Izimpawu zothando ngentombazane

Intombazane ejabule othandweni ingabonakala ikude. Ngisho noma ungayazi izibonakaliso ezithile zomzimba zokuthandana, uyomnaka: amehlo akhe ashisa, unombono ojabulisayo ebusweni bakhe, ukumomotheka ngasese ezindebeni zakhe. Kuye futhi kudonsela, kubonakala sengathi kukhanyisa. Uthando lushukumisela, futhi kunzima ukulidibanisa ngenye into.

Izimpawu zokuqala zothando emantombazaneni

Intombazane iyaqonda kanjani ukuthi iqala ukuwa othandweni? Kulula kakhulu. Uthando luvame ukuqala ngozwelo olunamandla, olukhula ngokushesha. Izibonakaliso zokuqala zokuthandana nentombazane zivame ukuthi:

1. Uthanda kakhulu konke akushoyo futhi akwenzayo, nokuthi uyakwenza kanjani, futhi.
2. Kuye, uqala ukwesaba, ulahleka, amamatheka ngokungajwayelekile.
3. Uyaphawula ukuthi uyashintsha isimiso sakhe noma indlela, ukuze aphinde abhekane naye.
4. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi awazi umbono wakhe.
5. Ufuna ukwazi okwengeziwe ngezintshisekelo zakhe.
6. Uqaphele ukuthi umkhomba phakathi kwabanye, ngisho noma kungekho isizathu esikhethekile salokhu.
7. Ufuna ukwenza into emnandi kuye.
8. Uqala ukuzwela uma omunye owesifazane ebonakala eceleni kwakhe.
9. Uqala ukuzwa ukuthi nguye ongcono kakhulu owaziyo. It uthinta konke, ngisho amaphutha.
10. Unesifiso sokubiza njalo noma ukubhala kumthandi wakhe.

Izimpawu ezinjalo zothando lwabesifazane zivele zivele esiteshini sokuqala, futhi uqala ukuzizwa ukuthi ugijime ngokuphindaphindiwe ngemizwa nemibono emisha. Njengomthetho, le nkathi ixhunywe nomzwa wenjabulo yangaphakathi nokuthuthumela, konke kubonakala kuyithakazelisayo futhi kungavamile.

I-Psychology: izimpawu zothando lomfazi

Nokho, hhayi nje intombazane ngokwayo ingase ifune ukwazi ukuthi yini enhliziyweni yakhe. Uma uzibuza ukuthi intombazane iyathandana noma cha, kwanele nje ukuyibuka. Izibonakaliso eziningi zothando ezingenamazwi ngokuqinisekile zizomnika. Isibonelo, lezi ziyi:

1. Unamahloni kakhulu lapho ebona into enesihawu sakhe, uqala ukugubha, ukudideka ngamazwi, isenzo esibucayi, aziphathe ngendlela engavamile. Abantu abathile abazwelayo bangase babe namahloni ekuboneni okuthandayo.
2. Ulalelisisa into yothando lwakhe futhi angakwazi ukubiza ngokunembile konke okungenani okukhulunywe ngaye engxoxweni. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akanandaba nakho konke okunye, kungaba isifundo, umsebenzi noma noma yiziphi izindaba zansuku zonke.
3. Uba mnandi kakhulu: ugqoke kangcono, kulandela kangcono ukugcoba nokuboya izinwele. Imibuthano emikhulu kakhulu iyenzeka ngaphambi komhlangano ongenzeka naye, kepha uhlakaniphile futhi onjalo, ecabanga ukuthi angase awele ngengozi.
4. Uba esebenzayo, sonke isikhathi endaweni ethile eyenzekayo, ekhuluma nomunye umuntu, ujabulela njalo ukusiza ngeseluleko, ujabule.
5. Uba nomzwelo kakhulu: ngenxa yanoma yisiphi isicathulo angakwazi ukukhala noma ukuhleka.
6. Uhlale enesimo esihle, ehlekisayo, ejabule futhi kuthinteka, ngenxa yalokho okubukeka kuphefumulelwe.
7. Uhlala ethandana nezenzo ezihlukahlukene ezingacabangi, amazwi nezenzo, ngoba akanaso isikhathi sokucabanga ngabo.
8. Uhlakazeka, angeke afundiswe.
9. Uqala ukuthakazelisa ngezinkanyezi, ukukhuluma ngenhlanhla kanye nokunye okuvelele.
10. Uma eqaphela, iqhuma futhi ilahlekile.

Intombazane ethandwayo ngumuntu ojule kakhulu empilweni yakhe yangaphakathi. Akubaluleke kakhulu kukho konke okwenzekayo nxazonke, ngoba kukhona okubaluleke kakhulu, futhi lokhu kuyimizwa yakhe. Ukunakekela intombazane enjalo, ngaphandle kokuthi uyinto yothando lwakhe, ingenzi lutho.