Kungani imikhuba emihle? Ngokusobala, kungukuthi ufuna ukuthakazelisa. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sifundiswa "imikhuba emihle," ngenxa yokubi, sinokuqonda kwethu izindlela. Umqondo walokho okuhle nokubi kuwo wonke umuntu uhlukile. Imvelo enhle noma engalungile yokuziphatha, izenzo, izimo, umuntu ngamunye uzibophezele. Ngakho-ke, akudingekile ukukhiqiza. Okuhlukile yimilayezo yeBhayibheli, yebo. Ngeke sikhulume ngokugcina umhlane noma ukuhleka ngokuzwakalayo - kubi. Sizoxoxa ngemithetho yemikhuba emihle yamacala athile.
Umndeni
Ngomuntu othandekayo kufanele ube nomusa, oqotho, futhi obaluleke kakhulu besifazane. Ukuphila komndeni akufanele kuveze zonke izikhathi zakho eziseduze. Ngakho-ke, lapho wenza indlu yangasese ekuseni, vala umnyango wokugeza (ngaphandle uma uzogeza ndawonye). Phuma egqoke futhi enhle. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ubeka isibonelo kubantwana bakho.
Ukudla kwasekuseni kuhilela isikhathi lapho umndeni wonke uhlangene khona. Ungalondolozi isikhathi uma ungumama wendlu futhi akudingeki ukuba usheshe ukusebenza. Vumela umyeni athathe abantwana, ngenkathi ulungiselela ama-pancake okumnandi noma ama-fritters. Khumbula ukuthi umuntu onemikhuba emihle ngesikhathi sokudla kwasekuseni unokubonakala kahle. Qiniseka ukuthi ulandela umndeni wakho.
Susa etafuleni bese ubhekana nezitsha kangcono ngokushesha. Ukujwayela umndeni wakho ukuhlanzeka nokuhleleka.
Sebenzisa umyeni wakho ukuba asebenze, "amshaye" ngomoya omuhle. Izindlela, kulokhu, ngamunye unayo eyakhe ...
Khuthaza izingane zakho ukuba ziphathe kahle. Kufanele babone esibonelweni sakho "ubuhlobo obunempilo" phakathi komuntu nowesifazane. Hlonipha omunye nomunye, amahlaya amahle, ukusekela, ukwabelana ngemithwalo yemfanelo - konke lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ngenjabulo nangenhlalakahle yesikhathi esizayo yengane yakho. Umkhathi obusa ekhaya udlala indima ebalulekile ekusungulweni kwengqondo enempilo. Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabashade bithinta impilo yangempela yezingane. Ngakho ungasheshi ukuphatha imishanguzo ngemithi, usebenze kangcono ebuhlotsheni nomyeni wakho.
Hlonipha abazali bakho. Banikeza impilo, ninganaki ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa kwabo. Ukuphazamisa abadala akusizi ngempela. Funda ukulalela, noma ngabe awubekezeli iseluleko nokuziphatha kahle. Ungakwazi ukuveza umbono wakho futhi kuyadingeka, into esemqoka ukukwenza ngendlela efanelekile kanye ne-unobtrusively.
Sebenzisa
Imikhuba emihle neyimbi izoqashelwa ngamalungu omsebenzi ndawonye. Wonke umuntu uzokwahlulela ngokusukela kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nokubukwa kwakhe. Ngomunye umuntu, ukuziphatha kwakho neziphathimandla kuzokuziphatha okubi (isibonelo, i-affair nomqondisi), futhi omunye uzokucabanga ukuthi ungumuntu ophikisayo. Ukuhlonipha ngokweqile kungadlala ngokumelene nawe. Uzothola idumela lomuntu obuthakathaka, wenza imizamo yokunciphisa umusa nabaphathi bakhe.
Uma ushintsha indawo yomsebenzi, uma ufika embuthanweni omusha, ungazami ukubonakala kangcono kunakho. Ukuqedela ngokweqile nokungajwayelekile kokuziphatha kwakho kuyovezwa esikhathini esizayo. Ukulahlekelwa ukwethembela kwabalingani bakho kulula kakhulu. Yiba ngokwemvelo futhi uzethembe.
Ungafunda imikhuba emihle njenganoma yikuphi ubuciko. Bheka amafilimu omlando, ama-heroines athakazelisayo ngomusa wabo kanye nenhle. Indlela abaziphatha ngayo emphakathini wabantu igcinwe futhi ayiqondakali. Ukuhleka okuzwakalayo nokuqotho, ukuveza okuhle, ikhono lokulalela hhayi ukuphazamisa - funda okwesifazane nokuhlonipha.