Uma iqiniso lokungathengiswa lifakazelwe futhi kukhona isifiso sokuphindisela kumlingani wakho, ungabe usuqeda umkhuhlane futhi ungcono ukuhlela uhlelo oluthile lokusebenza. Okokuqala kudingeke ukuba kuchazwe ngalokho okufunayo ebuhlotsheni obuzayo, okungukuthi, kuyoba khona isehlukaniso noma cha. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi kunesifiso sokulondoloza umndeni, kubalulekile ukuthi wenze ngokuqapha okukhulu. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungaziphindiselela kanjani umyeni wakho ngenxa yokuhlubuka nokukhwabanisa, khumbula ukuthi umgomo oyinhloko ukuvumela ukuthi oshade naye azi ukuthi angaphila nokuthi ubuhlungu abuphi. Izazi zengqondo aziphakamisi ukuba zenze imizwelo, ngoba ungenza izinto oyozisola esikhathini esizayo.
Iseluleko sengqondo sokuziphindiselela kumyeni wakhe ngokuphinga
Ngifuna nje ukusho ukuthi ngeke sinikeze izindlela ezingabangela izinqubo zomthetho.
Iseluleko esiwusizo sokuphindisela kumyeni wakhe ngokuhlubuka:
- Indlela ephumelela kunazo zonke eyomenza oshade naye azisole ukukhohlisa - yiba okhangayo kakhulu futhi ujabule. Yiya salon beauty, hamba ukudla, thola okuzilibazisa futhi uthuthuke. Zama ukujabulela zonke izinsuku, futhi vumela umthengisi ucabange ukuthi ubani obangela injabulo yakho nokuthi ungamnqoba kanjani owesifazane onjalo.
- Ukuze uziphindiselele ngokuhlubuka, ungahamba ngendlela efanayo, okungukuthi, uzitholele u-fan, futhi ungcono kuneziningana. Imikhakha yamadoda ngeke iphakamise ukuzethemba kwayo kuphela , kodwa yenza umlingani wakho acabange ukuthi umkakhe angasuswa.
- Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungabuyisela kanjani umyeni wakho ngokukopela ngokokuziphatha, khona-ke usuke upheleleke empilweni yakhe isikhashana. Isibonelo, ungaya eholidini noma kubazali bakho. Uma kungenjalo, khona-ke zama ukuvele uvele ekhaya, ubuyele kahle. Ukuziphatha okunjalo ngokuqinisekile kuyokwenza umlingani abe nexhala.
- Yeka ukuba yinkosikazi. Ezimweni eziningi, amadoda abathokozi lokho abafazi bawo abakwenzayo nsuku zonke, ngakho-ke bayeke ukugeza izinto, ulungise ukudla okumnandi, njll.