Ungaqala kanjani ingxoxo nomfana odumile? Lo mbuzo wasukuma cishe yonke into esikoleni, kodwa sithembele ngobuqotho ukuthi izikhulu zempilo yabantu abadala zizowela ezinyaweni zethu. Futhi manje isikole sesiphelile, ukwesaba kwezingane kuyasemva, futhi umbuzo wokuthi ungayithola kanjani futhi uqale ingxoxo yokuqala nomfana uhlale.
Amantombazane amaningi akholelwa ukuthi kusukela emaminithi okuqala we-interlocutor udinga ukumangala. Futhi ungakwenza kanjani, uma ungaqali ukukhuluma nomuntu onentshisekelo, mhlawumbe noma engavamile? Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ongathanda le ndlela yokudala, ikakhulu uma ebuka wena isikhathi eside, kodwa akaqapheli ukuza. Ngokuzifakazela kwakhe, ubeka engozini nakakhulu ukuze uhlaze umakhethi wakho. Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele uyenze, ukuthi ungaqala kanjani ingxoxo nomfana ngendlela efanele, yimiphi imibuzo eyomthakazelisa yona? Eqinisweni, uhlu oluqondile lwemibuzo yokukhuluma nomfana alukwazi ukuzwakala - bonke abantu bahlukile, futhi omunye ufuna ukukhuluma ngebhola, kanti omunye ulambile ukuxoxa novel entsha, ngakho-ke kufanele wenze lesi simo. Kodwa ukuqala ingxoxo kunezimpawu ezimbalwa ezijwayelekile. Futhi ungagcini igama elithi "standard"! Phela, asifuni ukuthola umklomelo wezokwelashwa zokuqala, kodwa ake umfana azi ukuthi uyathandeka kithi.
Isikhathi sini?
Yebo, umbuzo u-banal, kodwa sekuyisikhathi eside ube phakathi kwezizathu ezivame kakhulu zokuphola. Ukubuka kwakho kuphela ngalesi sikhathi kungcono ukususa, futhi ususe ifoni esikhwameni sakho. Njengoba ufunde isikhathi, ungadumisa i-watch yakhe (ifoni ephathekayo), uma uyathandeka kumfana, khona-ke uzozama ukusekela ingxoxo.
Yeka inja enhle!
Umfana uhamba nenja (ikati, hamster, isandla se-canary), udumisa isilwane sakhe. Abantu abathanda izilwane bangakhuluma ngezilwane zabo ezifuywayo amahora, ngakho isihloko sesihloko siqinisekiswa kuwe.
Ngisize, sicela
Lapha sesivele sibonisa ukucabanga. Mhlawumbe awuvuli ibhodlela lamanzi amaminerali noma awukwazi ukuthola ifoni yakho ephathekayo, futhi waphawula imodeli efanayo? Inhliziyo yesilisa eqinile ngeke ikwazi ukumelana nethuba lokubonisa izimfanelo zayo ezinhle: amandla, ukuhlakanipha nokuphendula.
Ngithanda kanjani le ngoma!
Ulalela umculo nge-headphones, kodwa ngokuzwakalayo kangangokuthi uzwakala kwabanye? Ungalahleki, lokhu kuyithuba lethu. Sondela kumfana futhi sithi sithokozile nale ngoma (uma uyitholile) noma unesithakazelo kumculi (uma ingoma isalokhu ingaziwa). Ungacela ukulahla le ngoma efonini yakho, futhi enkambeni yokuxoxa ngesihloko somculo ozithandayo.
Ngithanda izincwadi zakhe!
Uke wambona indoda ekhangayo encwadini yezincwadi futhi azi ukuthi ungaqala kanjani ingxoxo naye? Kulula nje, bheka izincwadi azithakazelisayo, bese ubuza umbuzo mayelana nobuciko balo mbhali, bathi, sekuyisikhathi eside ufuna ukufunda okuthile kulolu chungechunge, kodwa ungaboni.
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Buza ukuthi ungathola kanjani umgwaqo, isitolo noma i-cafe. Amantombazane afisa ukuzizwa njengama-master at orienteering, ngakho-ke awunakwenzeka ukuphikiswa.
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Bayiqaphele yini ezandleni zakhe ezinye izakhiwo zobuchwepheshe?
Njengoba ubona, ungaqala ingxoxo nomfana nganoma iyiphi inkulumo, into eyinhloko ukuthi yilokho okukhulunywe ngakho, ngakho-ke asiqapheli kuphela ukubonakala komuntu othunyiwe, kodwa futhi kulokho akwenzayo. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umatasa, ngoba umuntu ophuzile osemuva ngeke ayeke noma yikuphi, ngisho nombuzo oyinhloko kakhulu. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, udinga ukuba wesifazane futhi ungabi namahloni ukukhombisa isithakazelo sakho kumfana. Awukwazi ukusho igama, nje ukwakha amehlo, futhi yena ngokwakhe ufuna ukwazi kangcono.