Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo abantu babelokhu bezingela, ngakho umgomo wabo oyinhloko kwakuwukufihla izibonakaliso zangaphandle ezibonisa ukuthi kukhona amakhono emilingo. Namuhla ungabona owesifazane onomshanelo futhi ephethe i- Halloween kuphela , ngakho-ke kuyoba okuthakazelisayo ukuqonda ukuthi ungamqaphela kanjani umlumbi ngokubukeka. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi imvukuzane enkulu ebomvu ebusweni, ikhala eligxotshiwe kanye ne-hump yizo zonke izinkolelo zabalobi nabathakathi banamuhla abafani kakhulu nabesifazane abavamile.
Indlela yokubona umlumbi ngokubukeka nokuziphatha?
Abesifazane abanamakhono omlingo, babe nokubukeka okukhangayo nokubhoboza, okuvela kuyo abaningi abanokuthuthumela emzimbeni. Amehlo abo agqamile ngokukhanya okukhulu, futhi ngokuqondene nombala, iningi liluhlaza. Abathakathi baheha, ngakho-ke kukhona njalo abalandeli abaningi abazungezile. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ubuhle babo bunobunye obunjalo. Ukuxoxa ngokubonakala komlumbi, umuntu akanakusiza ukuqaphela ukuba khona kwezinwele zekhanda elihle. Kukholelwa ukuthi kusezinwele zobungcweti ukuthi amandla akhe agxilile. Enye iphuzu elibalulekile, okubonisa ukuthi ngaphambi kwakho umlumbi - ukuba khona kwekhwalithi elithile lomuntu, isibonelo, izwi elibi, noma isisindo esakhiwe. Ukuxoxisana ngezibonakaliso zomlingo owesifazane obonakalayo, awukwazi ukuphuthelwa izingubo ezikhethwe ngabanikazi bemilingo. Iningi lezigqoko zazo zihanjiswa ngemibala emnyama. Emzimbeni womlumbi ngokuqinisekile kuyoba yi-birthmark noma i-birthmark, ebizwa nangokuthi uphawu lukaSathane. Ngokuvame kakhulu kungezansi ngemuva, ezithombeni zofuzo noma eduze kwezingubo zezinwele.
Manje amazwi ambalwa mayelana nokuzikhethela kokuziphatha komlumbi, owesifazane othembekile . Ukhetha ukuphila komuntu onesizungu, futhi amadoda ngokwawo angemi eduze kwabesifazane abanjalo isikhathi eside. Kumele kuthiwa abathakathi babheka ubulili futhi bengenakulinganisela ngokwabo.