Pink in Psychology

Ingxube yebomvu neyemhlophe ihlangene ngokwayo, kubonakala sengathi, ukubonakaliswa okungahambisani kahle kwemizwa kanye nemizwelo enjengokuhlukumezeka nokuhlanzeka kwengqondo, ngaleyo ndlela kuthobisa okokuqala nokunika amandla okwesibili. Ngakho-ke, umbala obomvana osesigabeni sokusebenza kwengqondo uvame ukubhekwa njengesinye sezici eziphumelelayo kakhulu zokwelashwa kombala futhi cishe njalo usetshenziswa ezimweni lapho kudingeka khona ukunciphisa amandla ezinkanuko, noma ukusiza umuntu ukuba abhekane nokucasula nokuthukuthela.

Yin no-Yang

Kusukela esikhathini esidlule, i-pink yayibhekwa njengombala wokungabi nabulungile, uthando nozwela, okuzibandakanya kuphela isimiso sebesifazane futhi lesi simo sengqondo sasinezizathu ezinhle kakhulu. Phela, owesifazane onemizwa engacabangi kakhulu, kungcono kakhulu ukukwazi ukugudluza ama-angles acace kunoma yiziphi izimo eziphikisanayo, kunamadoda. Futhi akukho okumangalisa ngalokho, kakade esemncane, abesifazane abasebasha besilisa ocansini obuhle, bakhetha izingubo zabo, izesekeli noma ngisho nokugqoka idoli, ngokungajwayelekile balula kulo mbala, baze bangaqapheli ukuthi kungani benza. Uhlelo lokuzalwa komama nokunakekela inzalo ehlala kuzo ezingeni lezakhi zofuzo lingenakwenzeka ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa kothando nothando, futhi ngokusho kwengqondo yombala, i-pink ukuzenza ngokuqondile kwabo.

Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi, ngokungafani nabesifazane, ubulili obunamandla kakhulu abalingwa kaningi obomvana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungokwengubo noma ukukhetha umbala wezindonga egumbini. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuthambekela kwale toni kuphikisana nemibono yabo yobuningi namandla, futhi ukuhlakanipha komzingeli kwenza ukuba bakhethe imibala esondelene nemithunzi yemvelo yomhlaba, itshe nezinkuni, noma zizungeze ngamathoni ahlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ukucabangela okuba nomphumela wokuqeda isimiso sezinzwa futhi ulungiselele umswakama osebenzayo.

Yonke into iyingqayizivele

Kodwa-ke, ukubaluleka kwe-pink ekucwaningweni kwengqondo, njengokubonakaliswa kobubele nobuntombi, akubona abantu abambene futhi abahlukene abangawaqonda ngezindlela ezahlukene. Phela, ukuqonda kwanoma imuphi umbala kunesizotha futhi wonke umuntu angaba nokuhlangana kwabo nalokhu kuhlanganiswa okubomvu nomhlophe, kokubili okuhle nokubi. Futhi kunabesifazane abaningi abafana nezimbali ezibomvu, kodwa abazithengi ingubo noma isikhwama esibomvu, ngoba ezingeni elingaqondakali bayaqonda ukuthi ukuziqhenya kanye nokududuza ngokomzwelo badinga imibala ehluke ngokuphelele, isibonelo, abamnyama, banikeza ukuzethemba . Konke mayelana nesimo sengqondo somuntu ngamunye ngalesi sikhathi esithile naleso semisebenzi kanye nemigomo ayithola kulo mzuzu. Ngokusho kwengqondo, abantu abajwayele uhlobo oluthile lwezingane banquma umbala obomvana ezembatho zabo, bakhetha ukuthembela kwabanye futhi hhayi ngokuzithandela ukuthatha noma yimiphi imithwalo yemfanelo.

Kodwa ngandlela-thile, i-pink ingenye yezithunzi ezinzima kunazo zonke uMama Wemvelo asinike zona, ezenzelwe ukujabulisa amehlo ethu nokulungisa izimbangi zabathandani kumvuthwandaba othandana naye. Futhi lokhu, mhlawumbe, okubaluleke kakhulu ekupheleni kwakhe ngeke kusebenze inselele noma yikuphi, ngisho ne-psychoanalyst evelele kakhulu.