Ngesikhathi sothando, abambisene nabo banothando kakhulu ngomunye nomunye ngoba aboni lutho oluzungezile. Ukuphila kwabo ngokobulili kuhlukile futhi okuvamile, okungeke kuthiwe ngobuhlobo obuseduze isikhathi eside esiphila ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa lwabantu. Izizathu zokuthi kungani indoda ingathandi umfazi, kuningi futhi kunengqondo ukubazi kangcono.
I-Monotony kanye nesimiso
Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyisizathu esivame kakhulu sokuntuleka kwesifiso somuntu. Uma abalingani bakhetha ukuhlala ndawonye, lo muntu ucabanga ukuthi manje uzolala ocansini izikhathi eziningi ngosuku, kodwa kuvela ngokuhlukile. Umndeni ungagcini nje kuphela amalungelo, kodwa futhi uvumela. Owesifazane wenza ingxenye yesifazane yemisebenzi yasendlini, indoda iyindoda, kanti nokho bobabili basebenzayo, futhi lapho ingane ivela emndenini, isikhathi singaphansi komunye nomunye. Ukuya ocansini okungajwayelekile futhi okuthakazelisayo kungaphupha kuphela - kuxhomeke esimisweni somntwana futhi uba "umsebenzi" wangempela, okungaholela ekunciphiseni isifiso.
Uma singeza lapha ukungabi nesikhathi sokuba owesifazane azizinakekele, ukuguga ngokwemvelo, okuhambisana nokuntuleka kokulala okuqhubekayo, kuvela uma kuvela. Indoda iyeke ukukhanga kumlingani ongasondeli - yingakho indoda engafuni ukulala nomkakhe. Angeke aqaphele ukuthi uthukuthele futhi unomhawu ngomkakhe, ngoba lokhu kuyinto evamile, ikakhulukazi uma umntwana engowesilisa. Yiqiniso, isifiso sanyamalala kuphela kumlingani wakho. Owesifazane ogxile ekunakekeleni ingane nje akakwazi ukucabanga nganoma yini enye. Uyakhathazeka "ngemizamo" yomyeni wakhe, futhi akaqondi ukuthi ungafuna kanjani ukulala nokhathala okunjalo.
Izimangalo ezithandanayo nokungaqondi kahle ngokombono wezengqondo yizizathu ezivame kakhulu ukuthi umfazi akafuni umyeni, futhi ngokufanayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abalingani sebevele basebenzisane njalo, bafunde zonke izibikezelo, ukuthi abalindeli lutho olusha futhi benze uthando "kumshini". Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuvame ukuthi kwenzeke ukuthi emva kokuqala komndeni womndeni, abalingani bethola ukuthi banezinhlobo ezahlukene ze- biorhythms . Omunye "i-lark", futhi umuntu "yi-owl". Ngakho-ke, isifiso esingokwemvelo salowo ozokwenza uthando ekuseni kakhulu, sigijimela odongeni lokungaboni kahle nokucasula ngenxa yokuthi abamniki i-nap.
Ubuqili
Kungumphumela wazo zonke lezi zizathu ezingokwengqondo ezichaza ukuthi kungani indoda engafuni umfazi ukuhlubuka. Umlingani ufuna futhi athole ohlangothini konke okuyeke ukutholwa emndenini - ukunakekelwa, ukunakekelwa, ukuncoma kanye nokungabikho kwezicelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inkosikazi izama ukubheka okuhle kumlingani wakho, futhi ngocansi ayikho emthethweni futhi ikulungele ukuhlolwa. Kuyacaca ukuthi ukubuyela ekhaya, indoda ayifuni umkakhe emva kokukhashelwa kwakhe, ngoba usuvele enelisekile isifiso sakhe, kodwa umfazi ongenandaba naye akahlangabezane nesisa, kodwa ngokuthuka. Iseluleko sengqondo sengqondo mayelana nendlela yokubhekana nokuthi indoda ayifuni umfazi kuyoba ingqondo: ukucubungula isimo sengqondo nokuziphatha kwakhe, ngoba kulezi zinsuku kokubili kufanele kubekwe icala.
Okokuqala kudingeka uhlale phansi futhi uhlale ukhululekile ngaphandle kokufungela konke okuxoxwa ngakho, thola ukuthi yilowo nalowo muntu ulindana. Cishe, umfazi uzokuphendula usizo lomyeni oluzwakalayo ekhaya nge-caress nemagama anomusa. Uzoba nesikhathi esengeziwe sokuba yena, enakekela ukubukeka kwakhe. Kunengqondo ukuguqula umbuthano futhi ungenzi uthando embhede womshado, kodwa kwenye indawo, isibonelo, ebhaleni. Akuyona into engafanele ukuthenga okuthile kusuka kumathoyizi wezocansi futhi uhlele umdlalo odlala indima. Uma abalingani bengakaze balahlekelwe isithakazelo ngaphambi kokuphela, futhi bafuna ukuba ndawonye, konke kulungiswa futhi konke kuxazululwa, into esemqoka ukuhlangabezana nezifiso zenye uhlangothi futhi ngobuqotho bafuna ukwenza othandekayo ajabule.