Yiqiniso, zonke izintombi ziqinisekile ukuthi indoda yakhe iyingqayizivele, bonke abesifazane abazungezile bayamncoma futhi bafuna, okungenani, ukuxhumana .
Kodwa kuthiwani uma unomhawu ngesoka lakho? Kukholelwa ukuthi umhawu uyisiphetho sabantu abangaphephile, kanye nokubonakaliswa ngokweqile komqondo wobunikazi. Umhawu ujabulisa okhethiweyo wakho uma ukhishwa ngamanani amancane. Ukubonakaliswa ngokweqile kwalo kungaba nomthelela omubi ebuhlotsheni bakho, kuze kufinyelele futhi kuhlanganise nekhefu. Uma uhlushwa umbuzo wokuthi ungayeka kanjani umhawu ngesoka lakho, lesi sihloko sizokusiza.
Ungakuyeka kanjani umhawu ngomfana?
Cishe wonke umuntu unempahla ngemuva ngemuva kobudlelwane obudlule, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi umhawu kubo ungasho lutho futhi ungenza umonakalo omkhulu kuphela. Akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuthi abesifazane banomqondo ophansi kakhulu futhi bangenza isikhalazo ngaphandle kwesizathu. Sinikeza amathiphu ambalwa azosiza ukukhipha umhawu wesikhathi esidlule.
- Thola ukuthi yini eyamcasula insizwa yakho ebuhlotsheni obudlule. Uma unemikhuba efanayo - zama ukuqeda ngokushesha noma, okungenani, ungaziphathe ngale ndlela nendoda yakho ethandekayo. Njengomthetho, abameleli bobulili obunamandla bakhumbule emantombazaneni lezo zimfanelo ezibangele ukuhlukunyezwa ebuhlotsheni: izingxoxo ezidlulayo, ukukhukhumeza, ukufutheka okusheshayo, ubuvila.
- Kufanele uqaphele ngokucacile ukuthi uma indoda yakho inayo manje, futhi ingenaye, ingabe ingasenandaba naye. Uchitha isikhathi nawe, ukhuluma ngalokho okuhlangenwe nakho, izinhlelo zekusasa elihlangene? Ngempendulo enhle, kufanele uqonde ukuthi akusiyo umphikisi wakho. Kodwa uma umthandi wakho ethola imiyalezo ye-SMS kusuka encwadini engajwayelekile, ikakhulu ebusuku, kufanele uphenye ngokucophelela isimo. Ngaphandle kwamahlaya angadingekile.
- Thola ukuthi u-ex wakhe usebuhlobo manje. Uma kunjalo, ke uphumule, asikho isizathu somhawu. Kodwa qaphelani,
uma "ebhukuda mahhala" - kungenzeka ukuthi le nkosikazi ingabiza indoda yakho ngenxa yesithukuthezi noma ifuna induduzo nesihawu. - Ukunamathela embusweni oyedwa owodwa - uma uhlela njalo izingxabano kanye nezikhwama ezisekelwe emhawu futhi ukhumbuze othandekayo wakho ngothando lwakhe lwangaphambili, njalo uzokhumbula ubuhlobo naye. Ingabe kukhona isiqinisekiso sokuthi emva kwalokhu angeke aqonde ukuthi uye waba nesithukuthezi futhi ufuna ukuhlangana naye?
I-intombi yakhe yangaphambili akumele kube yinto engesithathu engavamile ebuhlotsheni bakho, ngakho ungamfungi, ikakhulukazi uma engaphazamisi impilo yakho.