I-Psychology yokukhuluma

Inkulumo yethu ingenye yezindlela ezimangalisayo zomuntu. Phela, ngosizo lwemicabango ehlobene singashintshanisa ulwazi, sidlulisele umbala womzwelo wesiphakamiso sethu. Ngenxa yezwi, abantu bangakwazi ukuqonda imizwa yakho futhi bazizwe izwi lakho. Kuyinto emangalisayo ... Kungaba kuhle uma singazange siphonse amazwi emoyeni, kungaba okungenangqondo ukuthi ungasebenzisi inkulumo ukuze ucasule umuntu! Futhi ungaphulukisa leli gama, kuphela okushiwo okuhle futhi kuthokozisa labo ababhekiswe emazwini ethu ayigugu!


Ukuphulwa kwenkulumo - kwengqondo

Ukuhlukumeza kwenkulumo kungenzeka kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezizathu futhi kuxhomeke ezintweni ezihlukahlukene. Isibonelo:

I-psychology yenkulumo ye-oratorical

Uma udinga ukukhuluma komphakathi okuphumelelayo, kufanele ukhumbule imithetho ethile:

  1. Lungisa kahle ukusebenza. Ukwenza lokhu: sebenzisa izincwadi ezengeziwe, yenza uhlelo lwenkulumo, unqume isihloko esiyinhloko futhi uhlele umgomo wakho.
  2. Kumele wenze konke okusemandleni ukuqinisekisa ukuthi indaba ayiyona inhle. Futhi lokho kuqondiswa kwaqondiswa, kuphela, kuwe. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukucabangela izithakazelo zezilaleli futhi, uma kungenzeka, khuluma ngalokho okuthandayo. Okulandelanayo mayelana nokuthi yini engayithinta umphakathi ngokujwayelekile futhi wonke umuntu, ngamunye.
  3. Khumbula: "Umbala womzwelo wezinkulumo, lologi nokubhala nokubhala kuyisiqinisekiso sokuxhumana kwebhizinisi"!
  4. Sebenzisa isenzo sakho sobuso nobuso ukuze uthole ukusebenza "okubukhoma".
  5. Ukuze ufinyelele isimo sengqondo esibi ngokuqondene nobuntu bakho, unakekele isithombe sakho futhi ungakhohlwa mayelana netiqu zokukhuluma.

Isibonelo esivamile

Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukulungiswa engxoxweni kuyimpawu yamanga. Kodwa inkulumo, ngokwengqondo, ihluke kuzinkohliso. Ngokuphambene nalokho, lokhu kuyisenzo esivamile somuntu kumacala amelene naye. Ngendlela, ukucaciswa kanye nokuchazwa ekukhulumisaneni kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi umlandeli ukhuluma iqiniso futhi uyaqiniseka ngamazwi akhe. Isimo siqala ngokuhlukile, uma umuntu ebuyela emuva isinyathelo, uthinta impumulo noma ngemuva kwekhanda.