Ukugcina isikhathi sekulokhu kubaluleka emphakathini futhi sekube yimingcele ebalulekile abantu abahlulelwa ngayo: lapho beqesha, bebamba imihlangano ebalulekile yebhizinisi kanye nezingxoxo, futhi bangabhekwa njengesibonakaliso sokuthembeka kwabantu nokuhlonipha abanye.
Kuyini ukugcina isikhathi?
Esikhathini sokushintsha kwansuku zonke okusheshayo, lapho usuku lugcwele izenzakalo ezihlukahlukene kanye nezindaba, ngokuvamile kunzima ukunamathela esimisweni esinzima futhi uqede umhlangano ngesikhathi sokubamba omunye. Ukugcina isikhathi (kusuka ku-Latin punctum - iphuzu) yikhwalithi yomuntu, echazwe ikhono lokuba yonke indawo ngesikhathi, ngokunembile ngesikhathi. Ungasho ukuthi lolu uhlobo lwethalenta, futhi akukhona konke lokhu okutholakala ngakho konke isifiso nesifiso.
Kuyini ukugcina isikhathi somuntu?
Umuntu ogcina isikhathi uzama ukulandela imiyalelo nemithetho. Ukugcina isikhathi kufanele kube kukho konke futhi njalo. Ekucwaningeni ukugcina isikhathi njengendlela yobuntu , lezi zinto ezilandelayo zokugcina isikhathi zivela phambili:
- ukunemba;
- isiyalo;
- ukuhlonipha nokuhlonipha abanye;
- ukubaluleka kwesikhathi somuntu siqu nesinye isikhathi.
Ukugcina isikhathi - okuhle noma kubi?
Umuntu ogcina isikhathi ngumuntu othi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ube "nguwe". Abantu abanjalo babangela ukwethemba nokuzwela abanye. Uma sicabanga ngesimo lapho umhlangano uhlelwe, ngisho noma kungenjalo nomlingani webhizinisi, kodwa ngomngani omkhulu, ukubambezeleka kwakhe kubangela imizwa ehlangene yokuhlangenwe nakho ukuthi "ngokuzumayo okwenzekile" kanye nomzwelo oqinile wokucasula uma ucindezelwa ukulinda. Ukugcina isikhathi kunemikhawulo enengqondo futhi kuyisibonakaliso sokuzinakekela wena nabanye, kodwa kukhona okunye, okuphambene nokugcina isikhathi:
- Umuntu ophuthumayo ngokweqile uwela ngaphansi kokuqhathanisa okuhlukile, uba yisithukuthezi. Ngokushesha nabalingani bomuntu onjalo bahlupheke kakhulu ekubonakalisweni kokukhathazeka, okwathi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kugxiliswa kube uhlobo lokuziphendulela: "Wonke umuntu kufanele alele embhedeni ngo-22.00 hhayi emaminithi kamuva!"
- "Ukugcina isikhathi" ngesikhathi sokugcina abantu badinga ukulandelwa okufanayo ngokucophelela kwesikhathi nokuzibophezela kwabanye. Futhi uma, umphathi onjalo uqala ukusebenza ngo-7.30, bese kuthi abaphansi kufanele babe khona ngalesi sikhathi emsebenzini. Ukulibaziseka okuncane kunesijeziso ngezimiso ezinhle noma zokuziphatha phambi kwabanye abasebenzi.
- I-hyperopia ye-"futhi" abantu abagcina isikhathi kungabangela izinzwa.
Imithetho yokugcina isikhathi
Ukunemba kanye nokugcina isikhathi sokuqoqa imiqondo. Umuntu ogcina isikhathi ngumuntu oqondisa ngokucophelela futhi ngokunembile ngezigaba zesikhathi: ngokuphuthumayo, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngo-njalo-njalo, njalo ngenyanga. I-timer nomhleli womuntu onjalo unamaphuzu, futhi ahlola izikhathi eziningana ngosuku. Imithetho yomuntu wokugcina:
- Uhlu lwemicimbi ebalulekile namacala okubuka kusukela kusihlwa, ukulungiswa ukuba yonke indawo ngesikhathi esimisiwe.
