Ngeshwa, impilo ayihlali njalo njengenganekwane, futhi sonke siyayithanda ngezindlela ezehlukene, ngakho-ke masizame ukubona ukuthi luhlobo luni luthando.
Phakathi kwethu akakho abantu bohlobo olufanayo, okusho ukuthi wonke umuntu ubona uthando ngendlela yakhe.
- Uthando ngumkhuba. Abantu abaningi bazi uthando, okuyinto ngezindlela eziningi akusilo uthando. Abantu nje abahlala ndawonye futhi, mhlawumbe, bengenayo imizwa ejulile, bajwayele ukujwayela: ngezinye izikhathi - kokubili, ngezinye izikhathi - omunye wabalingani. Abahlanganyeli nomuzwa ojulile, kepha, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa. Yini esaba ukulahlekelwa? Omunye - imali nenduduzo; othile - umuzwa wokulondeka nokuzinza, futhi omunye ubambe ukwesaba isizungu noma ukulahlwa kwezihlobo nabangane. Kukhona uthando-uthando kuphela.
- Kukhona olunye uhlobo luthando - lena yinkonzo yothando , lapho, ngenxa yenjabulo, inhlalakahle, umsebenzi ophumelelayo womunye, umlingani wesibili ulungele ukubeka isiphetho sakhe e-altare lokuphila. Enye indlela yothando isondelene naye: uthando ukukhulekela.
- Uthando luyaziwa -ukuzidela . Lesi yisigaba esiphezulu sobudlelwane, lapho ngenxa yenjabulo, ngisho nokuphila komuntu oshade naye, omunye ulungele ukudela impilo yakhe.
Uyini imizwa yothando?
Isilinganiso sokwemvelo sikhulu: kusukela ekuzizwa kwenjabulo nenjabulo egcwele ekuhluphekeni nenzondo.
Ake siqale nalokhu okulandelayo. Kubonakala sengathi uthando nenzondo akuhambisani, kodwa ncamashi kuze sikhumbule ukuthi kusuka komzwelo owodwa kuya kwesinye - isinyathelo esisodwa kuphela.
Ngokuqondene ne-melancholy, ine-ton of shades futhi inqunywa isimo esabangela: "Ngikukhumbula, uzofika maduzane", noma "Wangishiya, futhi angazi ukuthi ngingaphila", njll.
Kuhle uma ubudlelwane phakathi kwabalingani bakhelwa ngenhlonipho futhi kubangele ukuthokoza . Ngesikhathi esifanayo, yonke into encane ikujabulisa wena nokuthi ukhona kuleli zwe, yilokho ohlala kulo. Kodwa-ke, akunakuhlukaniswa nokukhathazeka ngomuntu othandekayo, osondelene naye futhi othandekayo.
Uthando lungenakwenzeka ngaphandle kokwethemba, okulula ukulahlekelwa, kodwa kunzima ukubuyisela. Ukungathembeki kudala umuzwa onzima kakhulu nobunzima - umhawu, oshisa phakathi kwababambisene bobabili futhi ubangele impilo yabo.
Uthando aluthuli, lukhona "izilimi" zalo, kodwa umbhangqwana ngamunye ukhuluma owakhe noma ngisho nambalwa.
Bathi ukuthi ukwazi zonke izicabha zalo mzwelo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izilimi zothando ezinhlanu ezisetshenziselwa imibhangqwana yothando.
Masikhulume ngolimi luthando
Ziyini lezi zilimi othandwayo ezikhulumayo?
Kwabanye, lawa angamazwi okukhuthazana okudingeka abalingani bobabili. Kwabanye, lokhu kungokwenqatshelwe okungafani nomlingani oyedwa okudinga kolunye. Ngendlela, abesifazane baningi amathuba okukhuluma ngolimi olunjalo. Ubuye aqonde okulandelayo - ulimi lwezipho. Ngenhlanhla, kukhona enye: ulimi losizo, ukunakekelwa, ukwesekwa. Ulimi oluhle kakhulu!
Futhi izinga eliphakeme kakhulu lolimi ukuxhumana kwangokwenyama, lapho bobabili abalingani behlukanisa phakathi komunye nomunye, behlangana ngokubodwa futhi bekhuluma ulimi olulodwa - uthando nokuthanda.
Wena uyintandokazi yami!
Eminyakeni yamuva, uma kuziwa ekuthandeni, kaningi ukukhuluma ngendlela indoda okufanele ibonakalise ngayo uthando lwakhe kwintombazane yakhe, kodwa isigamu esinamandla ngeke sikwazi ukuzwakala ukuthi siyini uhlobo lothando lomuntu.
Qaphela ukuthi akunzima kakhulu. Ethandweni
Imvelaphi yalo mzwa ophezulu ungabonwa ngokukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu zothando. Phakathi kwabo: ukucabanga komuntu othandekayo (othandekayo), isifiso sokuba ndawonye ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi nokuxazulula izinkinga eziphakama ndawonye; ukulungele ukulandela othandekayo kuze kube semikhawulweni yomhlaba nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa yikho; ukungakholelwa ekutheni uthando "lungabi" kuze kube phakade.
Uthando futhi ukhumbule ukuthi umsizi obaluleke kakhulu othandweni yinhliziyo yakho.