Imvelo kithi ilele isifiso sokukhetha abalingani bezocansi abanempilo futhi abaqinile. Kodwa kubalulekile hhayi kuphela impilo engokwenyama, isimo sengqondo sibalulekile, kuphela ukuthi ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kuye kwakhohlwa ukubeka izindlela zokuqaphela iphutha kule ndawo, ngakho-ke kufanele uthembele kuphela engqondweni yakho. Ukuze kube lula lokhu kuhlaziywa, kunezibonakaliso eziyisikhombisa zesilisa onempilo, okufanele uzinake lapho uhlangana. Yiqiniso, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ukuxilongwa okunembile kuyokwenziwa ngezizathu zabo, kodwa uzokwazi kakade ukuthi yini ongayilindela kumngane omusha.
Izimpawu eziyisikhombisa zomuntu ophilile ngokwengqondo
- Unenhlanhla enempilo . Akukhona ngamahlaya "ngezansi kwebhande", kodwa mayelana nokuhleka okukhulu okuhlakaniphile. Lokhu kunambitheka okuhle kufakaza, futhi ngomsebenzi wokubaluleka we-lobes yangaphambili yobuchopho uthi. Kufanelekile ukunaka indlela yokuhleka - umlomo ovulekile, ikhanda elilahliwe kanye nokukhala okukhulu kungakhuluma ngothando lokukhaphela noma kube uphawu lokungacabangi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuzithiba okuyingqayizivele akuyona isibonakaliso esihle - kungenzeka ukuthi uzimisele ukuvela kwengqondo ngaphezu kwezicathulo. Futhi hhayi ikhono lokumelana nokubukeka likhuluma ngomhlukumezi.
- Uyakwazi ukupheka . Akukhona ngamakhono ompheki, kodwa ngamakhono ayisisekelo wokupheka, kunokwanele ukuba ube nezitsha zomqhele ezimbalwa. Lokhu kuzokukhuluma ngokuvuthwa kwengqondo nomqondo onomthwalo wemfanelo.
- Ukuba nokuzilibazisa okuthakazelisayo . Yiqiniso, kuwe ukuzijabulisa kwakhe kungase kubonakale kukukhathaza, kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi lo muntu ngokwakhe wayenesithakazelo ngempela emsebenzini wakhe, Yebo, ngaphandle kokushiseka. Kuyafaneleka ukunakekela uma unesifiso sokugembula noma imidlalo yekhompyutha. Kungakhuluma ngesifiso sokuthola konke ngaphandle kokusebenzisa umzamo, kanye nokuzihlonipha. Ngokubambisana nothando lokuphuza utshwala, ungase usolise ukuxoshwa okufihlekile nokuhlakanipha okunciphise.
- Amandla okuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo . Bheka ukuthi kusebenza kanjani ezimweni ezinzima - uqala ukuziphendulela ngamaphutha, ukusola abanye noma ukwenza amaphutha, ukudweba ngekusasa.
- Angakwazi ukukhuluma kahle . Ngokuvamile isebenzisa inkulumo yamathekisthi, i-lexicon ehlazo, uma isetshenziswe, ngakho-ke ezimweni ezihlukile.
- Akayeki umnandi . Lokhu kubonisa ukutholakala okwanele kwamangqamuzana omzimba kanye nokuthambekela kokuxazulula izinkinga ngokuzithoba, ngaphandle kobudlova. Yiqiniso, lokhu kusebenza kubantu abangenqatshelwe ukuthi amnandi ngenxa yezizathu zezempilo.
- Uyakhangwa yizintambo zesifazane ezinamathele . Ababonisi bamafomu angabonisiwe bavame ukubonisa ukuhlukumeza nokungaqondakali, ngaphandle kwalokho kungaba uphawu lwezinkondlo zangempela kanye nobungqingili. Yiqiniso, ukungabikho kwalesi sikhombisa sezimpawu zomuntu ophilile ngokwengqondo ngeke kuqinisekiswe noma yikuphi ukuphambuka. Kubalulekile ukulinda, uma nje engaqapheli ngokuphelele uhlobo lwesifazane, hhayi emabhishi, noma kumagazini, ukunaka amafomu atholakalayo.
Ngokwemvelo, ukuthola umlingani oye waveza kahle izibonakaliso ezingu-7 zendoda ephilile ngokwengqondo kunzima kakhulu, izinhloso azitholakali emvelweni. Ngokuhlola ukujwayela omusha, cabanga ukuthi yikuphi
Ukulondolozwa kwempilo yengqondo
Isigqi sesimanje siba imbangela yezifo ezihlukahlukene zesifo, futhi imiphumela yokucindezeleka kunzima kakhulu ukuba amadoda ahlupheke ngenxa yokungathandi kwabo ukubona ukuthi kukhona ubuthakathaka. Ngakho-ke, noma ngabe unomuntu ofanelekile, nazo zonke izibonakaliso eziyisikhombisa zomuntu ophilile ngokwengqondo, akufanele ucabange njengodonga olungenakuqedwa. Ngokuvamile imbangela yezinkinga zamadoda owesifazane, esikhundleni sokusiza umlingani esimweni esicindezelayo, uyamenza amangalele. Ngakho phatha ngokucophelela ingcebo enjalo, njengengqondo enempilo yomuntu wakho.