- Ukwenza umthetho ocacile wesikhashana usuku: izinkathi ezithile ezithile zokwenza icala (isibonelo, ukushaja ngo-7.05 kuya ku-7.20) bese uzama ukunamathela ngokuqinile kule schedule.
- Izingubo zosuku olulandelayo zilungiswa kusukela kusihlwa, kanye nemibhalo ebalulekile edingekayo emsebenzini.
- Uma uhlela amacala, sekuyisikhathi sokucabangela "umkhawulo" omncane.
- Khumbula njalo ukuthi isikhathi somunye umuntu asibalulekile, kanti omunye umuntu, eya emhlanganweni, angenza ezinye izinto ezibalulekile, kodwa wakhetha lo mhlangano - kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhohlwa ngakho.
Ukugcina isikhathi emsebenzini
Ukugcina isikhathi nebhizinisi, okuhlanganisa lezi zindinganiso, kubonakala ngendlela abantu abashintekayo bebhizinisi, abaphathi babheka njalo ukubukela kwabo. Isikhathi yimali. Esikhathini esicindezelwe kakhulu noma esinqunyiwe, kubalulekile ukuhlangabezana, ukuhlola umlingani, ukukhuluma nokuphetha noma ukuphetha isivumelwano, isivumelwano. Ukugcina isikhathi kungenye yezingxenye ezibaluleke kakhulu zebhizinisi eliphumelelayo noma ibhizinisi. Ukunciphisa kuyifomu elibi phakathi kwabantu bebhizinisi futhi idumela lomuntu ongenakudingeka lihlezi phakade.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ukugcina isikhathi?
Ukugcina isikhathi kuyithuluzi lomphakathi eliwusizo kanye nekhono ongayithola ngokuzibeka umgomo onjalo. I-General iphakamisa indlela yokugcina isikhathi:
- Thatha isikhathi ngaphansi kokulawula. Thenga amawashi amahle, ahlelekile. Ukugqoka kwe-watch kakade kuyala umuntu futhi kukubheke ukudayela kaningi.
- Isikhathi sokuqala sokuhumusha izandla zewashi ngemizuzu engu-10-15 ngaphambili, kodwa uqondiswe ngalesi sikhathi njengomuntu wangempela.
- Umuntu ongenaye isikhathi ngumuntu ovilaphayo ongenasisekelo nesithakazelo, lapha umsebenzi ukukhombisa intshisekelo ebhizinisini, emsebenzini.
- Umkhuba wansuku zonke "wokuzwa" kwesikhathi. Thatha isikhathi esithile semaminithi angu-5 - ihora elilodwa futhi ngaphakathi uzizwe ekupheleni komngcele. Ukuzivocavoca ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kusiza ukunquma isikhathi esiqondile ngaphandle kokuthembela ewashi.
Ukugcina isikhathi eBhayibhelini
Umuntu wokugcina ujabulisa uNkulunkulu, amakholwa akholwa. Imikhosi eminingi namaholidi kwenzeka ngesikhathi esithile. Ukufundwa kweminye imithandazo kufanele kwenziwe ngokuqinile ngesikhathi, kanye nokugcinwa kwamakramenti, kudla. UNkulunkulu ugcina isikhathi, futhi ugcina izwi lakhe lapho ememezela kuNowa ukuthi ezinsukwini eziyisikhombisa uzokhipha amanzi ezinwabuzelayo emhlabeni izinsuku ezingamashumi amane. Ukugcina isikhathi sikaNowa kumsiza ukuba agcwalise ukwakhiwa komkhumbi ngesikhathi, lapho yena nomndeni wakhe basindiswa khona, izilwane nezitshalo zagcinwa. Lesi sifundo esivela eBhayibhelini sifundisa into ebalulekile - ukugcina isikhathi kungasindisa izimpilo.