Ukungqubuzana kwesithakazelo

Nsuku zonke sixhumana nabantu abaningi abahlukene. Omunye usondelene nathi futhi sithola injabulo ekukhulumeni nabo, kanye nomuntu okumele axoxe nezimo (umsebenzi, ukutadisha, ukuthola izinsizakalo, njll). Kodwa naphezu kokuphikisana okufanayo noma ukuzwelana, zonke izinhlobo zezingxabano zivela phakathi kwethu, akunakugwemeka. Ukungqubuzana kwezinto ezithakazelisayo kungenye yezizathu ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuxabana, ngisho naphakathi kwabantu abaseduze, ngisho naphezu kokuthi, ngokugcwele, baphatha kahle futhi bathandane.

Izibonelo zezingxabano ezithakazelisayo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke zingatholakala kuzo zonke izinyathelo: izingane azikwazi ukuhlanganyela ithoyizi enkulisa; i-TV eyodwa emndenini - umfazi ufuna ukubuka lo mdlalo, futhi umyeni uyibhola; Amadoda amabili azama ukunqoba intombazane eyodwa; isihlalo esisodwa samahhala ezokuthutha, lapho bonke labo abangene khona basebenza khona, njll.

Ukungqubuzana kwesithakazelo namafomu awo

Ngamunye wethu unendawo yakhe eyithakazelisayo futhi kusukela engakanani esisebenza ngayo ekuphileni kunempahla yokwandisa. Futhi uma kwenzeka omunye umuntu engasebenzi futhi ekhulisa izingxenye zakhe, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi izindawo zakho zingase ziwele ngesikhathi esithile. Ngakho kukhona ukungqubuzana. Ngokwengqondo, umbono wezingxabano zentshisekelo ngolwimi lwesiLatini uhunyushwa njengokushayisana futhi kusho enye yezinhlobo zezimo lapho amaqembu amabili noma ngaphezulu efuna into eyodwa yenzuzo.

Uma sikhuluma ngezibonakaliso zokungqubuzana kwezintshisekelo, yizo:

1. Ukuba khona kwezinto kanye nesimo, okuyinto ngayinye ezithakazelisayo zabo ezibona, njengokungqubuzana.
2. Ukungabonakali kwezinto eziphikisanayo noma into, okungukuthi, ayikwazi ukuhlukaniswa, ingahamba kumuntu oyedwa kuphela.
3. Isifiso samaqembu ukuba aqhubekele isimo samanje sokungqubuzana nokungafuni ukuvumelana.

Ngakho-ke, ukungafani kokuphikisana kwezintshisekelo ukuthi bonke abahlanganyeli banesithakazelo kuwo futhi wonke umuntu ucabanga ngokwabo. Lokhu kusongela ukuthi uma ukucabanga kwesuhlelo lohlelo nokuhlelwa kwabo kuzongena ezenzweni ngokwazo, isimo esiyingozi sizoqala - ngokuqondile ukuxabana ngokwayo, okungukuthi ukuphikisana kwezintshisekelo zabahlanganyeli bayo.

Ukungqubuzana kwesisombululo sesithakazelo

Ukuze ugweme lokhu, izindlela ezinhlanu eziyinhloko zokuxazulula ukungqubuzana kwezintshisekelo zibonakala:

1. Okokuqala, ukuncintisana, okuboniswa ngesifiso somuntu ngamunye ukuze afinyelele isithakazelo sakhe, ngisho noma kwenzeka okwemunye umuntu.
2. Okwesibili, ukuzivumelanisa, okungukuthi, ukuzinikela kwezithakazelo zabo ngenxa yezinhloso zomunye umuntu.
3. Okwesithathu, ukuthola ukuyekethisa - okungukuthi, isivumelwano esisekelwe ekuvumelaneni kokubili. Loluhlobo lokuxazululwa kwemibango yezintshisekelo lungaboniswa ekuhlinzekeni izinketho ezisusa ukuphikisana okuye kwavela.
4. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuxazululwa kwengxabano kungabanjwa ngokugwema, lapho bobabili bengenaso isifiso sokuhlanganiswa, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo akukho mlingisi wokufeza imigomo yabo.
5. Futhi ekugcineni, ukubambisana, kwenzeka lapho abahlanganyeli besesimweni bethola okunye okukwazi ukugcwalisa ngokugcwele izithakazelo zeqembu ngalinye.

Kungaba yini okuphelele ekuqaliseni ubuciko bokuvimbela izingxabano zesithakazelo, isibonelo, emndenini wakho, emsebenzini, njll. Kubalulekile ukuba nesithakazelo kumalungu omndeni wabo, ozakwabo, izithakazelo zabo nemibono yabo. Kulesi simo, hhayi kuphela ukuba nesithakazelo ezimfanelo ezinhle, kodwa futhi unake ubunzima, kuzokusiza ukuthi uxhumana nabo kangcono. Udinga futhi ikhono lokulalela nokuzwa abanye, izimfanelo ezinjalo ziyigugu kakhulu kunekhono lokukhuluma. Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukulandela ukugxekwa kwakho, ngemuva kwakho konke, konke kuyaziwa ukuthi kuhle ngokulinganisela, kungcono uma ukugxekwa kungabonakali, futhi kufakwe isembozo, ukuze kungabi imbangela, kepha kuqhubekela phambili ekuthuthukiseni. Qaphela ngama-oda, uqonde futhi wamukele amaphutha akho, kanye neminye amaphutha abantu, simomeza kaningi futhi masihlale ndawonye!