Akukhona nje kuphela namuhla, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, uthando olungelona uthando lwangempela aluzange lube khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uthando olungavumelani, nolunqatshelwe uthando luvame ngokwengeziwe kunokuhlukaniswa. Kubonakala sengathi lolo thando olungelona uthando luyisimo esinamandla kakhulu kunokuthandana. Kuzo zonke imizwelo engathandeki ethandekayo, ukuzwa ubuhlungu obunamandla kuhlanganiswa, okwenza zonke izinzwa ziqine futhi zibe nzima. Ake sicabangele ukukhetha lapho umuntu eqonda uthando olungelona uthando, nokuthi yini okumelwe akwenze kulokhu.
Kungani uthando lungavumelani?
Ngamunye wethu unomfanekiso omuhle womlingani wokuphila ojulile ngaphansi kokungaqondakali. Lesi sithombe asizibonakali ngokuphelele kithi, asikwazi ukukuqonda, kepha singakwazi ukufaka zonke izici eziyinhloko zobunjwa nokubukeka kumuntu onesihawu noma onentshisekelo kithi. Ngamanye amazwi, asihlangabezi nomuntu ofanelekayo, ubonakala nje kithi. Futhi kuyacaca ukuthi umuntu esiyifisa, empeleni, akunjalo neze. Lesi yisizathu sokuqala nesisisekelo sothando olungelona uthando: asikho othandweni hhayi nomuntu wangempela, kodwa ngekhono lethu, ngefantasy.
Emabhayisikobho amahle kanye ne-melodramas, uthando olungelona uthando oluhlala njalo luphela ngokuphela kokuphela okujabulisayo, kodwa empilweni yangempela kungaholela emiphumeleni embi nakakhulu. Umuntu othanda ukungabi nalutho, ukuzidela ngokwakhe, uya ngokuya ezimweni lapho angeke athole khona uthando ngokubuyisela. Kungathuthuka kuyo izinkimbinkimbi ezinkulu, ukucindezeleka nokuphazamiseka kwemizwa, ngisho nokucindezeleka isikhathi eside.
Imiphumela yothando olungelona uthando
Okubalulekile kunenkinga yokuthandana okungenakuqhathaniswa kuyinto yobudala. Into eyingozi kunazo zonke kwentsha ingaba uthando olungelona uthando. Yini okufanele uyenze kulokhu nokuthi ungayisiza kanjani intsha? Phela, lokhu akuyona umuntu ovuthiwe ongakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zakhe. Intsha ngokuvamile ithwala isithombe sayo esingaqondakali ngaphansi kwezinkanyezi ezidumile ze-movie noma izinkanyezi ze-pop. Uthando olungelona iqiniso luya enkulweni engathandeki, futhi ingane yakho ibonakala sengathi ayikho uthando olufanayo.
Abazali abaningi bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyinkinga ezodlula ngobudala, kepha intombazane idinga ukunakekelwa kunoma yikuphi, ngakho-ke ungakwazi ukuqeda imiphumela engathandeki embi. Kulesi simo, kuyoba kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi ungasiza kanjani ukukhumbula uthando olungenalo uthando lomuntu osemusha kanye nengqondo yakhe encane yengqondo. Zama ukuthakazelisa ingane ngenye into, umthole umsebenzi wangempela, qinisekisa ukuthi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi kaningi ukuxhumana nabangane bakhe. Lokhu kuzomphazamisa ekucabangeni ngothando olungelona iqiniso futhi ehlala ezweni lamafantasti namaphupho.
Siphatha uthando olungelona uthando
Kunzima kakhulu ukubhekana nothando olungavumelani nomuntu omdala. Ubuntu obubunjiweyo, owazi kahle zonke izinto zangempela zosuku, akasasekho osemusha, owamazikhathi eziningi "aphuma" izinkinga zakhe. Sizozama ukunikeza iseluleko esisebenzayo sokususa
- Thola isibindi sokuvuma ukuthi uthando lwakho aluhambisani, futhi noma yimiphi imizamo ngeke iholele kumphumela oyifunayo. Zibeke esimweni sezinto - lokhu kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuphulukisa.
- Qala ukuphila impilo yangempela ephelele. Gcwalisa yonke imininingwana yesikhathi sakho, zama ukugcina ikhanda lakho libhekene nemicabango yothando olungelona uthando.
- Zithuthukise: bhalisela izifundo zokuqeqesha, isibonelo, izifundo zolimi, ubhalisele i-gym noma umdanso, thola ukusebenza ngesikhathi sakho sokuphumula.
- Nika isikhathi sakho sokuthanda isikhathi esingekho esimweni sokufundisa esilusiza, siphulukise futhi sisenze sibe namandla. Ngikholelwa, emva kwenyanga / ngonyaka uzokwazi ukubuka emuva esikhathini esidlule ngokumomotheka.