Ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu kubonakala kaningi ngokuxhumana . Umuntu ubeka isitatimende sakhe sokudlulisela komunye, ngokusekelwe ezinhlobonhlobo zezici. Okubaluleke kakhulu kubo kuyisiko labantu, izici ezihlukahlukene zelwimi namasiko, ukukhuliswa kanye nezinga lentuthuko kanye nemfundo yomuntu.
Izici zokuziphatha kwenkulumo
Inkulumo ayitholakali ngenxa yamazwi amahle kanye nokwakhiwa kwamazwi. Inhloso yalo enkulu ukusiza abantu bahlanganyele. Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, izici eziyinhloko zokuziphatha kwenkulumo ziyi:
- inkulumo ihlale iqondiswa ezithameli ezithile;
- inkulumo ihlale inenhloso;
- uhlobo lwezinkulumo luyonqunywa isimo;
- Ukuziphatha ngomlomo kunqunywa yiqoqo lemithetho, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo sinomlingiswa ngamunye.
Izindlela zokuziphatha zokukhuluma
Indlela yokukhuluma kufanele ihole umphumela oqondile. Ukukhulumisana okungalungile kungabangela umuntu ukuba angafinyeleli lokho akufunayo. Ukukhuluma inkulumo kusho ukuqonda isimo futhi usesho isiqondiso sokuthinta abaxhumanisi ukuze kuzuzwe umgomo wokuxhumana.
Izindlela zokuziphatha zokukhuluma zisetshenziswa kakhulu ekukhangiseni nasekukhangiseni. Zisekelwe emithethweni yelogical and psychology yethonya.
Izinhlobo zokuziphatha kwenkulumo
Izinhlobo zokuziphatha zokukhuluma ziqhathaniswa nezinga lokuthuthukiswa komuntu, izici zomsebenzi wengqondo kanye ne-psyche. Kuye ngokuthi
- abaqhubi bezinhlelo - banembile ezitatimendeni, njengezibalo, kunzima ukusabela lapho kushintshwa isimo senkulumo;
- abacabangi bathanda ukubonisa, bayakwazi ukuthola iziphetho ezithakazelisayo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi basuswa esihlokweni esiyinhloko senkulumo;
- izinkondlo - zihamba kahle kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezilimi, zingatshela izindaba ezinhle, kodwa kunzima kubo ukwakha imibiko yesayensi nemibiko;
- abaholi - bahlale begcina izilaleli zabo emkhakheni wombono, bayakwazi ukuthonya kahle futhi baqinisekise ukufaneleka kwabo.
Nakuba izimiso zokuziphatha zomlomo zinezimiso ezicacile, ngayinye yalezi zinhlobo izozisebenzisa ngendlela yazo, ngokucabangela imigomo nezici zabo.