Sikhuluma nsuku zonke. Akukwenzeki ukuthi ayikho igama elilodwa emahoreni amabili namane. Emva kwakho konke, ngaphandle kokukhuluma, akunakwenzeka ukwenza emkhayeni womkhaya, noma emsebenzini, ngisho nokuthenga imikhiqizo esitolo. Kodwa kufanelekile ukucabanga ngokuthi kanjani nokuthi siyini. Eqinisweni, ulimi lwesiRashiya lucebile kakhulu futhi luhluke kakhulu, kodwa enkulumweni yethu yokuxoxa yansuku zonke sisebenzisa ubuncane bamazwi esiwadingayo, kakade ajwayelekile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lokhu kunengqondo: kungani uzama ukuvuselela isondo? Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi kungcolisa kokubili ngokuphathelene nolwimi futhi ngokuphathelene nenkulumo yomuntu siqu. Ngemva kokuthuthukisa inkulumo nokukhulisa isilulumagama, siyazihlakulela, ukuqonda kwethu, amandla okucabanga. Ungakwandisa kanjani isilulumagama, ngaphandle kokuchitha isikhathi esiphelele ekuvumelaneni nesichazamazwi?
Ungakwandisa kanjani silulumagama esebenzayo?
Okokuqala, qaphela ukuthi yiziphi amagama ozisebenzisayo. Gcina ithrekhi yenkulumo yakho evamile yansuku zonke. Uthini? Yebo, cishe njalo, ngoba ekukhulumisaneni umuntu usebenzisa isethi ethile yamagama nemishwana edingekayo. Futhi ingxenye enkulu kakhulu yalolu silulumagama nsuku zonke libhekisela ekukhulumeni okungenamazwi, okungukuthi, isenzo nesimo sobuso.
Ukuthuthukisa nokwandisa amagama akho, kufanele uqale ukukhuluma. Lokhu kuyona esemqoka futhi ebaluleke kakhulu. Xoxa kabanzi, khuluma, tshela. Kulokhu, ukukhuluma ngendlela yokwandisa isilulumagama ekukhulumisaneni, ungaxhumana kuphela ngesikhathi sokuxhumana kwangempela ne-interlocutor, kodwa futhi ngosizo lwemiyalezo ye-SMS noma i-intanethi. Ukubhala imilayezo kuyindlela enhle yokwandisa isilulumagama. Into esemqoka: ukubhala indlela okhuluma ngayo, ngakho-ke ulimi olukhulunywayo, futhi akulona i-syllable enhle noma enhle. Kufanele ubhale njengoba ucabanga. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, enkulumweni ebhaliwe, kulula ukuthi kunesikhathi sokukhetha igama elifanele noma ukulungisa konke ngendlela efanele, kuyilapho ngokuvamile kungenakho ingxoxo "yangempela" yaleso sikhathi.
Kodwa udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi ukubhala ngeke kususele ukukhulunywa, ngakho udinga ukuxhumana, ukuxhumana nokuxhumana futhi. Umkhuba omuhle ukubuyisela amabhayisikobho ajwayelekile namabhuku afundwayo. Kuzuzisa ukukhuluma ngabo ngokuningiliziwe, ukukhuluma mayelana nokubonakala kwakho, mayelana nesakhiwo, ngezikhathi ezithile ezingakhohlwa. Uma ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngefilimu kungakapheli imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu, lokhu sekuvele kuyisitatimende selulumagama nolwazi lokukhuluma kahle.
Izincwadi ezandisa ulwazi lwesilulumagama
Ngokuvamile ukufunda noma yiziphi izincwadi kuyindlela enhle kakhulu yokwandisa amagama akho. Incwadi ngayinye isebenzisa amagama angaba yizinkulungwane ezintathu,
Kodwa uma sikhuluma ngezinto ezithile, kufanelekile ukunaka, okokuqala, ezincwadini zakudala. Kungaba kokubili amaRussia nabangaphandle. U-Bulgakov, u-Dostoevsky, u-Wilde, uHugo njalonjalo. I-stylistics yenkulumo enhle iqinisekisiwe. Abalobi banamuhla sebevele bengenalo isilawuli esinamandla kangaka, kodwa phakathi kwabo kukhona abaningi abhala ngolimi oluhle nolwazi lokubhala.
Ungabheka izincwadi ezithandwayo zesayensi. Isibonelo, "Ubuciko be-Oratorical for Wabasaqalayo" nguBosunov noma "IsiGama" nguRubinstein. Ezincwadini, izindlela zokwandisa amagama nesimo sokufunda ukukhuluma zichazwe ngokucacile futhi kalula.