Uma ngaphambilini ukuhluka okweminyaka kubaluleke kakhulu, khona-ke manje izimiso zokuziphatha zivumela ukuthi uzizwe ukhululekile ekukhetheni umlingani. Ngakho-ke, emphakathini wanamuhla, owesifazane omdala nomthandi osemusha kuyisenzakalo esivamile.
Kungani abesifazane befuna abathandi abasha?
Njengoba uyazi, ukucabangela kocansi kowesifazane kuneminyaka engama-30 kuya ku-40, lapho amadoda esesikhathini lesi sikhathi esukela cishe ku-20 kuya ku-30. Ukufuna abathandi abasha, abesifazane, ikakhulukazi abesifazane abangashadile, bazame ukubona ukuthi bangakwazi kanjani futhi bathole imizwa engakulibaleki esondelene nabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekusebenzisaneni okunjalo kwabesifazane kunamanye ama-pluses amaningi:
- ubudlelwane bomshado;
- inkululeko yomuntu;
- ukuzizwa kwentsha yesibili;
- ukuxhumana okuthakazelisayo, ukwandiswa kwembono womhlaba ;
- ikhono lokuba nengane enempilo;
- ukwandisa ukuzethemba;
- ithuba lokuqala impilo kusukela ekuqaleni.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi, ngokusho kwemiphumela yocwaningo lwezenhlalakahle, abesifazane, abathandayo abaneminyaka engaba ngu-10 abasebancane, bazimisele kakhulu ukuzilandela, ukungena ezemidlalo.
Ungathola kanjani futhi ugcine othandekayo omncane?
Iningi labesilisa abasha licabanga ukuthi abesifazane abavuthiwe bayathanda kakhulu kulabo ontanga, ikakhulukazi emigameni yezocansi. Kubalulekile ukulalela izikhathi ezinjalo:
- Buka njalo okuhle;
- ukunakekela ukulondolozwa kwentsha nokuheha;
- unake isibalo sakhe;
- Ukuze ulandele ama-novelties emhlabeni wezinganekwane, ama-movie nomculo;
- ube yanamuhla ngokwezimiso zokuziphatha;
- ungesabi owokuqala ukuqala ingxoxo futhi ufunde ukudlala ngothando ;
- uzizwe ukhululekile embhedeni.
Kulula futhi ukugcina insizwa, into esemqoka ukuthi iyathakazelisa futhi kulula kuwe. Ngakho-ke, kungenjalo kufanele uziphatha njengokungathi wena - unina, ukuziphatha kanye neseluleko esiwusizo esivela ekuhlangenwe nakho okucebile kufanele kube khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma unomthandi osemusha oshadile, awudingi ukumphoqa ukuba ashiye umndeni. Indoda nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ikhetha ukwenza izinqumo ezizimele, futhi noma yikuphi ukucindezela kuye kuyokwenza nje kube lula ukuhlukana.
"Umthandi usemncane kunami" - u-cons
Yiqiniso, uma umthandi wakho esemncane kakhulu - iminyaka eyi-10 noma ngaphezulu, kunezinhlangothi ezingamanga zombuzo:
- ukulahlwa komphakathi;
- ukungaqondi ngezihlobo nabasebenzi;
- inzondo yamantombazane;
- imibono ehlukene empilweni nasemagugu;
- ukungabi khona kobudlelwane obunzima;
- ukungahleleki ngokwezimali kweyinsizwa.
Kodwa ekugcineni, kungcono kuwe ukunquma. Akukho okuhle emhlabeni ongafaniswa nenjabulo empilweni yakho. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yakhiwa kanjani.