Yini okufanele uyenze ngesikhathi ukhulelwe?

Ukulinda umntwana kuyinkathi enhle ekuphileni komfazi. Kodwa-ke, omama abaningi esikhathini esizayo, ukuze baqhubeke bekhula ngaphakathi kwempilo, kufanele bashintshe indlela yabo yokuphila futhi bayeke umsebenzi kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Lapho bethola isimo esinjalo, abesifazane bavame ukukhononda ngokuthi abazi ukuthi benzeni ekhaya ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.

Uma uphakathi kwabo, sinikeza imibono, yini engenziwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukuze usebenzise izinyanga ezimbalwa ezilandelayo ngenzuzo.

Ukuzilibazisa omama abalindele

Akukhathaleki ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe uyokwenzani ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula, into eyinhloko ukuthi ukuzilibazisa okunjalo kungabangela imizwelo yakhe emihle kuphela, khona-ke ngeke kube nesikhathi sokuthukuthela ngaphezu kwezicucu. Inketho enhle kakhulu kumama olindelekile uhambo oluthakazelisayo. Kodwa-ke, ubunzima bezezimali kanye nempilo embi ngokuvamile kuyisizathu sokwenqaba ukuzilibazisa okunjalo. Khona-ke lo wesifazane uphoqeleka ukuba acabange ukuthi benzeni ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ekhaya. Kulokhu, kuyoba kuhle ukuqala ukufunda izilimi zakwamanye amazwe, ngoba akusijabulisi kuphela futhi kuyathakazelisa, kodwa futhi kuyasiza. Ukwandisa izinga labo lokuzifundela ngale ndlela, emva kokumiswa kuyoba khona ukufaka isicelo sesikhundla esiphakeme.

Lahla i-blues bese uletha imicabango yakho ngokuhlelekile kuzosiza ukusekela izinsimbi. Yilokho ongakwenza ekhaya noma yikuphi owesifazane okhulelwe. Ukubamba, ukugqoka, ukusika, ukugcoba, ukusika , ukubola - namuhla kunezikhombisi eziningi ezenziwe ngezandla ukuthi wonke umuntu angathola umsebenzi oyithandayo. Odokotela batusa abesifazane besesimweni ukuba bahlanganyele emculweni, ikakhulukazi ngezigaba zakudala. Lena yindlela efanele yokuvumelana nokuthula kwengqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umdlandla onjalo wokuqinisekiswa kochwepheshe uzoba nomthelela omuhle ekwakheni umlingiswa wengane.

Lokhu akulona uhlu oluphelele lento owesifazane okhulelwe angayenza ekhaya. Ladies endaweni bakhetha ukufunda, ukudala ubuciko bokupheka, ubuciko bokubheka izithombe.