Uzibambe kaningi kangakanani ukucabanga ukuthi isiphetho asithandi kakhulu ukukunambitha ngenjabulo empilweni yakho yangasese kanye nesizungu - lokhu kubonakala sengathi isiphambano ukuthi kuzodingeka uthwale kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku zakho? Yonke imizamo yokulungisa lesi simo ngokuvamile ibe nomphumela we-zero, futhi amadoda empilweni yakho aphakama futhi ahlakazeke emoyeni, njengama-ghostly mirages of the desert. Indaba ejwayelekile? Uma kunjalo, sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha ikhadi, futhi, kokubili ngaphandle nangaphakathi.
Ngingakanani?
Okokuqala, ake sibone ukuthi kungani ungenalo inhlanhla othandweni? Cishe, zonke izinkinga zakho ezivela eqinisweni ukuthi uzicabange nje. Kunoma yiliphi incwadi encwadini yezomnotho, uzokwazi ukufunda ngokubaluleka kwezimpahla, okufana nomthengi. Hamba umthamo wamanani we-$ 1 million futhi amadoda azokuthandazela njengesithonjana, kodwa uma ku-ilebula yakho siqu nebhakhodi ikhohlisa ukubuka isibalo se-ruble eli-1, khona-ke wonke umuntu ozungezile uzokukholelwa ngokushesha, futhi cishe futhi uzobe uhlezi yedwa ekamelweni lakho, ucabangela indlela ukuphila okungalungile ngayo nokuthi kudabukisayo ukuthi uhlale ungenangqondo othandweni.
Ingabe konke kubi kakhulu?
Iphuzu lonke liwukuthi sibonakala kusukela engxenyeni esiphendukela kubantu. Qaphela, ngoba ngokuqinisekile unamalungelo amaningi, owathi ngenxa yesizathu esingaziwa uyaqhubeka ufihla.
Isibonelo, kubonakala kuwe ukuthi uqedile futhi ukuqaphela lokhu kubamba kakhulu impilo yakho. Zama ukuyibheka ngaphesheya. Okokuqala, akugcini, kodwa owesifazane, futhi okwesibili, isisindo awukwazi futhi sinomthelela kunawo wonke emhlabeni, kodwa isimo sesifuba sakho cishe kungenzeka sinikeza ngesandla esivulekile, khona-ke sizokuphonsa emgqeni wangaphambili. Kusukela manje, i-wardrobe yakho yonke izongaphansi komgomo owodwa obizwa ngokuthi "Gcizelela isifuba bese uvumela bonke abantu bafe". Ngikholelwa ukuthi, uma ukhetha ingubo efanele, bonke abamele abesilisa njengabantu abathintekayo banderlogists bazokulandela, futhi ngisho nekhanda lakho ngeke liphendukele emfanekisweni othile onobuciko nge "flat education" ezimbili "flat". Ngendlela, isibuno asikho embi singabonakala sihlukaniswe kancane kusuka emahlombe nasezintweni. Ukuze wenze lokhu, sebenzisa izingubo zangaphansi zokulungisa, inzuzo yokuzikhethela manje inkulu.
Ngaphandle kwekhabethe, cishe kuzodingeka ushintshe i-hairstyle yakho, kufaka phakathi umbala wakho wesikhumba samanje nesitayela se- makeup . Ukuze usebenze ngokuqinisekile, kungcono ukuxhumana no-stylist onekhono, uzokukhetha okukhethwa kukho. Emandleni alo kulokhu kungcono ukungathembeki.
Indlela yokuziphatha?
Futhi manje into ebaluleke kunazo zonke: ukuba ungabuzi futhi ukuthi kungani ungenalo inhlanhla ngamadoda, ungene ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, kodwa qinisekisa ukuthi uma uhlangana nomuntu ozobhapathizwa enhliziyweni yakho uzizwa ukuthi ulula, udlala, kodwa lokhu akufinyeleleki futhi u-100% u-panther othembekile. Ukuhlala naye kuhle, kepha kunqatshelwe. Inkulumo encane ngawe futhi ubuze imibuzo eminye. Zonke izinyathelo zakho kufanele zihambe kancane futhi zibushelele, azikho ubukhali. Ngenkathi ingxoxo, yimbheka ngqo iso futhi ugxume ikhanda lakhe kaningi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqonda isihloko esibucayi noma cha. Le nkohliso elula izomsiza ukuba abone kuwe umuntu ofana nomqondo futhi uzokhipha isinqumo sokuthi ungowesifazane oyohlale ekwazi ukumqonda.
Emva komhlangano, vumela ukuba uchithe, kodwa uNkulunkulu akugcine ugijimela kuye embhedeni emva komhlangano wokuqala. Gcina kancane kancane futhi ungalokothi ubize kuqala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna kangakanani. Mtshele ukuthi, ngokuyisisekelo, uyamthanda, kodwa awuzange unqume noma yini okwamanje. Uma ekuqaleni komhlangano eqaphela ukuthi uhlanya ngaye, uzokulahlekelwa masinyane kuwe. Ukukhunjulwa kwezakhi zofuzo kwamadoda kunamandla kunathi futhi kuzokhumbuza njalo hero yakho ukuthi,
Khumbula, manje usufanele u-$ 1,000,000, futhi uma wenza kahle, kungenzeka ukuthi maduzane uzoya ku-salon yomshado ukukhetha ingubo yakho yokuphupha, kanye nohlobo lochwepheshe ozolutshela, ngomona ubheka izintombi-abangane ngalokho okufanele ukwenze , uma bengenanhlanhla othandweni. Uma ungaphinda wenze amaphutha futhi ... Kodwa ake sithembe lokhu kungenzeki, futhi ukuphila kuyokuvuza ngokugcwele ngokukhuthazela kwakho nesibindi, futhi leli gama lokugcina ngawe lizoqala ngokushesha ukubhala ndawonye.