Isizungu sabesifazane

Isihloko sokukhathazeka kwesithandwa sabesifazane, okokuqala, abesifazane ngokwabo. Qhathanisa inkulumo ethi "owesifazane ongashadile" nelithi "umuntu okhululekile" - cishe, yilowo mazwi abantu abaningi abangaboni ngokucacile isizungu somuntu nendoda. Kulesi sihloko sizocabangela lo mkhuba uqobo, ukubonakaliswa kwawo nezindlela zokuwunqoba.

Inkinga yobungqingili besifazane

Lesi yisikhalazo esivamile kakhulu sabesifazane abanoma yisiphi ubudala. Into ethakazelisayo kakhulu yukuthi isizungu singadabuka ngisho nangashadile noma ubuhlobo besifazane. Futhi okushiwo kule nkulumo, wonke umuntu angakwazi ukutshala izimali zakhe. Isibonelo: "Nginesizungu kakhulu, anginaso isoka." Noma: "Umyeni wami akangiqondi nakancane, nginesizungu kakhulu ...". Le nkinga ivela kuphi?

Izimbangela zesilungu sabesifazane

1. Izinkimbinkimbi. Wonke umuntu wesifazane, ikakhulukazi, umagazini wesilisa uveza emakhasini ayo isithombe sesifazane ohle. Indaba efanayo namabhayisikobho, amavidiyo, ukukhangisa. Ama-actress kanye nesikhathi sokutshala izimali kanye nemali ebusheni babo nobuhle babo. Akumangalisi ukuthi abesifazane, kude nezwe elimangalisayo, kunzima kakhulu ukusekela ukuncintisana okunjalo. Kuwukuqhathanisa ngokwakho nokuhleleka okungaqondakali okudala izixubusho nokungaqiniseki.
2. Ama-stereotypes. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bazama ukulandela imibono ethile ejwayelekile, futhi ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bazama ukudlala indima ye-bitch noma owesifazane obulalayo. Lokhu kufaka hlangana "amadoda athandeko ..." - isisu, ama-blondes, ukubekezela nokunye okunjalo. Ukugxila emaqinisweni angathandabuzeki, abesifazane badlala indima ebuhlotsheni, futhi lokhu akuwenzi kube namandla noma eside.
3. Ukungabi nencazelo. Kungani ngidinga ukuthola umlingani? Ukuthula komama nezinye izihlobo? Ukugcina noma ukuthatha izintombi? Ngakho kuyadingeka? Ngeshwa, amantombazane namantombazane amaningi abhekana nalezi zinkinga zomphakathi. Ngesinye isigaba, ukuxosha umphakathi sekuvele kuba yisifiso - ukuhlela, ekugcineni, impilo yakhe.

Emphakathini wethu, isiko sisaphila, ngokusho ukuthi owesifazane angayithatha kuphela ubuhlobo nendoda. Okufanayo ukufakwa kuvame kakhulu phakathi kwamakholwa. Phakathi kwabesifazane abangama-Orthodox, incwadi ethi "Ubungane besifazane" ka-Marina Kravtsova ithandwa, lapho umlobi enikeza iseluleko sendlela yokuhlela ikusasa lakhe. Kodwa hhayi ukholo olulodwa oludlala indima ekubukeni komhlaba wesifazane. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, amantombazane alalela izindabakwane mayelana neCinderella ne-Snow White futhi athathe kubo isibonelo - indlela yokuphila impilo ngamaphupho enkosi ezoza. Ngidinga ukuthi izinkolelo ezinjalo ziba zingasebenzi ezweni lanamuhla? Namuhla, owesifazane unethuba ngalinye lokuba yinkosikazi enomusa ngokwakhe. Futhi uma umuntu ephila futhi eqaphela ngokugcwele kuzo zonke izici, impilo yakhe siqu ihlelwe ngendlela engcono kakhulu.