Uthando - omunye wemilayezo engokomlingo engamfica umuntu kuphela. Mhlawumbe, ngakho-ke, sizama ngazo zonke izindlela ukufihla ukubonakala kwayo ekuqaleni. Ikakhulukazi kulokhu kuphumelela amadoda, abakwa-Psychological yabo abavimbela ukubonisa izimpawu zothando ngowesifazane. Ummeleli ongavamile wezocansi oqinekile uzoveza imizwa yakhe ngokukhululekile, abanye bazama ukuvinjelwa ngangokunokwenzeka ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthola ukuhlambalaza ngenxa yobuthakathaka. Mhlawumbe konke lokhu kufanele kube njalo, kepha amantombazane kufanele athole amakhono akhethekile ekunqumeni uthando lwesilisa, njengokufunda ngamehlo nokuqagela ezindebeni.
Izibonakaliso zothando zendoda kumuntu wesifazane - izici zengqondo
- Ukubonisana . Isifiso sokujabulisa into enentshisekelo kuyoholela ekushintsheni kokuziphatha okuzoqondiswa ekuboniseni izinhlangothi zayo ezinhle kakhulu. Bangagcizelela: isikhundla sezimali, impumelelo yomphakathi, ukubukeka, ezinye izimfanelo namakhono abo.
- Izenzo nobuso . I-psychology engavamile yendoda ngeke imvumele ukuba abonise ngokuqondile uthando ngowesifazane, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukubuka izimpawu ezingekho amazwi. Ukungaqiniseki kwangaphandle kungaphula ngokuzibophezela okungazibophezeli: ukulungiswa njalo kwekhanda, ukunyakaza kwezandla kulowo wesifazane ngomzamo wokunciphisa ibanga phakathi kwakho, ukuphindaphinda kwemizimba yakho, ukudonsa izingubo, ukulungisa amahlombe, ukubeka izandla ezinkalweni noma okhalweni. Amehlo angaphinde athengise indoda, umthandi uyocabangela ngokucophelela isibalo sowesifazane, ahlasele amehlo akhe.
- Ukunakekela . Kungabhekana nezinkinga zentombazane, ukukhwabanisa, ukuzama ukuvikela ezinkingeni, njll.
- Ukuxhumana . Indoda izama ukukhuluma ngaye, ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze owesifazane afunde kangcono.
- Umhawu . Lesi simo sengqondo sibonakala ngokucacile phambi kwendawo enabantu besilisa abanesithakazelo. Kodwa abameleli bobulili obunamandla bangaba nomhawu ngomsebenzi, izintombi, futhi nganoma isiphi isikhathi esingasetshenziswanga nabo. Ngakho-ke, akuwona kuphela amanothi omnikazi ekuziphatha okuzobonakala, kodwa futhi njengokungathi ukufisa okungahambi kahle kokuhamba nentombazane yonke indawo.
Yiqiniso, isignali yedwa ngeke isethembe ngokuphelele. Isibonelo, ukwethuka okuthile ekukhulumisaneni kungabangelwa imizwa yethenda, kodwa ngokucwiliswa kwezinye izinkinga noma ngisho nokungathandi. Ngakho-ke, ukuphetha ngokuthandana kwamadoda kungokubona izibonakaliso ezimbalwa.