Ngokuvamile abantu basebenzisa okuthiwa "izinqamuleli", nakuba bengasazi ukuthi basho ukuthini, lokhu kusebenza nakwabesifazane. Amadoda amaningi abiza abesifazane abangeke "baxoxwe" ngabesifazane, nakuba leli gama alungile ngokuphelele lapha.
Ubani abafazi?
Ukuvula i-Wikipedia nokufunda incazelo yaleli gama, konke kuhamba endaweni. Kusobala futhi ngokucacile ukuthi abesifazane besifazane balwela amalungelo afanayo namadoda. Isiqubulo - "indoda enobulili obuqinile", sekuyisikhathi eside singenzi lutho. Lokhu kusemphakathini wokuqala, amadoda ayengabanikazi, futhi abesifazane besakha indlu yomndeni, namuhla konke kuhlukile. Abesifazane basebenza ezimayini, babe nemishini eyinkimbinkimbi emafenjini, baqhume amabhasi namaloli okulahla, ngokujwayelekile, babhekane nanoma yikuphi "umsebenzi wesilisa". Ukwandisa, kunabesifazane abakhathazekile ngamadoda ngakho-ke baba namandla futhi bangenakukwazi ukungena.
Isibonelo esihle i-heroine ye-movie ethandwayo "UMoscow akakholelwa izinyembezi" uKaterina. Owesifazane ngenxa yezimo zokuphila nobuthakathaka bomuntu othandekayo, uye waba namandla futhi azimele. Wafinyelela ekugcineni komsebenzi wakhe, wathenga indlu yakhe, wafunda ukushayela imoto futhi wadumazeka kakhulu emadodeni.
Uma sicabangela owesifazane wesimanje, ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuthola ukungezwani okuvela kulo mfanekiso. Amantombazane amaningi ayakhathazeka ngokuzikhandla nokuzikhandla, hhayi ekhaya induduzo nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Yingakho kwakukhona umkhuba onjalo njengowesifazane, okungukuthi, ukulingana kwezenhlalo kwamadoda nabesifazane.
Umbono ongalungile
Inkinga enkulu emphakathini wanamuhla ukungazi nokungazi. Umbono wokuthi owesifazane uyindoda enobudlova, enjengomuntfu nowomuntu ongalungile akulungile.
- Ukuvuthwa kubumbene cishe wonke umuntu, ngoba lokhu kuyisabela ekukhuthazeni. Lokhu akuwona ukubonakaliswa komlingiswa wesilisa, kodwa cishe cishe nje isifo sengqondo. Phela, namuhla yikhulu leminyaka, lapho izinkinga zidinga ukuxazululwa ngaphandle kobudlova, kodwa ngokuzombusazwe. Ngakho-ke, ukucabanga ukuthi bonke abesifazane abanobudlova besifazane bayisiphukuphuku.
- Ukwesifazane owesifazane kungancika ezintweni ezihlukahlukene, kodwa hhayi ngokuqondene nesifazane. Isizathu singaba, isibonelo, ukuphazamiseka kwe-hormonal, imfundo engafanele, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo nokunye ukucindezeleka.
- Iqiniso lokuthi abesifazane balwela ukulingana ngokobulili akusho ukuthi bayazonda abantu. Abaningi abesifazane abanjalo bayajabula ebuhlotsheni, othandekayo nabathandekayo. Inzondo eyimfihlo ngokuvamile yinkinga yowesifazane othile oye wahlangabezana nokucindezeleka okukhulu empilweni yakhe, ehlobene nobulili obuhlukile.
Ukungabi nabulungisa kwangempela
Kukhona imibono emphakathini ongakhubekisa ngempela abesifazane abaningi abaphumelelayo. Isibonelo, uma umuntu ezuze okuningi emisebenzini yakhe, unemoto nendawo yokuhlala, ngakho wonke umuntu ubheka ukuthi uphumelele futhi usebenza kanzima, nabesifazane abanesimo esifanayo senhlalakahle -
Kuyamukelwa ezweni lanamuhla ukuthi owesifazane akami esitofu isikhathi eside imini nobusuku, futhi akahlanganisi amasokisi omyeni wakhe. Owesifazane wanamuhla uzama ukuzibonela, ukuthola indawo ekhululekile emphakathini futhi empeleni uthole indoda efanelekayo angayakha ubuhlobo bomndeni obuqinile. Into eyinhloko indoda ezoziqhenya ngayo lokho okulandelayo kuye owesifazane oqinile ngempela.
Empeleni, ubukazi buyisithombe esibukwayo sezwe lanamuhla, inqubekela phambili kwezobuchwepheshe kanye nombono womphakathi. Kodwa ukuze uqonde lokhu, mhlawumbe kudingeka ushintshe okuthile kuwe, ngakho-ke iningi labesifazane lizohlala lingowesifazane omubi ozonda abantu.