Abesifazane abaningi balungele okuningi ukuze banqobe indoda abayithandayo, kodwa nansi umbono ocacile wokuthi ungayenza kanjani. Abanye benza izinyathelo ezimbi, isibonelo, ukulungiselela izinkulumo ezihlukene, ukuqhuba amasiko, ukwenza ipulasitiki, njll. Uma wazi ezinye izimfihlo, akukho lutho oluzodingeka futhi lo muntu uzowa ngasezinyaweni zakhe.
Indlela yokwenza umuntu agijime?
Ukuncintisana phakathi kwabesifazane kuphakeme kakhulu, njengoba, njengoba kwaziwa, kunabantu abambalwa kakhulu, okusho ukuthi umuntu kufanele avele esixukwini.
Izindlela eziyisikhombisa zokufakazela ukuthi umuntu agijime ngemuva kwakho:
- Inkulumo eyaziwayo - "amadoda athande amehlo" isebenza, ngakho kufanele usebenze ekubukeni kwakho. Namuhla, owesifazane unezindlela eziningi ezahlukene zokuthuthukisa ukubonakala kwakhe. Okokuqala, udinga ukusebenza kulolu hlobo, futhi ngalokhu kufanele ubhalise ekuzivocavoca uphinde ubuyekeze ukudla kwakho. Okwesibili, ukugqoka izinwele nokuzenzela kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuze ugcwalise lesi simo, udinga ukuya ku-salon beauty.
- Ngokwengqondo, kunesinye iseluleko esiwusizo sokuthola umuntu ukuba agijime ngemuva kwakho - ukuze abe nesimo esihle. Ekuphileni kwangempela, nezinkinga eziningi kanye nokudumazeka, ngakho lapho usebenzelana nabesilisa obuhlukile ufuna ukukhululeka nokuzijabulisa. Ukumomotheka okuqotho nokubukeka komusa ngokuqinisekile kuyoheha umuntu.
- Ukukhuthazela nokukhuthazela kuyisici esishaqisayo sobulili obuhlukile, ngakho kufanele ukhohlwe ngalezi zici zobuntu. Owesifazane ongcono ulula, unakekela futhi awutholakali. Empeleni, bonke abazingeli besilisa futhi bathanda ukunqoba inyamazane, kodwa kulokhu, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungashayi.
- Enye incomo, indlela yokwenza indoda eshadile igijime ngemuva kwakho - idumise futhi uyihloniphe. Noma ngabe yini ongayisho, abamele ubulili obunamandla bangathanda ukubeka izikhundla zokuqala, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ngesikhathi esifanele ukusho igama elimnandi, ukukhomba impumelelo nokufihla amaphutha. Ngokuqinisekile uyokujabulela, ikakhulukazi uma wenza nabanye abantu.
- Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi amadoda angathandi "i-dummy", ungahlakaniphile futhi ubonise ulwazi lwabo ngethuba, ngoba ukuziphatha okunjalo kungabonakala njengokuziqhenya noma isifiso sokudlula noma ukuhlazisa.
- Indlela eyingozi kepha ephumelelayo indlela yokuthola indoda ukugijima emva kwakho emva kokulwa - makamncintisane. Ukuze abelane naye, akasoze abe nomuntu futhi ekugcineni aqonde ukuthi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi omunye umfana angadala umuntu othandekayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi uzizwe unqenqemeni, ukuze ungatholi ilebula "emoyeni".
- Ungathandi abameleli besifazane abanobuqili obunamandla ababe beboshwe entanyeni. Ungaceli lutho noma udideke, ngoba uma umuntu efuna ukwenza okuhle, uzokwenza.
- Enye indlela yokuthola umuntu wangaphambili ukuba agijime ngemuva kwakho akufanele abe khona. Uma, ngemva kokuhlukanisa, owesifazane ubiza ngokuzumayo bese ebonisa owokuqala ukuhamba, ngokuqinisekile kuyomangala ngaye, futhi cishe ngeke ayenqabe, nakuba konke kuxhomeke esimweni esithile kanye nezizathu zokuhlukaniswa.
Kubuphi ubuhlobo bokuphila ngokuvumelana nokuhlela akuyona into ethakazelisayo futhi isisombululo esihle kunazo zonke. - Kubalulekile ukuba nesithakazelo empilweni yomuntu, isibonelo, ukubuza mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwakhe, okuthandayo ekudleni, ekuthandeni, ebuntwaneni, ngokujwayelekile, kumele aqonde ukuthi akanandaba.
Inqubo yokunqoba indoda kufanele ibe mnandi, ngakho ungakhohlwa ukumkhuthaza ngenxa yezenzo zakhe, kodwa kufanelekile ukulingana, ukuze kube nokukhuthaza ukufeza okuningi. Ukudlala ngothando nokudlala kuyabangane abathembekile ekuheha abantu abahlukile.
Kufanele ube ngokwakho futhi ungadlali ukuze ujabulise indoda, ngoba ngokushesha imfihlakalo izogcwaliseka, futhi othandekayo angabalekela.