I-blackmail nokuphanga - indlela yokuziphatha ne-blackmailer?

Wonke umuntu unendawo ebuthakathaka, futhi "insika yokulawula" enjalo ifuna umxhwele wayo. Ukushaywa indiva kuyinto ukwesaba kwangempela kwengqondo, okuyinto umthetho unikeza isijeziso sangempela. Kodwa, ngisho naso sonke isivikelo sezakhamuzi ngomthetho, noma ubani angaba yisisulu sawo, ngoba kuwebhu ebanzi yonke, abakwa-blackmailers nabaduni bahlakaniphile kakhulu.

I-Blackmail - iyini?

Ukushaywa indiva kuyisenzo sobugebengu esixhunyiwe ekusongeni amaqiniso anokwehlisa (ulwazi, izithombe, ividiyo, umsindo) ngenhloso yokwenza imali noma ukuthola izinsizakalo ezifunwa, ukuvunyelwa. I-Blackmail iyindlela enhle yokuphatha abantu, futhi ngamunye wethu angaba yisisulu se-blackmail

I-Psychology ye-blackmail

Ukuze uzilungiselele kahle ukuhlangabezana nokukhwabanisa, futhi wazi ukuthi ukwenze kanjani nge-blackmail, kufanele uqale uqonde ukucwaninga kwengqondo yalesi simo. Amandla phezu kwesisulu! Lona umphumela wonke wokuphanga, ngakho-ke usongo lwe-blackmail yi-lever enkulu yokucindezela, okukuvumela ukushayela isisulu ekhoneni bese uzithoba, ukuphoqelela ukuba ufeze imiyalo ngokwakho. Ngokuyinhloko, abakwa-blackmailers abakwazi ukuyeka, bathola lokho abakufunayo, futhi baqhubeka becindezela umuntu, bafuna ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso zabo futhi bazicebe ngokwabo izindleko futhi baqhubeke.

Ukuthungatha ngokomzwelo

Enye yezinhlobo zokuxhaphaza kwendlu kungukuthi i-energy-vampirism ne-emotionally emotional, ephuza into eyodwa kuphela - ukuthola okufunwa nganoma iyiphi indlela. Emindenini eminingi kunezihlobo ezinjalo. Emlonyeni wabo usabisa izinsongo, ukuhlambalaza, ukuphishekela umgomo owodwa. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi "ukuthonya" okunjalo cishe wonke umuntu uyangena, hhayi ukusola ukuthi bona ngokwabo baziphakamisa esicelweni sesisulu se-blackmail.

Kunezinhlobo ezintathu zezihlukumezi ezingokomzwelo:

1. "I-Tyrant" idinga ukungeniswa okungekho emthethweni. Izenzo ngokuhlukumeza, ekufezeni inkani yakhe enenkani, amandla, hhayi ukunikeza isisulu ithuba elincane lokulahla. Ukuphatha ngokungafanele izinsongo: "Zama ukungenzi ..." noma "Ngikuxwayisa ngesikhathi sokugcina ...", uhole isisulu sibe yisimo sokucindezelwa ngokomzwelo nokucindezeleka.
2. "Isiguli" . Lolu hlobo lwabalandeli be-blackmailers oluphambene ngqo nolokuqala. Ubuthakathaka bokuziphendulela, ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka kuholela ezihlotsheni ezingenandaba ukuhamba ngazo. Ngokuvamile, inkulumo yokukhokha iphela ngezitatimende mayelana nokugula okungathí sina noma isifiso sokufa, ukuzibulala okuhleliwe noma inkulumo ethi "akekho ongithandayo, akaqondi, angikhathaleli wonke umuntu" ukuze afeze izidingo ze- vampire yamandla .
3. "Unecala ngaphandle kwecala" . Abakwa-blackmailers abanjalo bangama-psychologists abahlakaniphile abakwazi ukugqugquzela labo abahlukunyezwe ngomqondo wendlela ethile yecala noma umthwalo wemfanelo kubo. "Umuntu onecala" uyazibophezela ebugqilini obunjalo futhi akholelwa ukuthi wonke umuntu wenza into enhle, efakazela ukuthungathwa kwe-blackmailer.

