Izinganekwane ziyingxenye yomcabango , kodwa futhi kukhona okujulile, okungaqondakali futhi okungaqondakali. Kuyinto isethulo semifanekiso ejwayele kanye nezinto eziyisihluthulelo esisha, ukuguqulwa kwamandulo nokudala okusha! Uma abantu behluleka ukucabanga, khona-ke ngeke kube khona ukutholakala, ubuchwepheshe, imidwebo, izingoma, izincwadi. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukuthuthukisa ingqondo yakho, ingqondo yakho kanye nezingane zakho. Indlela yokuthuthukisa umcabango wengane nomuntu omdala? Izindlela ezenzelwe lokhu, zifanele kokubili;
Indlela yokuqala "Abangane abacabangelayo"
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ingqondo nokucabanga? Thola umngane ongacabangi, ngisho noma ungazange ube ngumntwana isikhathi eside! Ososayensi baseMelika baqinisekisa ukuthi abantu ababenabangane abanobucayi besencane, baba ngabantu abadala, babe nomcabango othuthukile. Futhi bajabule kakhulu, banomusa futhi banokucindezeleka . Umngane ongacabangi, empeleni, ingqondo yethu ehlakaniphile engqondweni, eye yaba yinto enjani. Kungaba ngumntwana, isilwane, isidalwa sezinganekwane. Umngane onjalo uyosiza ukunqoba ukucindezeleka, ukubhekana nokwesaba, isizungu, ube namandla.
Uma ungumuntu omdala, cabanga nje ngokuthi uyidalwa, unikeze izimfanelo ezingenaso ekuphileni. Ngamazwi "uxoxe" naye ngaphambi kokwenza izinqumo. Ngaphambilini, udinga ukucabanga - ucabange ukubonakala kwakhe, igama, izingubo, umlingiswa. Uma ungazi ukuthi ungakha kanjani inganekwane yakho, mtshele ngale ndlela, fantasize ndawonye. Uzobona, lokhu ngeke nje kube ukuvivinya umzimba okuwusizo, kodwa futhi umdlalo othakazelisayo!
Indlela yesibili ukudala
Le ndlela ibuye ibe mkhulu ekuthuthukiseni iphutha kokubili abadala nabantwana. Noma yiluphi uhlobo lobuciko oluzofanelana nawe, ungakwazi ukudweba, ukusetha izindabakwane, ukubhala izinkondlo, ukuqoshwa kwipulasitiki, ukubhala umculo. Ngisho noma ungewona umuntu wokudala (okungukuthi, cabanga kanjalo), qalisa ukudala, imibono emisha, izithombe ezikhanyayo zizofika kakade enkambisweni. Khumbula, kunalokho owafisa ukuhlanganyela ebuntwaneni, futhi uhlanganyele kuwo manje!
Le ndlela ifaneleka ekuthuthukiseni inganekwane, ngoba izingane ziyizici zangempela zokudala. Faka, bhala, udwebe nabo. Ukudweba izidalwa zezinganekwane, omunye angakwazi ukwakha izindaba eziphathelene nabo, batshelane ngokuphathelene nabo
Indlela yesithathu - ukuthuthukisa imidlalo emnandi
Ungakwazi ukusungula imidlalo enjalo ngokwakho. Isibonelo, ungafunda ikhasi lokuqala lanoma yiliphi indaba noma indaba, bese ufika ngokulandela. Enye umdlalo omnandi ukudweba ephepheni noma yiziphi izikhalazo ukuthi umdlali wesibili kufanele "aqedele" okuthile okubonakalayo. Ngisho nalapho uhamba phansi emgwaqweni, ungakwazi ukucabanga, ukuqamba izindaba zokuphila ngabantu abakuzungezile.
Kunezindlela eziningi ezakha ukucabanga. Zisebenze ngokwakho, futhi uzophumelela!