Uma ubuza amadoda ayishumi ukuchaza imoto ekahle, akunakwenzeka ukuthi wonke umuntu uzoguqula umkhiqizo owodwa. Omunye uthatha ukunyakaza okuncane, othile uthanda ukuhlukumezeka, futhi omunye umuntu intengo ephakeme yomshini, ekhombisa isimo somnikazi, izoba yikhwalithi esemqoka. Uma kuziwa kumakhosikazi angcono, imibono izophinde ihlakazeke kuzo zonke izinhlangothi ezine, nakuba zizoqhubeka zivela kwelinye iphuzu (izimfanelo zabesifazane abalahlekelwa yizo).
Ukuphazamiseka ngumbuzo wokuthi ungabathanda kanjani, khumbula umgomo oyinhloko: bonke abantu bahlukile, futhi umqondo wekhanda elihle akuwona isimo sesenzo sokhonkolo hhayi isifanekiso esingasetshenziswa kumlingani ngamunye. Ungakwazi kahle kahle uhlangothi lobuchwepheshe lwezinjabulo ezijabulisayo, kodwa uma zonke izinto zakho zokudlala zingumdlalo womphakathi, khona-ke isihloko sekosikazi engcono kakhulu kuzodingeka sinikezwe omunye umuntu ... Ngakho-ke, silungiselele izincomo eziyisisekelo ezizosiza ukuphendula lo mbuzo: kanjani ukuba ube inkosikazi enhle kumuntu wakho .
Imithetho eyisisekelo yenkosikazi enhle
- Zithande wena. Lona umthetho wokuqala kanye oyinhloko we-mistress best. Owesifazane othanda umzimba wakhe futhi akanqikazi ukuyisebenzisa ngenjongo yokuzijabulisa yena umlingo wamadoda. Yebo, igama elithi "siqu" akuyona i-typo. Ngisho namantombazane ocingweni abalingisa injabulo yobulili, ngoba indoda ibaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela ukuthi uyakwazi ukuletha ubumnandi obulili obuhle. Indoda izofisa kulowo ozozizwa eyintandokazi enhle. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, inkosikazi enhle ingasikisela ngokucacile ukuthi yiziphi izenzo ezinikeza injabulo enkulu.
- Amadoda othandekayo. Mhlawumbe kuzwakala kuyinto engavamile, kodwa empeleni, abesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi, ngaphezu kobulili, amadoda ayidingi lutho oluvela kubo. Ukuthukwa okufihlakele ngokobulili besilisa - hhayi umsizi ongcono ekutholeni isihloko "sekosikazi enhle kakhulu emhlabeni." Owesifazane othanda ngempela amadoda uthola injabulo ngokuthinta umzimba wesilisa. Ngokuqinisekile waphawula ukuthi abahlaseli abakhulu kakhulu labo abathanda ukuthinta inyama ephilayo ngezandla zakho. Abathandi abakhulu kakhulu bavela ku-opera efanayo.
- Ubulili obuthandekayo. Ukungazi ukuthi iningi lihlehlisa ngokukhohlisa ukuthi ubulili bungcolile. Futhi nakuba singaphandle sonke manje sikhululiwe ngokobulili, izinkinga eziningi ezingqondweni zisekelwe kule nkolelo eqinile. Ungaba kanjani umthandi omuhle uma unamahloni noma ukwesaba ubulili. Ngakho-ke, yiba gourmet. Thuthukisa ukunambitheka: zama ukuzwa ubukhali bezocansi ezisheshayo noma ukubhekwa kwe-tart ye-languor ye-caresses yokuqala. Uma unikeza amandla anamandla enjabulo ngesikhathi sezocansi, kuzokuvumela ukuba uthole okungaphezulu kwebusuku olulodwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, inkosikazi enhle ayikhohlwa:
- dumisa indoda yakho. Ungathembi, uma kungenxa yokuthi kungabi khona ukuphakama, kodwa ukukhuthaza lezo zenzo ezikunike amaminithi (noma ngisho nemizuzwana) yenjabulo;
- bathi yebo. Ngisho noma le "yebo" iyingxenye ye "yebo, kodwa kamuva". Ngendlela, leli gama lizoqala izifiso zomlingani phakathi kocansi: "Yebo, othandekayo, nje kuphela onamandla", njll;
- ngithi cha. Uma ungafuni ucansi noma uhambisane nomunye uhlobo lwezocansi, ungangabazi ukuthi "cha" ngesikhathi. Isihlamba esisimungulu emehlweni emva kwe- noma
amandla amabi ngesikhathi asiyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kumthandi ohle; - ukumangala. Ngomqondo omuhle wezwi. Akudingeki ukuthi uguquke njalo futhi uphazamiseke (amadoda akhathele), nje ungavuli wonke amakhadi akho e-trump ngobusuku bokuqala;
- funda. Umthandi omuhle akasoze azibiza ngokuthi "inkosikazi enhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni," uqiniseke ukuthi ukuphila kocansi kunezimfihlo eziningi ezimangalisayo nezimfihlakalo, futhi umlingani ngamunye angandisa amandla akhe okuthola futhi anikeze injabulo.