Yiqiniso, abazali abanandaba nezingane zabo mayelana nezinguquko ezizayo, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi izenzo zabo kanye nokuziphatha kwabo kunomthelela ekwenzeni inqubo. Namuhla sizokhuluma ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani nokuthi senze kanjani ukuthi ingane ijwayele ukuya enkulisa, kanye nezwi ezinye izincomo ezijwayelekile zesazi sengqondo.
Iseluleko sezengqondo ngesimo sengane enkulisa
Indlela yokuphila, eyakhekile yokuphila imvuthuluka "iyawa" phambi kwamehlo ethu. Ngokungangabazeki, ngenxa yengane leyo inguquko igxilile, ngakho-ke akufanelekile ukucabanga ukuthi ingane izohamba ngokujabula futhi ihlale igcinwa ekunakekeleni othisha abasanda kujwayelana. Umsebenzi womama nabesilisa manje kufanele uzivumelanise nesimo sengqondo esihle, ube nesineke, futhi ulungiselele futhi uwethule ingane emininingwaneni ephezulu. Ukulandela iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo ukuthi ukulinganisa ingane enkulisa kuyashesha futhi kungenabuhlungu, abazali badinga:
- kusengaphambili, cishe izinyanga ezingu-2-3 ziqala ukukhuluma ngezinkulisa, ungafunda izindaba ezinhle ngokuvakashela inkulisa, ngezinye izikhathi uhambe ensimini yayo, udlale izindaba ngesikhathi sokudlala imidlalo;
- khuluma ngetekisi kanye nabafundisi phambi kwengane kuphela. Ngaphandle kwalokho ungakhipha ukukhathazeka kwakho, isibonelo, mayelana nekhwalithi yokudla noma ikhono lomfundisi.
- cishe inyanga ngaphambi kokuqala kokuvakashelwa, kuyadingeka ukuthi ubuyekeze isimiso sosuku ngalunye semvuthuluka bese sisondeza ensimini.
Ngokuqondene nezinsizwa ezisuvele ziqale ukuya ezikoleni zangaphambi kwesikole, iseluleko kubazali mayelana nendlela yokusiza ingane ukuba ifundele enkulisa yile ndlela elandelayo:
- Ekuqaleni akufanele ushiye i-crumb engadini isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora amabili;
- ngezimpelasonto, kubalulekile ukunamathela embusweni osungulwe ku-DOW;
- ukubeka imvuthu ukulala ekuseni, ukuze ugweme izinkinga ngokuvuka ekuseni;
- ngemuva kokuvakashela inkulisa, umuntu kufanele abe nesithakazelo sokuthi ingane ihambile kanjani ngosuku, gcizelela okwengeziwe ngezici ezinhle;
- lapho kusetshenziselwa ukuzivumelanisa, abazali baqotho ngokweqile kwi-vagaries yengane - bavame ukubangelwa ukuhlelwa kwesimiso sezinzwa;
- ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula ukuze akhokhele kakhulu, ukukhombisa uthando nokubonisa umusa;
- kungabandakanyi ukulayisha ngokwemvelo;
- yakha isimo esinokuthula nokuthula ekhaya;
- abazali kufanele bahlale bezolile futhi bezethemba ngesikhathi sokuphumula, ingane isheshe "ifunde" ukungaqiniseki nokukhathazeka, ngakho ukukhathazeka kwakhe kuphakama;
- uma behlukanisa, kubalulekile ukuchaza ingane ngokucacile isikhathi lapho umama noma ubaba ezayo emva kwakhe, ngakho uzozizwa ehlazekile;
- Kungcono ukucabanga ngomkhuba wakho wokuhlehlisa, emva kwalokho ungashiya ngokuphepha;
- ukuzolalisa ingane, nokufakaza kuye ukuthi unina uzoyithatha, ungalahlekelwa yilo mdlalo ngesikhathi sokudlala imidlalo noma ufunde indaba yezinganekwane.
Yiqiniso, kuzo zonke izingane ezijwayele ukuzivumelanisa ziyenzeka ngezindlela ezahlukene, kanti isikhathi sazo sibuyehluka, kodwa ngendlela ekwazi ukuyenza, abazali bayakwazi ukwenza le nqubo ingabi yinkimbinkimbi futhi ikhuphule.