Ukuzibonakalisa komuntu kuyisidingo esingokwemvelo somuntu, okungafani nhlobo wonke umuntu. Naphezu kokuba umphakathi wanamuhla uvame ukusiqhubela emingceleni ethile futhi usishukumisele ukuba sibe nokuziphatha okuthile futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nezingubo nokubukeka, umuntu ngamunye ufuna ukuthola isikhathi sokuba yena. Ukuziphatha eyunivesithi noma emsebenzini kuyinto eyodwa, futhi-ke, lezi akuzona izindawo lapho kuzodingeka khona ukubonisa ubuntu bakho ngokugqamile. Kodwa esikhathini sakhe sokuphumula sokunciphisa isidingo sakhe sokuziveza akukhuthazwa.
Inkululeko nokwesaba kokuziveza
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukukhulumisana komuntu mahhala, futhi izinkinga ezikhona lokhu ziholela ezinkingeni eziningi. Kungani kubaluleke kangaka?
- Ukuzivocavoca ngumthombo otholakala kakhulu futhi onamandla wenjabulo nenjabulo;
- ukuzwakalisa ukuzwakalisa futhi kuphazamisa ukukhathala nokungabi nandaba;
- Ukuziveza ngokwakho kuyindlela elula yokuqonda nokwazi, ukuthuthukisa ngokwakho izici ezithile;
- ukuzwakalisa ukuzwakalisa ukuzethemba nokwenza ukuzethemba;
- ukuziveza ngokwakho kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola abantu abanomqondo ofanayo futhi uthole abangane emoyeni.
Uma umuntu ngesizathu esithile engakwazi ukuzibandakanya ngokuziveza ekuzikhulumeni kwakhe, lokho kuholela ekunciphiseni ukuzethemba, ukuncintisana nezinkimbinkimbi eziningi. Kubantu abaningi, ukuzwakalisa ukuzibonakalisa kungumgomo wokuphila, futhi akuyona ingozi: umuntu odala ngokukhululekile futhi engagqoki imiski ukhululekile futhi ujabule kakhulu kunabanye.
Izindlela zokuzibonakalisa
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wonke umuntu athole uhlobo lwakhe lokuziveza. Kumuntu othile - impumelelo yomsebenzi neyomsebenzi - kumuntu - ubuciko noma ukusekela, ukuze umuntu avele. Cabangela okukhethwa kukho.
- Ukuzivocavoca komuntu kulo msebenzi. Njengoba bethi, umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu uyisimo sokuzilibazisa esikhokhelwa kakhulu. Uma ulawula ukuziveza emsebenzini, zicabange njengomunye wabantu abajabula kakhulu, ngoba abantu abaningi basebenza nje indlela yokukhokha. Ngokuvamile ukuzibonakalisa kwalolu hlobo kungenzeka kubantu abasebenza ngobuciko, kodwa uma ungumholi ozelwe futhi ube nesimo esiholayo - lokhu kungabhekwa njengento yokuziveza.
- Ukuzivocavoca ekudaleni. Lolu hlobo luphumelela kangangokuthi ekucwaningweni kwengqondo indlela yokuzibonakalisa kokudala isetshenziselwa ukusiza umuntu ukuba aqhube imizwelo noma axazulule izinkinga ezithile zangaphakathi. Uke waphawula ukuthi azikho yini lezo zinkondlo eziningi nezithombe ezinhle? Amaphephandaba nabaculi bazama ukuphuma ephepheni nasendlini, ikakhulukazi imizwelo emibi, inkulumo ecacile noma ubuhlungu. Lokhu akuyona ingozi: iqiniso liwukuthi lapho umuntu ekhuluma, umuntu unqoba ubuhlungu bakhe, unqobe inkinga yakhe. Akukhathaleki ukuthi "uziveza kanjani": bhala izinkondlo, ukudansa, ukucula, ukugcoba isiphambano noma wenze isithombe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, yenza njalo ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze uthole injabulo enkulu futhi uzuze. Uma ungakazitholi wena - zama yonke into ngayinye uze uthole okuthile okuthandayo.
- Ukuzivocavoca ngokubukeka.
Abaningi bezokwelapha bevumelana ngokubona ukuthi ukuzwakalisa kwangaphandle kwenza umuntu ajabule. Uma ungeza ubuntu emfanekisweni wakho, bonisa ukunambitheka kwakho ngesitayela, akugcini nje kukukhanyisa, kodwa kubuye kuvumelanise ingxenye yakho yangaphakathi nangaphakathi. - Ukuzivocavoca ngosizo lokuthandayo. Ososayensi baye baqaphela ukuthi abantu abalalela umculo ofanayo bavame ukuba nezici ezivamile zobumnene, umlingiswa, njll. Ukukhetha ama-movie akho owathandayo noma umculo, futhi ukhuluma nabantu abanomqondo onjalo kulezi zihloko ezithakazelisayo kuwe, nawe uhlanganyela ekuzikhulumeni kwakho.
Ukuzivocavoca kuyindlela elula yokujabula futhi ukuthola isivumelwano nezwe lakho langaphakathi. Makube khona empilweni yakho kukho konke okubonakalayo!