Inqubo yokuzihlanganisa nayo iqukethe ukusetshenziswa okunengqondo kwesikhathi sayo, ukuthuthukiswa kwesiyalo sangaphakathi. Ukuze uphumelele empilweni, kubalulekile ukunganaki ukuhlela kwansuku zonke. Isikhathi yisisetshenziswa esibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuthuthukiswa kwe-self-inhlangano kuyadingeka ukuze kuqeqeshwe amandla okuthanda, kube ngumuntu obhekene nokuzibophezela.
Izindlela nokujwayelekile
Abantu abanomdlandla abafuna ukuthola ukuzimela, ukuhlonipha kanye nesimo sezenhlalakahle kufanele bakwazi ukuphatha isikhathi sabo futhi baphile ngokuvumelana nabo.
Isimiso sokuzihlanganisa-siqu sihlanganisa ukubeka imigomo, imisebenzi, kanye nokulawula kokusebenza kwazo. Ngamanye amazwi, uyazinikela phansi ukwenza okuthile futhi uyibambe. Ukusetjenziswa okunamandla kwezenzo ezihleliweko nokulandela ihlelo kudinga indoda yokukhuthazela okukhulu, ukubekezela nomzamo omkhulu. Esikhathini esizayo, lokhu kuziphatha kuzokuletha imiphumela efunayo. Impumelelo ifika kulabo abasebenza kanzima futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngaphezu kwabo.
Ukuziphakamisa okuphezulu komuntu kuthatha:
- ukuzithiba;
- umthwalo wemfanelo;
- ukulawula okucacile nokuphathwa kwemizwelo yakho;
- ukuhlela kwansuku zonke;
- ikhono lokubeka phambili;
- ukugcina isikhathi;
- ukwethembeka.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwalezi zimfanelo kunokwenzeka ngokuphelele. Njengoba bethi, bekuyoba nesifiso.
Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa izindlela ezilandelayo nezindlela zokuzihlanganisa:
- njalo upende ngosuku lwakho lonke;
- ukubeka phambili phambili nokwenza amacala ngokusho kwabo;
- yenza konke ngokuqondile ngesikhathi;
- ungasheshi, susa iwashi phambili emaminithini angu-5;
- Ungabi nesivila;
- zikhuthaze ukuthi uthole impumelelo enkulu futhi encane;
- qotho, kuqala kokubili, nathi;
- ukuhola indlela yokuphila enempilo.
Isiphakamiso sokugcina siyingxenye ye-self-inhlangano yezempilo. Njengoba wazi, emzimbeni onempilo - ingqondo enempilo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi
Ukuthobela yonke le mithetho kufanele kulawulwe ngokuqinile. Yiqiniso, ngeke kube khona umlawuli noma umphathi phezu kwakho. Ngakho kufanele ube yijaji. Azikho izizathu nezinyathelo "ohlangothini." Uma unquma ukuzinakekela, khona-ke hamba endleleni ehleliwe.