Uma usuthandweni, okokuqala, kuyathakazelisa ukwazi ukuthi lokhu kuhlangene. Kodwa amadoda abalungile, futhi bakwazi ukufihla imizwa yabo yangempela. Umuntu nje ukwesaba ukulahlwa noma ukubonakala ebuthakathaka emehlweni othandekayo.
Kodwa akuyona yonke into engalawulwa ngumuntu. Isibonelo, i-gesticulation, eyaziwa kunzima kakhulu ukuphatha. Imithi, amehlo nokuzibonakalisa kungatshela okuningi, ngisho noma umuntu engafuni. Ulwazi lolimi lwezandla luzosiza ukubala indoda othandweni nombuthano wabangani.
Izibonakaliso eziningi ezingezizwi zingabonakala ngokubuka ubuso bomuntu othandweni. Uzwela luvele luvele ebusweni, oluvulekile futhi lunobungane. Ngaso leso sikhathi kukhona injabulo, futhi nje ukukhanya ngenjabulo. Uma amehlo eqondiswa owesifazane omthandayo, abafundi bavame futhi bavule amashiya. Ukwandiswa kwamabheji nokubonakala kobuhlungu emathunjini kubonisa injabulo yendoda.
Qaphela, njengoba indoda ethandwayo ibheka, uma usenabangane abajwayele ukujwayele, uzohlale ubheka amehlo akhe. Uma uzama ukuhumusha amehlo akho, amehlo akhe azobuyela ngokuzithandela kuwe. Ukufihla ukuzwelana kwakhe, indoda ingakwazi ukucubungula into yokukhuleka kwayo, ezama ukumbamba yonke into.
Uma, lapho ukhuluma nawe, amakhanda akhe avuliwe kancane, umlomo uvulwa kancane, amashiya aphakanyiswa futhi adlalwe, futhi ikhanda likhonjiswe ekuqondeni kwakho, ungajabula - unesithakazelo kakhulu kuwe namaphupho ukuze wandise le ngxoxo.
Umzimba walowo muntu uveza into yothando. Bheka eduze futhi ulimi lomzimba luzotshela umuntu othandana nawe.
Ulimi lomzimba lomuntu othandweni
- wayevame ukugcoba izinwele zakhe noma azibophe, futhi lokhu akuyona okokuqala ingxoxo;
- ilungisa izingubo noma i-hairdress, njengokungathi iduduza uthuli olungekho emgqeni;
- uthinta ubuso futhi udonsela izinkinobho ezembathweni;
- Uqondisa amahlombe futhi uzama ukudweba esiswini;
- kopisha izenzo zakho;
- Ubeka isandla sakhe ehlombe lakho noma okhalweni lwakho.
Ungaphuthelwa ubufakazi obalulekile obunjalo - izwi lomuntu othandweni. Uma ukhuluma ngezwi lakho ozithandayo, amazwi azoguquka, abe lula futhi athembeke ngokwengeziwe, angeke abe nanoma yiziphi izinhlobonhlobo ezibukhali nezigaba.
Imisindo eveza ukukhangwa ngokocansi, indoda ethandwayo
- inqwaba yezinyawo;
- Amandla asezinkalweni noma okhalweni, ngakho amadoda agxila emandleni abo amakhulu;
- isithupha sisemva kwebhande;
- uthinta umphimbo nesinkwa;
- idlala ngezinto ezizungezile.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela indlela umuntu othandwayo abheka ngayo. Ngezinye izikhathi lapho umuntu ethandana, uyaqaphela ngokubukeka kwakhe. Uzama ukuba mnandi futhi azilungise kahle, ngezimpahla ezithile ezikhethiwe ezikhethiwe kanye ne-cologne. Ungakwazi ukuya esikhwameni esingasusiwe esitolo, kodwa uma kukhona ngisho nanyana esincane, ukuhlangana nesithandwa sakhe lapho, uzofaka i-suit yakhe engcono kakhulu ukuyothenga.
Kufanele wazi ukuthi ulimi lwezandla luyinkimbinkimbi, futhi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukucacisa izibonakaliso zomzimba. Futhi uma ungamkhathaleli lo muntu, kuyoba nzima ukuhumusha ngokuziphatha ngendlela ehlukumezayo, isifiso esinamandla kakhulu sokusondelana nento yokufutheka kungenza i-consciousness ifake. Kulo mbuso, izibonakaliso kuphela eziqinisekisa ukucabanga okubonakalayo, ezinye izibonakaliso zilahlwa ngokungazi. Kungase kubonakale sengathi indoda inesithakazelo kakhulu kuwe. Ngokuvamile abathandi bathanda zonke izinto futhi, ukuze bagweme lokhu, umuntu akufanele enze iziphetho eziphuthumayo. Ukuze ungazisoli kamuva, kungcono ukulinda kuze kube yilapho kugcizelelwa khona ubufakazi obuningi bokuzizwa kwakhe ngawe. Mhlawumbe kuzoba usizo, ukubonakaliswa kokunakekelwa, noma isipho esingalindelekile seholidini noma isimemo sosuku, njll.