Umqondo wokukhulumisana kwengqondo kuhloswe njengendlela yezimpawu ezizwakalayo ezisetshenziswe ngumuntu, ukubhala okubhalwe phansi kokudluliselwa kwemithwalo yemininingwane. Abanye abacwaningi baye bachazwa njengendlela yokwenza izinto ezibonakalayo nokudluliselwa kwemicabango.
Inkulumo kanye nolwazi lwezokwelapha luyisimiso sezimpawu ezivunyelwe ngokujwayelekile ezisiza ukudlulisa amagama, ngendlela yokuhlanganiswa kwemisindo enencazelo ethile kubantu. Umehluko phakathi kolimi nenkulumo kuwukuthi ulimi luyisimiso, esakhiwe ngokomlando samagama, kuyilapho inkulumo yinkqubo yomuntu engokwengqondo yokwakhiwa nokudluliselwa kwemicabango ngolimi.
Imisebenzi yokwaziswa kwengqondo
I-Psychology ibheka inkulumo, okokuqala, njengenye yemisebenzi ephakeme yengqondo yomuntu. Isakhiwo salo sihambisana nesakhiwo kwanoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lomsebenzi. Inkulumo ihlanganisa:
- isisusa ;
- ukuhlela;
- ukuqaliswa;
- ukulawula.
Izenzo zolimi njengethuluzi lokuxhumanisa inkulumo.
Okulandelayo, cabanga ngemisebenzi esemqoka yenkulumo.
- Okubalulekile noma okukhethayo. Okuyisisekelo salo ukuchaza, igama, izinto nezinto ezizungezile. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuqonda okuphakathi phakathi kwabantu kusekelwe esimweni sokuqala sokwehlukaniswa kwezinto, kokubili ukukhuluma nokubona ulwazi.
- I-Generalizing. Ikhuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi likhomba izimpawu ezihamba phambili, isithunzi, nezinto kanye nokuzihlanganisa ngamaqembu ngokusho kwemingcele efanayo. Leli gama alisho lutho olulodwa, kodwa iqembu lonke lezinto lifana nalo futhi njalo liphethe izici zabo ezivelele. Lo msebenzi uhlanganiswe ngokungenakuqhathaniswa nokucabanga.
- Ukuxhumana. Inikeza ukudluliswa kolwazi. Ihluke emisebenzini emibili engenhla ngoba inokubonakaliswa, kokubili ngomlomo nangokwelimi olulotshiwe. Lo umehluko uhlobene nezinqubo zangaphakathi zengqondo.
Izinhlobo Zokukhuluma - Psychology
Ngokwengqondo, kunezinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko zomsebenzi wokukhuluma:
1. Ngaphandle. Kufaka kokubili ulimi lomlomo nolwebhaliwe.
- Ingxoxo ingxoxweni eqondile eyenzeka phakathi kwabantu ababili.
- i-monologue - isethulo eside, esingaguquguquki semicabango noma imibono yomuntu oyedwa. Uhlangothi oluhlangene lwezinkulumo ze-monologic kufanele lufaniswe nokucacisa.
- inkulumo ebhaliwe - inguqulo ekhulisiwe ye-monologue, kodwa ingathonya kuphela ngamazwi.
2. Ngaphakathi. Uhlobo olukhethekile lomsebenzi wokukhuluma. Ngokuba inkulumo yangaphakathi isici ngakwesinye isandla, ukuhlukaniswa nokuhlukaniswa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akubandakanyi amathuba okubona okungalungile kwalesi simo. Nokho, uma ufuna, ungamisa inkhulumomphendvulwano yangaphakathi.
Ukukhulumisana nokukhuluma ngezokwelapha kubandakanya lezi zinhlobo ezimbili zomsebenzi wokukhuluma, ngoba ngezigaba zokuqala, kukhulunywa inkulumo yangaphakathi, bese kusetshenziswa inkulumo yangaphandle.
I-psychology kanye namasiko okukhuluma akuhlanganiswa kahle. Isiko lokukhuluma yilona inhlangano yezindlela zokukhuluma ngezilimi, ezingaphansi kwezimo zanamuhla ezivumela inkulumo elula kakhulu neyolwazi esimweni esithile sokuphila ngendlela yokuthi umlaleli aqonde kahle ulwazi olutholiwe. Yingakho, uma ufuna ukubonakala njengomuntu okhuliswe futhi ohlakaniphile kakhulu, akudingeki ubukele ukubonakala kwakho nokuziphatha kwakho kuphela, kodwa futhi nenkulumo yakho. Ikhono lokukhuluma ngokufanele, liyigugu kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi uma ungakwazi ukuqonda leli khono, yonke iminyango izovuleka ngaphambi kwakho.