Ubuciko bokudlala ngothando kufanele bufundwe. Akekho omele ubulili obuhle abenelikhono kusukela ekuzalweni. Namuhla, lapho amafoni omakhalekhukhwini kanye nokuxhumana nabantu bejwayelekile kakhulu, ngosizo lwabo abaningi ababajwayele futhi baqale ubudlelwane bomshado, ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthi bafunde ukudlala ngothando nomfana ngokubhala.
Indlela yokudlala ngothando nomfana ngokubhala - izinto eziyisisekelo
Okokuqala, kufanele ukhumbule imithetho emibili eyinhloko yalokhu kuxhumana. Okokuqala, unganciphisi amagama. Okwesibili, awukwazi "ukuhlambalaza" into yokuzwela ngemilayezo eqhubekayo, ngakho-ke ungabonakala njengenyoka engapheliyo futhi engacabangi kakhulu.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthandana ngothando, thola ngomfana konke ongakwenza. Fundisisa ikhasi lakhe enkundleni yokuxhumana, bheka ukuthi imiphi umculo ayithandayo, kunesithakazelo. Lolu lwazi luzosiza ukuqala inkhulumomphendvulwano.
Indlela yokudlala ngothando nomfana onthanethi nokuthi yini ongayibhala emlayezo wokuqala?
Ekuqaleni kwenkhulumomphendvulwano kuyadingeka ukuba nentshisekelo kumfana. Ungabi oqobo kakhulu, kungcono ukubuza umbuzo okhona emkhakheni wezintshisekelo zakhe. Isibonelo, uma efunda isiNgisi, ungamcela iseluleko ngokukhetha isikole noma uthole umbono mayelana nohlelo lokuqeqesha alithathayo.
Ngemuva kokuthi uqale ukudlala ngothando nomfana u-VKontakte futhi umthumelele umlayezo wokuqala, kufanele ulinde impendulo. Yilungele ukuthi ekuqaleni kuzodingeka ugcine inkhulumomphendvulwano eyedwa. Buza imibuzo eminingi, yenza izincomo ezithile ezingathathi hlangothi, bese uzama ukukhombisa ukuthi unentshisekelo evamile. Yindlela ongayenza ngayo ingxoxo ezoholela ekuthandaneni kothando esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa ungaqhubeki izinto, ungasho ngaso leso sikhathi mayelana nesithakazelo sakho kanye namacebo, okokuqala masibe nobungane.