Ngitshele, bekufanele yini ube nomona (okungenani kancane) abantu abaphumelela kukho konke - baphumelela emsebenzini, emndenini ngisho nokuzilibazisa okuthakazelisayo? Ngakho kungani abanye abantu benenhlanhla empilweni, futhi umuntu akakwazi ukuphumelela kumuntu siqu noma ezindabeni zomphakathi? Kuzo zonke, ukusola izinkanyezi ezingaphumelelanga noma ubuvila obuvamile?
Kungani kungekho nhlanhla empilweni?
Uma ngibheka abanye abantu, ngingathanda ukusho ukuthi: "Le ndoda enenhlanhla, njengokungathi uzalwe ekhanda", kuhle kakhulu konke okunye. Ngemuva kwalokhu kucabanga, ukutholakala kokuzithokozela kuvame ukulandela, okuholela ekuphethweni okudumazayo ngokuhluleka komuntu. Kulungile futhi ngokuqhubekayo izindlela ezimbili kuphela - noma ukuvumelanisa nenhlanhla noma ukuzama ukuthuthukisa i-Fortuna enenkani kumuntu. Uma kukhona isifiso sokuthola indawo yale ndodakazi eguquguqukayo, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ungenalo inhlanhla empilweni, ukuthola ukuthi yimaphi amaphuzu ofuna ukuwashintsha. Lo mbuzo uphazamisa abantu abaningi, umuntu ojula e-esotericism, ezama ukuthola umkhuba wokuheha inhlanhla, othile uzama ukuthola impendulo kwengqondo . Ekuqeqeshweni umuntu angazwa iziphakamiso zokucabanga ngendlela enhle, ukuthethelela uyise nomama (ngokusho kwabanye abacwaningi, ukucasuka umama kuyakuvimbela ukuthuthukiswa kwekhaya, futhi ukuhlambalaza ubaba akuvumeli ibhizinisi ukuthuthukisa), sebenzisa ukuqinisekiswa nokunye okuningi.
Eqinisweni, ngayinye yezindlela zingasiza, okokuqala udinga ukuthola ukuthi yini ekukuvimbela, bese usebenza ekuqedeni lokhu kuphazanyiswa. Zonke izinto zihamba kahle, futhi ngokungazelelwe zimiswe ukuze zithwale ekuphileni? Bheka isizathu, qonde okwenzekile. Ngaphambilini, ozakwabo babejabule ukusiza, futhi manje kubonakala sengathi bebuyile? Ngakho-ke mhlawumbe wawuvame ukhathazeka kakhulu nabo? Ayikho imibono emisha, iphrojekthi ebalulekile enikezwe esinye isisebenzi? Mhlawumbe ulahlekelwe lokho kukhanya, isithakazelo esakwenza ube isisebenzi esithembisayo, funa indlela yokuyibuyisela.
Futhi mhlawumbe awunaso nhlobo inhlanhla, njengalokhu kulokhu ukubamba inhlanhla? Futhi futhi udinga ukuqonda lokho okwenzayo okungalungile. Yebo, kungenzeka ukuthi awuzange ube nenhlanhla emndenini wakho nasezindaweni zokuzalwa, kepha uma ufika emdala, unethuba lokwakha ikusasa lakho ngokwakho. Khumbula, imvelo yethu ibonakalisa umhlaba wethu wangaphakathi. Uma ungakwazi ukuthola umhlabathi ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho, ubhekene nobunzima bezezimali, khona-ke kukhona ukudideka emphefumulweni wakho, awukwazi ukuqonda izifiso zakho. Uma nje uthola lokho okudingayo, izinto zizoqala ukusebenza ngokushesha, njengoba uzoqonda ukuthi iyiphi indlela okudingeka uhambe ngayo.
Awunenhlanhla empilweni yakho siqu?
Ngomsebenzi konke kuhle, kodwa empilweni yakhe siqu ayinanhlanhla? Zama ukuqonda lokho okwenzayo okungalungile, ingabe izenzo zihlale zihambisana nezifiso?
Lezi zibonelo ezintathu nje kuphela, iphuzu ukuyeka ukuhlala embhedeni, uzibuze umbuzo: "Ngizoba nenhlanhla empilweni nini?", Bese uqala ukwenza. Ukungakhethi (ngaphandle kokuqamba amanga nokwenza imininingwane yangempela) ukuhlaziya isimo, ukulandisa izifiso nezenzo, hlela uhlelo lokusebenza bese uqala ukusebenza. Ukumamatheka kwenhlanhla kunenkani, ngisho nokuntuleka kwethalenta kunganqotshwa ngokuzikhandla okufanele.