Owesifazane ngamunye wabhekene nesimo lapho kwakudingeka khona ukuheha umuntu ayemthanda, futhi uyazi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kuvela izinkinga ezinkulu. Umuntu okhethiwe akakwazi ukubona lo wesifazane iphuzu-elingenalutho, unakekele izindaba zakhe siqu, ubheke ngesosikwelekile ekubukeni ...
Kulesi simo, ukuzithokozisa kanye nokuqhathanisa kungumsizi wangempela, okuvumela ukuba uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala ukuze umuntu aqiniseke ukuthi owokuqala wakuqaphela, wakhangisa, wakhanga futhi waphumelela. Kuye, lokhu kunqoba kwangempela kanye ne-trophy eyamukelekile, futhi akudingekile ukuba unikezele kuwo wonke ama-nuances.
I-Art of Coquetry
Cishe owesifazane ngamunye uyazi ukuthi angadlala kanjani, naphezu kokuthi afundise lokho. Ngokuyinhloko, konke kuqondwa nge-intuitively, ngokulingwa nephutha. Kungathiwa ngokuphephile ukuthi i-coquetry yabesifazane ihambelana nemvelo ngokwayo.
Ukubukeka okubuhlungu okuvela ngaphansi kwe-eyelashes, ukumomotheka okuncane, ukuziphatha okuhle, ukuzithokozisa okulula, ukuhleleka okuhle - konke lokhu kuphekwa ngendlela ehlanzekile. Ubani phakathi kwethu ongazange asebenzise lezi zindlela, ngisho noma engazi lutho? Ngokuvamile, enkampanini indoda ekhangayo, isandla ngokwawo sithelela ukulungisa izinwele, ikhanda liye lahlelwa ohlangothini, futhi emehlweni okushisa isithakazelo esiqotho.
I-Coquetry isebenza njalo uma isithakazelo sakho siqotho. Ikuvumela ukuba uzuze imiphumela emangalisayo, kufaka phakathi nokuthi indoda ayikwazi ukucabanga impilo yakhe ngaphandle kwakho, ikuyise ehhovisi lokubhalisa futhi ungamvumeli aye ekupheleni kokuphila kwakhe. Kungokuthi wonke umuntu udinga ukuthola indlela yakhe.
Amasu we-Coquetry
Enhliziyweni ye-coquetry ukulala ngobuqotho, ubufazi, imfihlakalo. Amadoda angabantu abazingeli bemvelo kanye nabazivikeli, ngakho-ke imfuyo yabo kufanele ibe yinto ekhangayo, kodwa ingenakufinyeleleka, bese ihlupha futhi ithenda. Into esemqoka ukuvumela umuntu azi konke akushoyo kakhulu kuwe, kungenjalo uzolahlekelwa yithakazelo ngokushesha. Kulokhu, kunamaqhinga we-coquetry, afaka abalingani emdlalweni wangempela.
- Ukuthinta okucacile, izici zokuziphatha. Ukubukeka okuvulekile nokumomotheka okuqotho kuzodonsela ukunakwa kwakho, futhi uma ubheka isikhathi eside kunokujwayelekile, futhi ukumamatheka kancane kunokujwayelekile, uzoqonda ukuthi uhle. Amadoda athakazeliswa indlela owesifazane ekhwehlela ngayo izinwele zakhe, aqondise izinwele zakhe, noma aqale ukucabanga ngakho, ahlasele umbala wakhe. Izenzo ezinhle nezindlela eziphumelelayo, okungathi, njengokungathi zigcizelele ngeso lengqondo isithunzi salesi sibalo, kufanele futhi zibe yi-arsenal yawo wonke owesifazane. Konke lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba ukhumbule i-interlocutor isikhathi eside futhi uhlole imihlangano emisha.
- Ukungatholakali. Njengoba kuphawuliwe ekuqaleni, unganiki umuntu ukuthi uphumelele isikhathi sakhe ngaphambili. Lokhu kuzoba usizo kubantu abafika ngesikhathi esifushane futhi kukhanselwa ngokuzumayo kokuvakashelwa, izingcingo eziningi ezingabanjwanga nemiyalezo engaphenduliwe, ukumiswa okwesikhashana nokulahlekelwa inzalo. Kodwa-ke, kufanele uqaphele kakhulu ukuthi umlingani wakho azizwa ukuthi awutholi lutho naye futhi akazange alahlekelwe yithakazelo futhi akahambanga ukufuna ukuphangwa okungaphezu komthelela. Ngenye indlela lezi zindlela ngokubonisa izintshisekelo nokuzwelana nokunciphisa kancane inani labo, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi le puzzle kufanele ihlale njalo.
- Ukungabi nasizo. Kunoma yisiphi isimo, hlala owesifazane. Ngisho noma ukwazi ukulungisa i-Cossack endala ngokwakho futhi uphonseke ku-Pentagon database, kuyoba usizo kakhulu indoda ukuba ishiye zonke izinto zakhe ezihlukumezayo kuye futhi ngokuqinisekile ingesabi isikhunta esincane. Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi ungabonisa amakhono akho, ubangele ukuhlonipha nokusekela inkolelo yakho ehlukile.
Indoda enezandla ezihlakaniphile izoba neminyaka engama-20 yokuhlala ndawonye usuku nosuku ikuthola ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi kuze kube phakade izohlala umfana othandweni. Indlela enhle yokuguqula impilo yakho ibe inganekwane, akunjalo?
I-coquetry yamadoda
Ukuqokwa kwamadoda kuhluke kakhulu kowesifazane, nakuba umgomo ufana - ukuheha nokugcina isithakazelo. Uma ukhumbule ukuthi ukudlala ngothando kungumdlalo othakazelisayo, umuntu ophethwe wona unikezwa indima yomnqobi, okungukuthi, uma owesifazane ebonisa ubuthakathaka bakhe, ubonisa amandla akhe, ubukhulu besilisa, athembeke, amqinisekise ukuthi ulungele ukuvikela kunoma yikuphi ukuhlupheka. Bambalwa abesilisa abaqonda ukuthi yini le mdlalo futhi bahlanganyele kuwo ngokungazi futhi ngokuzenzekelayo, ngakho-ke abesifazane besinzima kakhulu kwezinye izimo, ngoba ezenzweni nasemagameni omlingani babona okuningi kunalokho akwenzayo empeleni.