Kwenzeka ukuthi owesifazane akakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi umuntu uyamphatha kanjani, ngenxa yokungakwazi kwakhe, noma nje akwazi okuningi ngemizwa. Kodwa kukhona isethi yezibonakaliso ezithile zothando lomuntu oluzosiza ukuveza lo muntu.
Izimpawu zothando emadodeni
- Engxoxweni nawe, uyaziqhayisa, ubonisa ukuqala kwakhe nokungajwayelekile, kubukeka njengepeni.
- Ufuna ukukhuluma nawe. Uma lo mfana ehlala eqala ukuqala ingxoxo nawe - lokhu kungenye yezibonakaliso zokuqala zothando.
- Uqaphele ukuthi le ndoda iyathuthumela kuwe, futhi lapho amehlo akho ehlangana, uphenduka ephazamisekile. Lokhu kungabhekwa njengenye yezibonakaliso zothando olufihliwe, uma wena ngokwakho ungawuboni njalo ngemizuzu emihlanu, uzama ukuheha.
- Uhleka lapho uhleka.
- Indoda ihlangana nawe, uma lokhu kungeyona indlela yakhe evamile yokuziphatha nabesifazane.
- Abangane balo muntu baqamba amanga, bethinta imizwa yakhe.
- Ubonisa isithakazelo ezenzweni zakho zokuzilibazisa.
- Ezingxabano, uthatha uhlangothi lwakho.
- Uzama ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe eduze komthandekayo wakhe.
- Indoda izama ngandlela-thile isize - ingaba uhlobo oluthile losizo oluncane noma isenzo esibalulekile. Lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sothando nothando, futhi kungabonakaliswa nezibonakaliso zothando olufihlekile.
Lezi zibonakaliso eziyishumi zothando zizokusiza ukuthi uthole imfihlo ngokumfihlo phakathi kwalabo obaziyo. Noma kungcono ukuhlolisisa i-knight yothando.
Izimpawu zothando lwangempela
Akuwona wonke umuntu ojabule ukuhlangabezana nothando langempela empilweni. Uma umuntu ethandana ngempela, owesifazane uhlale ekwazi lokhu ngokucacile futhi ngeke akungabaze futhi azibuze ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu zothando:
- umuntu ngeke amcasule othandekayo;
- ufuna ukuba nengane kumfazi othandekayo;
- usekulungele ukuphawula ukuze anqobe;
- angenqaba konke, ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nenhliziyo yomfazi othandekayo;
- ayiboni ukwehluleka kwayo;
- ufuna ukumshada;
- ulokhu exhumana naye, ukhuluma ngebhizinisi lakhe kanye nezindaba;
- Ungasheshi ngezocansi, uma owesifazane engakalungeli okwamanje;
- ufuna ukujabulisa nokummangaza. Kungaba yizimanga ezingalindelekile noma izipho;
- Umuntu onothando akapheli;
- uthanda ngaphandle kwemibandela nokubala - ngaphandle kokufuna noma yini ngokubuyisela;
- Ungabi namahloni ngokukhetha kwakhe;
- embhedeni ucabanga ngenjabulo yothandekayo;
- ngoba akekho abanye besifazane.
Izimpawu ezingabonakali zothando
- Amahloni, ngemizwa evamile kubo bobabili abafana namadoda. Uma imizwa ejulile, abantu bayozifihla ngokucophelela. Uma ubona ukukhathazeka okucindezelekile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo izibonakaliso zokunakwa, khona-ke uyazi-le ndoda inesithakazelo kakhulu. Ezimweni ezingavamile, indoda ingasuka kumuntu wesifazane ukuqonda imizwa yakhe.
- Umuntu ozama ukuqala ukuxhumana okungokomoya nabathandekayo bakhe, ubuhlobo bobulili buyisithupha, indoda idinga okuthile okunye.
- Amahloni nokudideka eceleni kwento yothando, isifiso sokubukeka kangcono emehlweni akhe. Ngokuvamile umuntu onothando uhambisa amathokheni akhe amthandayo amnakekele, amungeze ngokucophelela, futhi ulindele ukuba kubonakale.
- Waqala ukuzikhokhela ngokwengeziwe.
- Ngesaba ukukuanga. Futhi uma umuntu engaqiniseki, angakugwema ukuwanga.
- Lapho amanye amalungu esilisa abonisa isithakazelo kunenekazi wakhe, ngokushesha uba yisikhundla sokuzivikela.
- Kuye, ukuthintana ngokomzimba kubalulekile, usebenzisa wonke amathuba ukuthinta othandekayo wakhe. Ekuqaleni, lezi zizobe zingenakuqhathaniswa, njengokungathi, ukuthinta okungajwayelekile.
- Uzama ukuba emkhakheni wokubukeka kwenkosikazi yenhliziyo ekude kwamamitha amaningana, angakwazi ngisho nokuma ngemuva noma ukujika kwakhe. Kodwa kubalulekile kuye ukuthi uyambona.
Lezi zimpawu ezingabonakali zothando zingabonakala ngezibonakaliso zothando lwangempela lomfana, kanye nezibonakaliso zothando olufihlekile.
Lalela umqondo wakho, owesifazane uyazi njalo ukuthi umuntu uyamphatha kanjani, kaningi akafuni ukuvuma ukuthi imizwa yakhe ayihambisani.