Ukuxolisa ngokocansi

Ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu, ukuxoshwa ngokocansi kungenzeka, kodwa kuhlukaniswe izinhlobo eziningana:

1. I-Blackmail ebuhlotsheni . Unesimo sengqondo, akayena kakhulu. Ngenxa yokungafani kwemimoya, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi i-ultimatum izovela: "hhayi nawe, ngakho-ke ngenye." Kulesi simo, ubuhlobo buvame ukuhluleka, ngoba ngaphansi kokucindezeleka okuhambisanayo okuzobe kuholela ekucaseni nasekukhokheni.
2. Ukuphoqelela ukuya ocansini ngaphansi kwengcindezi . Lesi simo esivamile sobudlelwane abaningi, esekelwe kumasayithi wokuphola noma kumaqembu. Njengababusi abahlukumezekile kule nkinga kukhona amadoda, afuna abesifazane besondelene nabo, kanti abagcina bangavumelana ngaphandle kwesifiso esikhulu ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi ulahlekile umyeni othembisayo. Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi amadoda amaningi angadlala kuphela ama-blackmail, ngaleyo ndlela ahlole intandokazi yale ntokazi yokufinyelela.
3. Ukubambelela kokusondelana noma ukuhlinzekwa kohlobo oluthile lwenkonzo, noma njengendlela yokukhokha yokufihla ukwaziswa kokungcolisa . Lona uhlobo olubi kunazo zonke lokuxhumene ngokobulili oluhlobene nodlame.

Izimpawu zokungena ngemvume

Isikhali esibaluleke kakhulu se-blackmailer yilwazi, lusekelwa ubufakazi. Lokhu kungaba isithombe esingenacala, ukwehlisa ukurekhodwa komsindo noma ividiyo. Ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu, i-blackmailer ingadlala ngemizwa yakhe, isibonelo, isongela ukuzibulala, ukuhlukana nobuhlobo , ukuhlupheka kokuziphatha. Ngokuvamile isisulu asihlali ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokuthembela kwakhe ku-blackmailer. Qinisekisa lokhu kungenzeka kulezi zici ezilandelayo:

• efuna izaba ngenxa yezenzo zakhe ngokumelene ne-blackmailer;
• ukwenza izenzo ukujabulisa omunye umuntu;
• ukulandela okungahambisani;
• ukusebenza kwezenzo ngokumelene nentando yomuntu, ukuphela kokuhlupheka komuntu othandekayo;

• ukungabi nentshisekelo nokugcwala okugcwele.

Kuthiwani uma ubumnyama?

Ukushaywa indiva nokuphanga, eqinisweni, kukhona ubugebengu obunesizathu esisodwa - isizathu sokuhlenga isihlengo. Kumele kuqashelwe ngesikhathi esisodwa ukuthi iningi labantu abahlambalaza noma ikhaya elithi "amaphekula" alinqamuli, bathole lokho abakufunayo, futhi baqhubeke nokusebenzisa amandla abo phezu kwesisulu ukuze banelise izifiso zabo . Ngakho-ke, udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungenzani ne-blackmail nokuthi ungaziphatha kanjani nomhlukumezi.

Indlela yokuziphatha ne-blackmailer?

1. Ungesabi nhlobo. Kumele uzihlanganise ndawonye futhi ucabange ngokucophelela.
2. Ungacabangi lokho okushiwo yi-blackmailer, ngoba umgomo wakhe oyinhloko ukwesabisa futhi uthathe konke okulawulwa nguye. Behave ngokuthula, ngenxa yalokhu ukuziphatha okuvela kuwe ngokuqinisekile akulindeli ukuziphatha okunjalo.
3. Ungazami ukuxoxisana nomphangi futhi ungamniki lokho akucelayo. Kulesi simo, kungcono ukuthatha isikhathi ukuthola iziphathimandla zomthetho ukuqonda le ndaba.
4. Uma uthola ulwazi olumnyama, kungcono ukutshela izihlobo zakho "ngezono" zakho kuzihlobo zakho. Ngakho uzokwethula ulwazi njengalokhu, ngaphandle kokumbumbuluzwa nokuxoshwa ngeke ube nalutho.

Ungasusa kanjani i-blackmailer?

