Wena, eqinisweni, ungathanda ukuzizwa ungaphumi komncintiswano ngomuntu wakho othandekayo, ubone amehlo akhe othandana ngehora, ulalele ukuncoma, ugxile ekunakekeleni kwakhe? Ingabe ngempela iphupho elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka, elingenakutholakali, elingelona iqiniso? Namuhla, sizoxoxa ngendlela yokuba yedwa yindoda yakho, indlela yokwenza iphupho labesifazana eliphelele ligcwaliseke.
Yibani engcono kakhulu
Indlela ephumelela kunazo zonke yokwenza "ukukholisa" okhethiweyo wakhe ukuphelela ukuyenza ibe eyingqayizivele, eyingqayizivele futhi engcono kakhulu. Kalula nje, kufanele umqinisekise ukuthi nguye ongcono kakhulu. Mtshele lokhu ngokungagwegwesi, ukuthi ungumuntu ohlakaniphile kangakanani, omuhle, ongenele, futhi uzozizwa eseduze nawe njengaleyo. Uzofuna umphakathi wakho ukuze uzizwe ungcono futhi, ngoba nguwe kuphela omtshela ngokuphelela kwakhe.
Isizathu esivamile
Kodwa-ke, wena, ufuna ukuqala ngokwakho. Indlela yokuba eyingqayizivele futhi engenakufinyeleleka - ikuphazamisa kakhulu, kodwa into eyinhloko ukuthi ungakhathazeki kanjani iminyaka eminingi yokuhlala ndawonye, yilokho okwesaba abaningi.
I-psychology yamadoda nabesifazane kukhona izinto ezimbili ezihlukene. Abesifazane bafuna indoda ukuba ikhulume nabo, futhi amadoda afuna izinto zenzeke. Yebo, ibhizinisi futhi kuyadingeka - jikelele. Indoda idinga umlingani futhi kuphela ukuzwa okuye kwavela ekunqobeni ubunzima obuvamile kungakwenza ube okhethekile futhi okuyingqayizivele kuye.
Beka imigomo ejwayelekile, uma usuku nosuku unesimiso somkhuba, ungalindeli ukuvuselelwa kwemizwa evela kumyeni wakhe. Cabanga ngezizathu ezivamile ezithakazelisayo kubo bobabili, nika le ndoda indima ehamba phambili, futhi kufanele ube yisandla sakhe sokunene nesesobunxele, ngaphandle kwalokho angenakukwenza ngaphandle.
Ungamniki konke nge-saucer enomngcele ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka
Indoda kumele izuze konke, kuphela lapho ezokwazi ukuzihlonipha yona. Ungamthenga isikhundla (uma unemali), izimfanelo ezibizayo, ungenza konke esikhundleni sakhe ukuze angabi uthuli, kodwa akasoze akuthethelele ngalokhu. Uma ufuna ngempela ukwazi,
Hlangana ne-getter ngokuziqhenya
Uma indoda yakho ibuya ekhaya isuka esenzweni sayo sangaphandle, kufanele izwe njengokunqoba. Mvuswe, wambambe futhi ujwayeze ama-slippers afudumele nesidlo sakusihlwa.