Ukuhunyushwa kwegama elithi gerontophilia kusuka esiGriki kusho uthando kulabadala. Lona uhlobo lwe-fetishism, lapho isifiso sobulili singekho ngenxa yobuntu obuthile, kodwa kuneminyaka yesifazane / indoda. Kungaba futhi uthando lwabesifazane abadala, oluhambisana nokudabuka. Noma kunjalo, ukuphambuka okunjalo kuyinqaba kakhulu.
Izimbangela ze-gerontophilia
E-psychotherapy ne-sexology, i-gerontophilia ibhekwa njengesiyaluyalu sesifiso sobulili. Lesi sifo sihlanganisa ukukhangwa ngokobulili kwabangasebekhulile. Kuyabonakala kubantu abanezinkinga zokuzicabangela (ukukhathazeka komuntu), i-schizophrenia kanye nabantu abathintekayo ngokwengqondo. Izimbangela ze-gerontophilia:
- umphumela wokuhlukunyezwa kwengane, ukukhohlisa izingane kanye nentsha yabantu asebekhulile;
- isipiliyoni sokuqala socansi esihlobene nomuntu omdala, esikhathini esizayo singathinta izici zesifiso sobulili;
- ukungaqiniseki ngamakhono abo ngokocansi. Indoda isaba "ukunganaki" kwentombazane encane. Ukwesaba kwakhe kudlula lapho esebenzisana nabalingani abadala asebekhulile;
- nangeminyaka yobudala, umuntu uzama ukuthola induduzo, ukukhokhela ukungazinaki kwakhe kubantu abadala ngesikhathi eseyingane. Lokhu kuchazwa yisimo sengqondo somntwana kumuntu omdala njengesibonelo sokulingisa, okuhle;
- izinkinga zokukhulelwa, imfundo engafanele yezocansi ingaba yizimbangela zesifo;
- i-infantilism, isifiso sobulili esibuthakathaka, ikakhulukazi emantombazaneni;
- i-sadism. Uthando ngokusuka kokudabukisayo kubantu asebekhulile, abangakwazi ukuzimela, banobuthakathaka futhi abanokuzivikela;
- isifiso samantombazane abhekene ne-masochism, ukulalela amadoda asebekhulile;
- ukukhwa kwamantombazane kumadoda amadala kuchazwa yisifiso sokuthola ulwazi.
Eminyakeni yesikole, amantombazane amaningi athande othisha, abaculi nabadlali abadala. Amantombazane amancane esikoleni adonsela kumadoda asekhulile. Akuyona into engaphezu kwesifiso sokuhlangana nomuntu ongazivikela njengobaba. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kulawo mantombazane akhulela ngaphandle kobaba. Ngakho-ke bazama ukukhokhela lokho abangazange bakuthole ebuntwaneni babo - uthando nothando lukayise.
Ukwelashwa kwe-gerontophilia
Ukuguquka ngokobulili kuyishintsho esibi emvelweni kanye nezici zesifiso socansi. Noma yikuphi ukuphambuka kunomthelela ekufisweni kobulili endaweni engavamile, ngendlela engavamile, nomlingani ongathandeli ngokocansi.
I-Psychotherapy ngokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ze-psychotropic ingasiza ekuqedeni isifo socansi esinjalo. Ezimweni eziningi, ukwelashwa kuyaphumelela. Noma kunjalo, ukwelapha izidakamizwa zokuphutha ngokocansi ngeke ukwazi ukuxazulula ngokuphelele le nkinga. Ukwamukelwa kwama-hormone kuphakanyiswa kuphela ngokukhathazeka okusobala kwe-endocrine. Uma kuba buhlungu kumuntu ukuba alwe nezifiso zobulili eziphuthumayo, ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukuthatha izinzwa ze-neuroleptics.
Isikhathi se-Psychotherapy nesipiliyoni esinolwazi lungcono kakhulu. Lapha, lo muntu uyoba nethuba lokuziqonda yena futhi, kanye nomqondisi wezengqondo, zama ukuxazulula le nkinga.
Ukuvimbela izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kusekelwe emfundweni efanele yezingane. Khuthaza ingane ukuthi ibe nezimfanelo zokuziphatha eziphakeme, izithakazelo ezihlukahlukene kanye nezifiso ezihlukahlukene, zakha umqondo wesithunzi. Lezi zici zinciphisa ingozi yokuthambekela kocansi okungavamile. Futhi khumbula ukuthi awukwazi ukunciphisa indima yabalingani bezocansi abanolwazi emphakathini wengane yakho. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuvikela ingane yakho kubo, kodwa ukuba ngumngane weqiniso nguye umsebenzi oyinhloko. Ekukhuleni, ukwethembeka phakathi kwezingane nabazali kubalulekile. Isibonelo esifanele salokhu okulandelayo sizofaka umgomo wokuphindaphinda ingane.