Ubheka okuhle futhi uzizwa uhle. Unamakhono amaningi, umsebenzi omuhle futhi othandekayo. Konke ekuphileni kwakho kuhle, futhi kubonakala sengathi ukuphila kwenzeka. Kodwa kukhona okunye. Wena unesizungu, futhi ekhanda lakho isisusa sishukunyiswa umcabango owodwa kuphela: kungani ngingathandi muntu, akekho oqondayo, akekho othanda mina? Isethi yonke yezikhalazo mayelana nokuphila futhi akukho ukukhanya nokuphuma kweso simo. Ngenhlekelele enjalo, izigidi zabantu namuhla zibhekene nazo. Kwenzekani kubantu banamuhla futhi yiziphi amaphutha abazenzayo, bazibophezela ukuba babe nesizungu?
Kungani kungekho muntu engiqondayo?
Ngokuvamile kunoma yimuphi inkampani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abangane noma osebenza nabo bayothola unesizungu ongashadile ngokuqhathanisa nabanye, akatholanga umbhangqwana, futhi uma ngabe uyintombazane, ke akashadile, njll. Kuzo zonke izizathu ezenza kwenzeka into enjalo, laba bantu basetshenziselwa ukuphendula ngemishwana yemisebenzi efana nalokhu: "Akekho ozokuthanda" noma "Angithandi muntu". Kodwa bona ngokwabo abaqapheli izizathu zangempela ukuthi baseseyedwa. Emkhatsini wezokwelapha kwengqondo lezi ziguli zivela nsuku zonke. "Akekho okhuluma nami, akekho ozoyeka ... Akekho oqaphela mina, Dokotela, kungani ngingadingi muntu?", Bakhalaza. Futhi lo dokotela uyamamatheka ngokudabukisayo futhi ucela ngamunye wabantu abangashadile ukuba bafinyelele ebuntwaneni babo. Kusukela lapho izinyawo zikhula kule nkinga. Ukwesaba uthando, isibonelo sobudlelwane bomzali obungathandeki, izikhalazo ezinganeni, ukuzihlukanisa, njll. - konke lokho kubeka impendulo ebuntwini, okuyinto engase ibe yisibonakaliso sangempela sobuzungu. Buza abanye abantu abaphumelelayo nabacebile ukuthi kungani bodwa. Futhi abaningi babo bayavuma ngobuqotho: "Akekho oye wangithanda." Futhi akukhona ngabanye, kodwa ngomuntu. Futhi ukuxazulula le nkinga kuye ngempela ngamandla. Amanye amathiphu azosiza ukuphawula i-I futhi uziqonde:
- Ukubuza umbuzo othi "kungani kungekho ongithandayo" kubalulekile kuqala kokuziphendulela bese ubuza "Futhi ngithandani ngempela?". Ingabe ukhona umuntu empilweni yakho oyithandayo ngento ethile noma ngoba nje. Uma ungesabi uthando futhi uliphike, khona-ke lizobuyela kuwe ngokubuyisela. Into esemqoka ukukholelwa ukuthi ungayithanda.
- Ngokuvamile abantu basondele ezweni labo elingaphakathi ngenxa yokuthi bahlushwa ukwesaba ukushiywa, bekhohliwe noma bekhashelwa. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ngokuvamile asiqapheli ukuthi othile usinika izimpawu zokunakekelwa.
- Enye imbangela evamile yokuhluleka ebuhlotsheni yilezi zicelo ezithintekayo kumlingani kanye nomqondo wokuhleleka. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ngendlela iningi lemishado yanamuhla idilika. Izinga lokulindela kwabalingani abavela komunye nomunye alihambisani nokuyiqiniso. Futhi lapho abaphulukisi bothando besenkonzweni yokuhlalisana baqala ukwehlisa, ubuhlobo beqiniso nalabo abangathanda abantu bengafani. Ukuze ususe le nkinga, udinga ukumisa ukuhlolisisa ubuhlobo bakho futhi "wehla eMhlabeni." Ngamanye amazwi, ujwayele umqondo wokuthi umuntu ongcono owakudonsela emcabangweni wakho ngeke akwazi ukukuhlangabeza, ngoba akakho.
- Futhi ekugcineni, isizathu sokugcina esenza abantu bangakwazi ukuthola isigamu sabo sesibili ukuzethemba. Ungalindela kanjani uthando oluvela kumfokazi,
Uma ungayizwa lo mzwa ngokwakho? Njengoba leli zwi lithi: "Uma ufuna ukushintsha umhlaba - qala uqobo." Zitholele ukuzilibazisa, hamba kaningi futhi ushintshe isimo, shintsha isithombe, ungene emidlalweni. Izinketho zokuzivuselela nokuqeda ukucindezeleka namuhla ziningi kakhulu. Umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko ukuzithanda wena, izwe elikuzungezile nazo zonke izenzakalo zalo.
Ukuvuselela injabulo nokuzethemba, ngokuqinisekile uzoheha abantu abasha nabathakazelisayo empilweni yakho. Futhi kanye nabo, umuzwa othandekayo uzokuza kuwe.