Konke esikwenzayo empilweni, indlela eyodwa noma enye - ukukhetha kwethu. Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi abacabangi ukuthi konke esingakwenzayo nakho kuyisinqumo sethu. Nsuku zonke sikhetha amakilasi nezinhloso - futhi sinqabe ezinye imisebenzi nemigomo.
Ngezinye izikhathi "ukungenzi lutho" kuyisinqumo esihlakaniphile kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, kukhona umehluko omkhulu phakathi kokungenzi lutho "nokungenzi lutho". Ungenzi lutho futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uphupha ngalokho okungewona - isiqalekiso sabantu abaningi. Indlela yokuphila yomuntu onjalo ingafaniswa nokuhlezi eceleni komgwaqo kanye nokubukeka kwama-dreary ngemuva kwezimoto ezidlula.
Isimo sethu sokuphila samanje sinqunywa inani lemikhawulo esenziwe esikhathini esidlule. Uma singathandi iqiniso elizungezile - noma ukubonakaliswa kwalo ngabanye - singayishintsha ngempela. Mhlawumbe hhayi ngokushesha futhi ngokumangalisayo njengoba singathanda. Kodwa izinguquko zihlala zikhona.
Umqondo oyinhloko ongakusiza kakhulu ngokukhetha indlela yokuphila: umuntu angazijabulisa. Akekho omunye ongakwazi. Akukho msebenzi oqhakazile, hhayi umlingani ovelele kakhulu okwazi ukwenza ukuphila kwakho kuvumelane uma ungajabuli ngokwakho.
Indlela yokuthola indlela yakho yokuphila?
Umzwa wokuthi indlela yokuphila komuntu ixhomeke kuphela kumuntu ngokwakhe ngokwenzeka kakhulu. Ngezici eziningi lokhu kwenza ukuphila kube lula futhi kuyathakazelisa. Yiqiniso, izinto eziningi azisekelwe kithi. Kodwa sinokulawula okuphelele izici ezithile zokuphila:
- ukusabela kulokho okwenzekayo;
- ukugcinwa kwezifo, ukunakekela impilo;
- ubuhlobo bethu nabathandekayo. Singahlala siphazamisa ubudlelwane obungasifanele - noma sishintshe indima yethu kulezi zinsuku;
- okubaluleke kakhulu: lokho esikufunayo ukukwenza empilweni. Ibhizinisi lethu eliyinhloko.
Endleleni eya empumelelweni empilweni
Ungayithola kanjani umsebenzi wokuphila kwakho? - umbuzo obunzima kakhulu futhi ongunaphakade.
Okokuqala, qonda ukuthi into eyodwa ayithathi isikhathi sokuphila. Njengomthetho, umsebenzi ngamunye unamaphrojekthi "ohlangothini" futhi "ahlobene", futhi ochwepheshe abanamandla banamakhono amaningana ayisisekelo.
Ukusesha imbangela yokuphila kufana nokufaka isikhungo. Qala ngalokho okukude, futhi lokho akubanga ukukhohlakala. Yenza ngomphefumulo wakho. Funda ngakho. Iphelele. Ngokushesha impilo izonikeza ithuba lokuthuthukisa kule ndlela - nakuzo ezihlobene - noma "uzohlangana" nebhizinisi elisha oyojabula ngempela.
Khumbula: indlela yokuphila ekhethiwe ngobuqotho ingasiza umuntu ukuthi aveze yena empilweni yangempela. Into esemqoka ukwenza imizamo ngempela, futhi ungalindeli kuze kube yilapho konke kwenzeka ngomlingo.