Ukuzivikela okuyinhloko ngokumelene nokushaywa indiva ukungazinaki ngokuphelele i-blackmailer. Uma ungaphenduli nganoma iyiphi indlela ezongisongelayo, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi ukuphanga kuyomisa, ngoba inhloso ye-blackmailer ayikuthi ihlehlise, kodwa ukuze inzuzo. Kumele futhi kukhunjulwe ukuthi ukuzivikela okungcono kakhulu ukuhlaselwa, okungukuthi, ukuletha amacala, nokujeziswa ngenxa yokuxoshwa kubandakanya ukufakwa kwamacala ezinje futhi ezinzulu ezihlokweni eziningana, kuye ngokuthi ubuhlungu bubuhlungu kangakanani. Cabanga ngomthwalo wokubamba iqhaza ngesibonelo semithetho ye-Russian Federation:

• Art. 163 we-Criminal Code - ukuphanga, iminyaka engu-15 ejele kanye nenhlawulo yama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezingu-250;
• Art. I-138 ye-Criminal Code - ukwephulwa kwemfihlo yokuxhumana ijeziswa ngumhlahlandlela wama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezingu-80;
• Art. 137 we-Code Criminal - ukwephula ubumfihlo. Ukujeziswa kuze kube ngu-2 iminyaka yokuboshwa kanye nenhlawulo yama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezingu-250.

Indlela yokufakazela i-blackmail?

Ukukhwabanisa nokukhwabanisa kukhona imibono emibili ehamba ngesandla ekhodi lobugebengu, futhi ubufakazi obunemibuzo eminingi. Kanjani, emva kwakho konke, ukufakazela iqiniso lokuthungatha:

1. Zama ukwakha ama- skrini oxhumana nabo noma urekhode ingxoxo no-blackmailer.
2. Uma umhlaseli ememezela izimfuno zakhe, zama ukulibazise ukudluliswa kwemali noma lokho okudinga ukukhwabanisa kuyadingeka. Futhi kunoma yikuphi okwenzayo ungaqhubeki mayelana ne-fraudster ngaphandle kokuvikeleka engxenyeni yophenyo, uma kungenjalo iqiniso lokushaywa indiva lizobonakala lingenakwenzeka.
3. Okulandelayo, kufanele uxhumane nomthetho ngesitatimende esicacile kanye nokuhlinzekwa kobufakazi obukhona bokubamba iqhaza kanye neminye imisebenzi yobugebengu.
4. Emva kokuqala kwezinqubo zokwephula umthetho, landela zonke izidingo zamaphoyisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuzofika kwezobuchwepheshe be-spypionage (i-wiretapping, i-covert ukudubula) namathekithi omakiwe.
5. Uma uxhumane no-blackmailer, ziphathe ngokwemvelo ukuze "inhlanzi ingashiyi i-hook yezobulungiswa", ukusola ukuthi kukhona okungalungile.
6. Ngemuva kokuqedela uphenyo futhi uthola zonke izidingo ezidingekayo, ungaqiniseka ukuthi umsizi uzothola isigwebo sangempela sokungena ngemvume.

Amabhayisikobho mayelana nokungaxhunywanga

Enye yezinhlobonhlobo zezinhlobonhlobo ze-cinema yi-films nama-serials mayelana nokuphanga:

1. "Abakhohlisi abathandekayo . " Isenzo salolu chungechunge sinamathele emantombazaneni amane, anyaka owodwa emva kokufa komngane wabo ovamile, u-Alison uqala ukuthungatha okungaziwa. Ezandleni zabakwa-blackmailer kunezimfihlo zabo eziningi nezimfihlakalo, ngisho nalabo ababeziwa kuphela kumuntu oshonile.
2. "Isitha sikaHulumeni . " Uma ungaba ngumnikazi wobunikazi obuveza isikhulu esiphezulu, akucaci ukuthi ubani oyisisulu esihle sokungena ngemvume kuleli cala, ngoba ukuzingelwa kwangempela kuqala kuwe.
3. "Ubuhle nesilwane . " Ukulungele ukulondoloza impilo kayise etilongweni e-monster yenkangala? Isinyathelo esibalulekile esizoshintsha ngokuphelele ikusasa le-Belle enhle.