Mhlawumbe, abaningi okungenani babebuza umbuzo, ukuthini uthando lwe-platonic? Lobudlelwane, obungewona uzwela, bakhelwe kuphela ngokomoya, babalulekile izimfanelo ezingokwengqondo nezingokomoya kwesigamu sesibili.
Umqondo wothando lwe-platonic
Uthando lunobuso obuningi. Uthando ngomama, ngenxa yamazwe omama, ngomntwana, ngomsebenzi wakhe. Uthando ekuboneni kokuqala, ukungathandabuzeki, ukungenakulinganiswa, okuphakeme nangokomoya. Uthando lwePlato lubuhlobo obuncane phakathi kwabantu abasekelwe ekukhangeni okungokomoya, ngokwanele nangothando oluqotho. Uthando lukaPlato luhambisana negama lefilosofi uPlato. Wayelokhu ebhala ngothando olungokomoya. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi sekuye ukuthi uthando lukaPlato luyithando ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho nomphefumulo wakho, ngaphandle kokukhangwa ngokocansi.
Esikhathini sethu, lolu hlobo luthando lwaqala ukuvela kaningi kakhulu, ngenxa yokuthi akukho cishe izithiyo zokuxhumana okusheshayo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane.
Uthando lwePlato luyenzeka uma umuntu ekhuliselwe phezulu. Kuleyo mindeni lapho bebona khona futhi behlonipha amasiko, kazwelonke noma enkolo. Izinkolo eziningi ziphikisana nobudlelwane obuseduze ngaphambi komshado, ngakho abathandi bathanda imibono yomunye nomunye, babhale izinkondlo ngaphambi komshado. Uthando olunjalo alubangela ukuzwelana, ukukhathazeka kanye nemizwelo, naphezu kokungabikho kocansi. Lezi zimzwa lapho ukukhangwa ngokocansi kucindezelwa khona.
Uthando lukaPlato luhlala isikhathi esingakanani?
Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi imizwa yangempela ayikwazi nje ukuba yi-platonic kuphela. Futhi omunye uzothi uthando ngemvelo kufanele lube yi-platonic, ngoba nguye omsulwa futhi ogqamile kakhulu. Uthando luhluke kakhulu.
Uthando lukaPlato nobungane?
Uthando lwePlato luyinto eqondakalayo njengomqondo wokuqonda, ukunamathiselwa, ukuthembela ngokomzwelo nokusekelwa. Kodwa uthando olunjalo lungadideka nomzwelo esibizwa ngokuthi ubungane. Vumelana ukuthi ubungane luyothando olufanayo, kuphela ngaphandle kocansi. Sifuna ukuba njalo nomuntu esikudonsa naye futhi sichithe isikhathi esengeziwe ndawonye. Kodwa lezi zifiso zihlobo oluthile. Awusikhangi kumuntu. Sifuna nje ukuba khona, kodwa uma kunjalo asinayo imizwa esiyizwayo lapho sithandana. Lapho, njengomthetho, isilwane semvelo nesifiso socansi siphapheme. Kodwa enye yilapho umuntu ngokucophelela edonsa izifiso ezinjalo futhi azibophezele othandweni lwe-platonic. Isizathu salokhu singase sikhuliswe, sisebancane, ukuhlangana kwenkolo, njalonjalo.
U-ngothando lukaPlato, yini okufanele uyenze?
Kunezikhathi lapho leyo nsizwa eqala ubudlelwane be-platonic. Kulokhu, intombazane ingaqiniseka ukuthi umfana akalawuli ukukhangwa ngokocansi futhi uyathanda ngempela. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuba okungaqondakali kumantombazane asetshenziselwa ezinye ubudlelwane. Khona-ke kufanele nje ukhulume ngale ndaba neseyinsizwa bese uthola isizathu. Uma, noma kunjalo, wakhulelwa futhi engowokholo olunye, khona-ke luhlala lubuyiselwa. Ngempela, uma umthanda, uzoqonda. Ekugcineni, khumbula ukuthi isizukulwane esidala sithatha ukuziphatha okunjalo njengokujwayelekile. Futhi imindeni eminingi yayinamandla kunanamuhla. Yiqiniso, ngamunye womunye nomlando wawo akufanele ukhethe izinga. Kodwa nokho, hlaziya okwenzekayo, futhi ungazishiyi echibini ngekhanda lakho, bese uqala ukukhala izinyembezi.
Ekuphetheni, ngifuna ukusho lokho ngaphambi kokuba sanele ukuhlala nomfana owakuthandayo kuze kube sebusuku ebhentshini futhi engacabangi ngento engathà sina. Uthando luyingoma, uthando lwePlatosi yindabakwane. Jabulela le ndaba yezinganekwane, ngoba inezinzuzo eziningi, ezisezweni lanamuhla abantu abambalwa abaqaphelayo.