"Sivame ukukholelwa labo esingabazi, ngoba asizange basikhohlise," kusho umgxeka waseNgilandi nomlobi uSamuel Johnson. Yeka isimemezelo sangempela, kodwa esidabukisayo!
Ukungathembeki kwamadoda kuphakama ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene:
- ngenxa yokungahlangenwe nakho okuhlangenwe nakho (kufaka phakathi abazali bakho, abangane nabajwayele). Ngisho namanga amancane kamuva adala ukungathembi okukhulu;
- ngenxa yesifiso esinamandla, ukushaya umuntu ngaphandle kokujwayelekile. Imizwa iyancipha, ubeka umuntu wakho wonke amaphupho akho kanye nezifiso zakho eziyimfihlakalo, ngokuzinikeza ngokwengqondo lezo zimfanelo ezingenayo. Ukuphazamiseka komunye umuntu kubangela ukungazethembi kwabanye;
- ngenxa yemvelo yemfundo. Uma usumntwana ukhuliswe ngokusola nokuhlukunyezwa kokuqala ezweni elikuzungezile, akumangalisi ukuthi, lapho ubhekene nokudumazeka, uyithatha kalula njengengxenye yezwe lethu. Ukungathembeki komyeni wakhe, cishe, kuyoqala futhi.
Cabanga: zonke izizathu ezingenhla, indlela eyodwa noma enye, zinciphisa into eyodwa - awuzethembi wena nezwe elikuzungezile.
Ungasusa kanjani ukungathembeki?
Uthando nokungathembi kungaphila enhliziyweni yakho isikhathi esifushane kakhulu. Kufana nokubeka ingulube ye-python ne-Guinea ibe yindawo eyodwa. Ngokushesha noma i-python izogwinya isilwane. Kodwa kudingekile ukugcina i-python enhliziyweni yakho, noma ngabe akudingekile ukuyipha (emva kwakho konke, ukungathembeki kubangela ukungathembeki).
- Funda ukuthembela. Konke. Ukungathembeki (ebuhlotsheni kanye nokuphila, ngokujwayelekile) ngeke kukulondoloze. Ukungathembi umyeni wakhe, ngokuzenzakalelayo ubeka imingcele ekuzizweni okungenakuqhathaniswa - uthando. Zama ukudlulisela engqondweni yakho ukuthi ukungazethembi akusizi ngalutho;
- Funda ukuzithanda wena. Ufanelwe okuhle kakhulu. Kubandakanya - nokuphila ngaphandle kokwethemba;
- khuluma iqiniso. Ungesabi ukukhombisa imizwa yakho, ngoba ukungaqondi ngokuvamile kuvame ukungathembeki;
- Ungacabangi abanye abantu, makabe yilokho abayikho.
- zama ukuthola izimpande zokungathembeki kwakho. Pheqa ngombono wokuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila kwakho kanye nempilo yabazali bakho. Thola iphuzu elibi futhi ... thola ukukhwabanisa noma ukudumazeka. Eqinisweni. Kwakukhona, okwedlule akukwazi ukulungiswa. Ungaguqula isimo sakho sengqondo kulokhu. Khothelela bonke abahlanganyeli esimweni. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kudinga usizo lochwepheshe.
Futhi khumbula: ukungathembeki ebuhlotsheni akuyona inoculation ngokumelene nokudumazeka okungenzeka. Vumela ukuthi uthande ngokugcwele amandla!