Isistimu yamagugu angunaphakade into efana nezixhumanisi ezingabonakali, kodwa ikusize uhambe ngesikhathi sokuzikhethela noma isinqumo. Amanani - yilokho okunquma indlela yethu yokuphila , izifiso zethu futhi zisisekele ezikhathini ezinzima.
Umthombo
Yiziphi izimiso ezingokomoya zomuntu azibiza ngokuthi "okuphakade"?
Kunezici eziningana ezinamandla zethonya. Okuyisisekelo:
- Isizinda semvelo nesimo sendawo.
- Uhlu lomphakathi lapho lo muntu othile ezalwa khona.
- I-Vital isimo sengqondo nemibono yabazali, kanye nezihlobo eziseduze ezihlala nengane ekhulayo.
- Izintandokazi zomuntu siqu namasiko omuntu.
Kodwa, naphezu kokuthi zonke lezi zici zingashintsha kakhulu, kunamanani amaningana omndeni wangunaphakade lapho imindeni eminingi ejabule iyaqaphela.
Amanani omndeni ongunaphakade
- Isibopho sokwenza izinqumo.
- Ithuba lokukhuluma ngokukhululekile futhi uxoxe ngokuthi yini ejabulisa wonke amalungu omndeni.
- Ithuba lokungasichitha isikhathi nomndeni kuphela, kodwa futhi inkululeko yelungu ngalinye lazo ukuba nezintshisekelo zazo, lithembele kwabanye.
- Hlonipha isikhala somuntu ngamunye.
- Ukudala umndeni akuwona umgomo, kodwa kuphela ukuqala kohambo olude.
- Isifiso sokukhombisa uthando lwakho ngomunye nomunye nsuku zonke, ngisho nasezintweni ezincane.
Kunezindlela zokuziphatha eziphakade ezivamile kubo bonke. Isibonelo:
- qotho ngokwezinhloso zakho;
- ube umuntu ongazethemba;
- yiba nesibindi;
- ube nesineke nokuqonda;
- bekulungele ukuphendula ngezenzo zakho namagama.
Amanye "amanani angunaphakade" abhekisela emsebenzini. Nasi luhlu oluyisibonelo, lapho izazi zefilosofi eziningi nabafundisi bebiza khona:
- yenza konke okusemandleni ukwenza umsebenzi kahle;
- ukuthuthukisa emsebenzini wabo, njalo babheke izindlela zokwandisa;
- yiba nengqondo futhi ucabange ngekusasa;
- ukukhuluma ngobuhlakani konke;
- baziqhenye ngempumelelo yabo;
- cabanga ngemfundo nokuqhubeka imfundo njengento ebaluleke kakhulu;
- ukusebenzela njengemisebenzi yomphakathi;
- sisiza ozakwabo kanye nabaqeqeshwayo, banakekele, kokubili ngokwabo.
Ukwakhiwa kokuphila
Futhi, ekugcineni, "amagugu ajwayelekile" ajwayelekile ahlobene nokuphila ngokujwayelekile:
- ukuthanda izwe;
- ukubekezelelana nokuzimisela ukwamukela omunye umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ubuhlanga, ubuhlanga, inkolo, ukuziphatha ngokobulili;
- bavuleleke emisha, bahlolisise umhlaba njalo;
- landela imithetho futhi uhloniphe labo abadalile;
- unakekele labo ababuthakathaka futhi abadinga;
- yenza kwabanye njengoba ufuna ukuthi bakwenze kuwe;
- ukuthuthukisa ngokomoya nangengqondo kuyo yonke impilo.
Indlela yokunquma ukuthi yiziphi izindinganiso "zokuphila okuphakade" ezibalulekile kuwe? Bhala phansi imigomo eyishumi ebaluleke kunazo zonke okholelwa kuyo futhi ezithinta izinto ezibalulekile ekuphileni kwakho. Yikuphi kulabo okuthinta izinqumo zakho? Yini oyikhohlwa emisebenzini yakho yansuku zonke?
Bhala, noma ngabe lezi zitatimende zibonakala zibonakala zilula noma zilula kuwe. Lolu hlu alufanele lujabulise noma ubani; Ubizwa ukuthi uyakusiza futhi akuvumele ukuthi uphinde uxhumane nezisekelo ezijulile zempilo yakho. Futhi ungafaka lolu hlu ohlwini futhi ufunde eminyakeni eyishumi.