emiphakathini ephakeme futhi behlala besaba ukuthukuthela kwabo. Ingxenye yalelifa elingokomoya lafika kubantu bethu.

Kungani umuntu engakwazi ukubiza izingane ngemuva kwezihlobo ezifile, obaziyo noma omunye oshonile, akekho okwazi ukuchaza ngokucacile. Njengoba kungekho ukulingana okungamaphesenti ayikhulu phakathi kwegama kanye nesiphetho somuntu. Kodwa into esemqoka, umuntu uyasabela kanjani kuso, ingabe uthatha izinto ezinjalo ngobubi obungathí sina.

Ngokusho ngezinkolelo ezidumile, hhayi nje ezethu, kukholelwa ukuthi igama lithatha ulwazi oluthile ngomuntu. Okusho ukuthi, lapho usana luthiwa, liyamnika isitifiketi esithile, esichaza isiphetho sayo sonke futhi senze isinyathelo esinqunyiwe, senze impilo yakhe kusengaphambili.

Abanye abantu banikeza igama lesifuba ekusithekeni kwabanye, futhi abazali kuphela bayakwazi, futhi ngokusemthethweni, bakubiza ngokuphambene ngokuphelele, ngakho amandla amnyama angeke amlimaze.

Ngokuqondene nomuntu oshonile, iqiniso lokuthi wafa alisekho umphefumulo ongenakunyakaziswa womntwana obizwa kanjalo. Futhi uma umuntu ehola impilo yomfel 'ukholo, ehlupheka kakhulu, engajabuli noma efa ngokudabukisayo, khona-ke leli gama elibi lidluliselwa kumntwana obizwa ngokuthi udumo lwakhe.

Yikholelwa noma cha - kuyindaba yomuntu siqu, futhi uma abazali beqiniseka ukuthi konke lokhu kungacabangi futhi bona ngokwabo abakholelwa kuleso senzo, ungabiza ingane njengoba uthanda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isonto lisekela kulokhu. Abapristi ngokuvamile abanalo igama elithi "Destiny" emagama abo, ngakho-ke ngeke lihlelwe. Umuntu - yilokho akudala kuye, yiziphi impumelelo azithola ngokuzimela, futhi nganoma iyiphi indlela igama alikwazi ukuliphazamisa.

Ukuze ungathembeli lolu hlobo lokucabangela, umuntu angakhumbula enye inkolelo endala eyakhohliwe ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukubiza ingane ngokujwayelekile ngomuntu othile, ngisho nokuphila, ngoba ingane isithatha ngokuzenzekelayo ingelosi yomlondolozi walo muntu futhi ifa ngokushesha. Kodwa eqinisweni, ngokuvamile izingane zibizwa ngokuthi zihloniphe ugogo nomkhulu, kanti labo okwamanje benza konke okusemandleni abo ekugugeni. Ngakho ungabiza izinyane nganoma yiliphi igama futhi into esemqoka ukuthi ivumelana, ihlanganisa ne- patronymic nesibongo.