Inkinga ebuhlotsheni ijwayelekile kakhulu. Njalo umbhangqwana owake wahlangana noma uzobhekana nawo. Futhi kuphela izibini ezinamandla kunazo zonke, ezinesineke, ezizwakala kakhulu ezizohlala zihlale ndawonye. Uma isigaba esibalulekile esinjalo senzekile empilweni yakho - ungaboni lesi simo ngokukhululekile. Thatha njengesivivinyo esinzima kepha esibalulekile. Futhi umphumela wezehlakalo kanye nemiphumela yokuhlolwa ixhomeke kulowo nalowo kini. Yazi, kunoma yikuphi, izinkinga zizophela, futhi ubudlelwane buyoqhubekela ezingeni elisha! Bamba ngokuqinile ngezandla, udwebe umoya emaphashini nasesitokisini ngokuphathelene nomthande wakho ... UMTHETHO !!!
Indlela yokusinda enkingeni yomndeni?
Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukusinda enkingeni yomndeni. Ukuphila, i-monotony, ukunganakwa kanye nokungaqapheli kanye nesikhathi; ukungabikho komuntu othandekayo kanye nokunye okushiyeka kwakhe; izinkinga zomhlaba wonke, izinkinga, ubunzima kanye nezingxabano; ukungaqondi, ukungavumelani, ukukhulisa ingane - futhi lokhu akulona uhlu oluphelele lwezizathu zokukhathazeka. Qonda ukuthi kokubili ukuhlangenwe nakho kungakhululeki. Ngakho-ke, kuyisiwula ukuzenza sengathi konke kuhle, kodwa hhayi ukwenza lutho nhlobo.
Ungasinda kanjani le nkinga emndenini?
Kuyiphutha, futhi, ukukholelwa ukuthi umphefumulo wakho womshado awukhathaleli "isimo sezulu" sobudlelwane bakho. Mhlawumbe udumazekile futhi ungabaza ukuthi konke okwenzeka kuwe yilokho owawuhlose. Kulula kakhulu, ukuthi, ukuphunyuka esimweni samanje, kunokuba uzame ukuyixazulula. Ungacabangi ukuthi abantu abahlala emshadweni ojabulisayo iminyaka engaba ngu-30 bebelokhu beba mnandi. Umshado wakho awunzima futhi awufani neze. Ngibuye ngiphinde ngithi: "Konke kuncike kumabili kuphela"!
Indlela yokusinda le nkinga iminyaka engu-7?
Imingcele enemibandela ihluka phakathi kweminyaka engu-7 no-9 yokuhlala ndawonye. Kuyinto engalindelekile futhi engaqiniseki. Ngalesi sikhathi, lo mbhangqwana uvame ukukhuphula ingane, ihlangabezana nezici zayo zonyaka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhamba phambili kwezinga lomsebenzi kuhlanganisa umthwalo wemfanelo futhi kuthatha isikhathi.
I-psychology yomndeni ibhala ukuthi abashadile baqhathanisa izifiso zabo namaphupho ngeqiniso. Uma iqiniso lingavumelani nezifiso, khona-ke ingxabano yenkathi ingase iqale komunye wabashade.
Ake sixoxe ngokuthi singamsiza kanjani indoda ukuba isinde kule nkinga.
Kuwe kanye nengxenye yakho yesibili kubonakala sengathi ukuphila kuyingqayizivele - kumangala. Ngifuna into entsha futhi engavamile. Kulesi sigaba, bambelela komunye nomunye kunanini ngaphambili. Yenza into yokuhlanganisa, entsha, okuhlangene. Thola imisebenzi evamile kanye nezokuzilibazisa. Ngokubili uchithe isikhathi, uhlanganyele futhi uhambe ezindaweni ezibalulekile kuwe. Ukufudumala ubuhlobo obuseduze, obuhle, izinkumbulo ezinhle - hhayi ukuhlambalaza kanye nokukhuluma.
Yibonge ngakho konke, unike inkululeko encane, wenze isimangalo, ngegama - qala ukushintsha isimo sengqondo sakho, futhi uzokwazi ukugcina lezo zinsuku ezizithandayo kakhulu!