Ngokuvamile sihlobanisa umqondo wokuthi "ukumangala, ukuthandana" ngobulili besifazane, futhi kungani - akunakuqondakala ukuthi amadoda ayifuni noma! Ngakho-ke, ngokuphuthumayo, masiqondise isimo, sicabangele ukuthi yini okufanele siyithokozise amadoda ethu futhi ngokuqinisekile sisebenzise imibono yezimpikiswano zothando.
Imibono yosuku lokuthandana
Ephefumulelwe izibonelo zezipho zothando zesimangali kanye nezinkathazo, sicabanga ukuthi kufanele kube kusihlwa ngamakhandlela nakudla kokubili, futhi siyaqhubeka sibheka imibono yothando phakathi kwalesi siqondiso. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo, kungenzeka ukuhlela ukumangala ngomuntu othandekayo ngaphandle kwendabuko yobumnyama newayini elibizayo. Isibonelo, uma unesidingo esikhwameni, ungahlela ne-DJ, ngakho-ke wathi yena ukhuluma nobani namagama amahle futhi amnandi okhethiweyo wakho.
Uma kwenzeka isigamu sakho singamukeleki ukuveza imizwa yomphakathi, ungakwazi ukulungiselela okuthile kokubili. Kunemibono eminingi yokumangala kothando lomfana othandekayo okuhlobene nokuhlala emoyeni omusha. Ngokujwayelekile bahlose ukuhamba ngothando, isibonelo:
- iziqhumane;
- egibele othandekayo wakho ngesikebhe;
- umhlangano othandana nokushona kwelanga ngobusuku obufudumele ehlobo.
Kodwa ubani okuvimba futhi uqale umhlangano ngokungavamile? Lokhu kumangala kuzodinga ukulandelela iphepha (ngoba likhanya), amapende, i-twine ende neqembu lama-balloli nge-helium. Esikhathini somqulu wokulandelela (ubukhulu bamamitha angaba ngu-2k1.5) sibhala amagama afudumele kumuntu othandekayo. Ngesikhombisi esilandelayo sibhala amabhaluni nomugqa omude. Amabhola adingekayo ukuze iphosta ibheke emafasiteleni efulethini ethandekayo, futhi umgudu wokuqinisekisa ukuthi umlayezo wakho awubaleki ngaphambi kokuba ufunde.
Yebo, uma ufuna ngempela ukuhlela isidlo sothando, shaya ngandlela-thile ngithakazelisayo. Isibonelo, i-gamer ye-inveterate (uma, ngokuqinisekile, kusihlwa kwakho akuqala ekhaya), ungalungiselela umzamo wokuthola indawo lapho umlindele khona. Hlela umzila wakho ukuze umdlali wakho akudingeki ahambe phakathi kwengxenye yedolobha ukuze uthole ukusikisela. Eyokuqala ingathunyelwa nge-imeyli noma kumyalezo wombhalo, okulandelayo kufihlwe emotweni, esitolo esikhulu. Ungenza futhi abangane nabangane, ukuze nabo banikeze amacebo akho owathandayo. Vele ungenzi umbuzo isikhathi eside kakhulu, futhi amapuzzli ayinkimbinkimbi, ukuze indoda ingakhathali ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Imibono yobusuku obunothando
Kuze kube yimpumelelo, indoda kuye kufanele ilungele futhi ikhululeke. Nakhu kuwe kanye nomqondo wokuqala wokuthandana ngamabili - ibhuku lokuhlanganyela. Uthando luhlanganisa amandla akho - amakhandlela, amafutha aroma, ama-strawberries, iziphuzo, ushokoledi, isikhumba sephunga elimnandi kanye nesigqoko sezinwele. Izambatho zangaphansi kumele ziveze uma zimanzi (kuyathakazelisa kakhulu indoda kunomzimba obunqunu ngokugcwele), kufanele kube nzima, izinkomishi, ama-grids amancane ne-ryushechki evinjelwe.
Awufuni ukuchitha kusihlwa nge-foam? Yisebenzise nge chocolate! Ukugeza ngejelisi le-chocolate, thumela lapho othandekayo (ungamshiya inothi emgodini, ukuze angaphinde ahambe futhi angajabuli ngaphambili), kodwa ulungiselele ikamelo nawe. Nomaphi lapho usakaze ushokoledi, amakhandlela akhanyayo ngefokoledi, kahle, ungazikhohlwa - ufake i-chocolate kwi esifubeni sakho noma udwebe ama-panties akho.
Imibono yokumangala ngomuntu othandekayo
Uma ungaboni ithuba (kuze kube sekupheleni kosuku lokusebenza kusasele emini ngaphezulu), futhi ufuna ukuhlela ukumangala, umthumelele iphasela elimangalisayo ngama-panties akho kanye nenothi enombhalo ukuthi ungamkhumbula kangakanani (uyifunayo) futhi ufuna le nto yangasese wafaka kuwe / wasuswa kuwe ngezandla zakhe. Ama-panties kuphela adinga amasha, ama-sexy, ungawafafaza ngemimoya embalwa.
Enye indlela yokwenza umuntu othandekayo amthande kude (kungekhona emsebenzini) ngefoni. Sisoloko sisho amazwi enomusa efonini, ngakho-ke ungahambi ngaphesheya kohlaka? Bhala kuphela inkulumo kusengaphambili, hhayi nje ngokuyilandela ngokuqinile, kodwa ukuze uqiniseke ngokwengeziwe. Hhayi, ngezwi ungakhohlwa - kufanele kube ukuvotela kanye ne-sexy.