Ukuzibandakanya ezikhathini zethu kuyigugu lomuntu siqu ebalulekile futhi edingekayo, ngoba ikhono lokuthola ngokushesha ulimi oluvamile nabantu futhi uqalise oxhumana nabo kuyadingeka kokubili empilweni yomuntu siqu nasemsebenzini. Emisebenzini yomsebenzi, ngokuvamile kuvame ukuhlangabezana nemfuneko enjalo yomhloli womsebenzi, ikakhulu uma inkampani ifuna imenenja yokuthengisa, imenenja yemithombo yabantu, isiphathimandla sobudlelwano bomphakathi, njll.
Ukuzibandakanya - lokhu kusho ukuthini?
Kulabo abafuna ukwazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukukhulumisana, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ngabantu ababa khona ngempela empilweni yomuntu ngamunye. Abangane bentsha noma osebenza nabo emsebenzini abangathola amagama afanele kuwo wonke umuntu futhi baxoxisane kokubili kwengane encane nomuntu omdala osekhulile. Bahlale benendaba noma ibhayisikili eya endaweni, bangakwazi ukuqondisa kalula intambo yengxoxo ibe nesiqondiso esihle uma bezwa ukuthi ukuxabana kuphuza. Umuntu oxhumana naye uvulekile emhlabeni, unobungane futhi unomusa ekukhulumisaneni.
- Ukukhulumisana kungabizwa ukuxhumano noma ukuxhumana, uma ingxoxo engakahleleki. "Umphefumulo wenkampani" - ngakho bathi ngabantu abanjalo.
- Ezingxoxweni zebhizinisi igama elithi "ukuxhumana" lisetshenziselwa, okusiza umuntu ukuthi athole ukuyekethisa futhi axoxisane nabantu abalungile.
- Ezingxoxweni, lokhu kuyimfanelo engavumelekile, ngoba ngaphandle kokuphumelela kulo mkhakha akunakwenzeka.
- Abethuli be-TV nabomsakazo, abasaziwayo, ama-DJ kanye nabanye abantu abathintana nabo abakwazi ukuthatha nokukhanyisa umphakathi.
- Amanethiwekhi omphakathi ahlinzeka ngamathuba amakhulu kulabo bantu abathandekayo, ikakhulukazi uma benamandla okudala.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ukuxhumana?
Kumele masinyane sithi akuwona wonke umuntu olambile ukuxhumana angabizwa ngokuthi ukuxhumana. I-bore borele ingabhekwa njengenjabulo? I-brawler, nje efuna isizathu sokuhlukunyezwa? Abanye bakhuluma kakhulu kangangokuthi akukuvumeli ukuthi ufake amagama. Uxhunyiwe kakhulu engxoxweni engenalutho ukuthi bona ngokwabo abaqapheli ukuthi bachitha kanjani isikhathi sabo se-interlocutor. Kuphinde kwenzeke ukuthi umuntu onobucayi nomuntu ozimele uveza yena esimweni esithile lapho ezwa ukuthi ungene "ensimini" yakhe, futhi isihloko senkulumo siyamthakazelisa kakhulu futhi siyazijwayele. Kungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukwakha amakhono akho okukhulumisana futhi, okokuqala, kufanele uzame ukuvuleka ngomqondo weminye imibono yabantu.
Kubonisa isithakazelo kubantu, bezama ukuqonda izifiso zabo, imizwa kanye nokwesaba , kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi banelungelo lokuveza ngokucacile imibono yabo futhi balungele ukuqaphela umqondo wabo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwandisa ama-horizons akho, ufunde okuningi futhi uzifundele. Lokhu kuzokwandisa ukuzethemba, ngoba umuntu owaziyo ezindabeni eziningi ngeke asabe esaba nokuxhumana, uzokwazi ukuphendula imibuzo futhi uma kunesidingo, cela okuthile noma uchaze.
Kuyinto engavumelekile-engavumelani ukuvuma, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela ungamcasula umxhumanisi, kodwa futhi ungene empikiswaneni naye, uvikela umbono wakhe, futhi uvikele imizwa yomphikisi. Umsizi weqiniso uzoba amahlaya: kuzohlala njalo kusiza ekuqedeni isimo futhi uhlele izixhumanisi zakho. Nika izingane zakho isibonelo esihle sokungeneka nokuvuleka, futhi zizokulandela ezinyathelweni zakho, zibe ngabantu abaxhumana nabo.