Ngemashi eya enkulisa, omama banezinkathazo eziningi nemizwa. Kukhona inamba engaqondakali yezinganekwane mayelana nezikole zasenkulisa: kuyingozi yengqondo yengane, izingane zihlala zigula ngenxa yabanakekelwayo ukunganaki nokunye. Akekho ophikisanayo wokuthi le nsimu kufanele ikhethwe ngokucophelela futhi ifunde ngedumela layo kusengaphambili. Kodwa abazali ngokwabo kufanele bazilungiselele kanye nezingane zabo ngezinguquko ezibalulekile ekuphileni.
Amathiphu kubazali enkulisa - iskripthi sokuziphatha nokuphendula okulungile kubo
Ngendlela yokujwayela, abazali bahlale bebhekana nezinguquko eziningana zokuziphatha kwengane. Izimo ezinjalo ziyinto yemvelo futhi akudingeki ukuba uhlasele imvuthu. Cabangela iseluleko sengqondo sengqondo kubazali ezimweni ezithile.
- "Ngeke ngihambe, angifuni, angiyikukwenza!". I-whims noma ukudumaza ekuseni ngaphambi kokuya enkulisa isimo sinemvelo. Ngendlela, nazo zonke izinkathazo zabazali, lesi simo sihle kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukusekela imvuthu bese uthi akujabulisi kuwe, uyaqonda imizwa yakhe. Kodwa yile ndlela umhlaba usebenza ngayo: omama basebenza, izingane zifunda. Ungalokothi ube namahloni, ungamangazi noma usongele ingane.
- Imifudlana evame njalo nezinye izinkinga. Babheka njengeviki, bese kuthi izindlu ezimbili noma ezintathu. Isimo esijwayelekile futhi omama abaningi benqaba enkulisa, bathi, ukuhlala ekhaya kuyashesha. Njengomthetho, izingane "ezithobelayo" zivame ukugula, azibonakalisi umbhikisho obala kubazali bawo, ngakho umzimba usiza ukusinda ukukhathazeka, lapha kudingeka uqaphele isimo sengqondo semvuthu kanye nendlela yokuphila.
- Engadini kukhona "umfundi ohloniphekile", ekhaya "dvoechnik". Ekhaya uchitha nje izindonga, kodwa eqenjini ulalela kunabo bonke abantu. Izincomo kubazali bezingane zasenkulisa kulezi zimo zanciphisa ukuqonda nokusekelwa kwengane. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukungafani okunjalo kusho isifiso somntwana sokuzivumelanisa nomphakathi futhi siziphathe ngendlela elula kakhulu. Futhi ekhaya, uvele ephumula futhi eveza imizwelo yakhe. Lona uhlobo lwesibonakaliso sokuthembela kuwe.
Amathiphu kwabazali bezingane zasenkulisa - siphendukela ekusebenzeni
Izincomo eziningi kubazali enkulisa ziphephezela ekulungiseni kwengane kwengqondo. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuthi kukhulu kangakanani lapho omama behlala bethatha izingane futhi akukho lutho olwesabekayo lapho. Ukuvumelanisa ngokushesha futhi ubuhlungu, gcina izincomo ezilandelayo ezilula kubazali enkulisa:
- funda umbuso ensimini futhi kancane kancane uzijwayeze;
- ungakhohlwa ngokuqina;
- ngazo zonke izindlela, ulungise ingane ibe nesimo sengqondo esihle enkulisa;
- banike ihora noma ngaphezulu ngelanga ukufundisa umntwana ukuba azikhonze ngokwakhe (ukuzidla, ukugqoka;
- zama ukukhombisa isimo sakho sengqondo enkulisa ngosuku lokuqala.
Ngokuqondene nezincomo zabazali kubazali ku-DOW ngemva kokuvakasha kokuqala, isilinganiso nesisindo sokuhamba kancane kubalulekile lapha. Ekuqaleni, cishe isonto noma amabili, ungashiyi imvuthu usuku lonke. Amahora amabili noma amathathu anele. Yilungele ama-whims noma ezinye izimo ezingavamile zokuziphatha, lokhu kuyisenzo esivamile futhi umsebenzi wakho ukusekela.
Amathiphu kubazali enkulisa ngezindleko zokuhlukumeza asekelwe ekuthembekeni nasekuthembekeni. Tshela iqiniso lezingane, kuphi futhi kungani udinga ukuhamba, kuyilapho udinga ukusho ngokuzithoba nangokuzethemba ngesikhathi esifanayo. Uma ingane idinga isikhathi esincane sokuthi ihlelwe kahle, mlethe imizuzu emihlanu kuya kweyishumi ngaphambili. Kodwa ungaphenduki ukuyeka okuvela kuwo wonke umcimbi.
Phakathi kwezincomo zabazali bezingane zasenkulisa, enye ebaluleke kakhulu ingabhekwa njengesithembiso uma uyithatha. Isikhathi esithile sokubiza akukho mqondo. Kungcono ukuthembisa ukuthi emva kokulala kanye nesidlo sasekuseni ekuseni uzobuyela ngokushesha, ngakho-ke umfutho uzozwa ekuseni futhi ehle.