Uyakhumbula konke njengokungathi izolo. Isoka lakho lithathwe empini. Uyakhumbula izinyembezi zokulahla kanye nezithembiso zokulinda. Kwakunzima kangakanani ngaphandle kwakhe. Njalo umzuzu wokuhlukana wawubonakala unomphela. Ngezinye izikhathi izinhlamvu ezingenayo zifudumala, kodwa ulinde kanjani futhi ungaphuthelwa. Naye, nakanjani, kwakungelula. Enkonzweni emabuthaneni wamanje wanamanga. Abaningi basitshela indlela abafana abayishintsha ngayo ngemuva kwebutho. Futhi iqiniso le nsizakalo phakathi kwamabutho ahlomile yisenzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu futhi esingenakulibaleka ekuphileni kwendoda yonke.
Futhi-ke, isikhathi siphelile futhi isoka lakho livela ebuthweni. Yiqiniso, ukuhlangana nomfana ovela empini kufanele kuhlelwe ukuze amkhumbule ngokuphila. Ngikholelwa, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kuye. Futhi njengoba ukulungiswa kungathatha isikhashana, kungcono ukuwuqala kancane kusengaphambili, ukuze kamuva akudingeki wenze konke ngomzuzu wokugcina.
Kodwa-ke, kanjani ukuhlangana nomfana ovela ebuthweni, ukuze umhlangano uzohlala enkumbulo yakhe iminyaka eminingi ezayo.
Menze umhlangano esiteshini. Akudingekile ukuthi lo mhlangano uzofana nesimo sefilimu lapho intombazane ihlangana nomfana ovela ebuthweni. Okusho ukuthi, ungahambi esiteshini wedwa, ngoba kulokhu, ngeke ulinde izinyembezi kwi-pyronome, ngisho nezinyembezi zenjabulo. Shayela bonke abangane bakhe, udwebe amaphosta, ubhale ama-balloons kanye nokumemeza okukhulu kwe-"Hurray !!!" futhi amaculo amdonsela emotweni.
Nika umfana isikhathi esithile sokuchitha isikhathi nabangani - hamba ndawonye epaki. Yiqiniso, ngifuna ukuba ndawonye ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, kodwa-ke uzobe unesithukuthezi ngezingcingo eziphikisanayo zabangani abalindele ukunakwa kwakhe. Futhi-ke, ngemva kokuchitha isikhathi esithile nabo, ungakwazi ukuphuma ungabonakali. Uma ebona indiza yakho, bayakuqonda.
Into esemqoka kumfana emva kwebutho - lokhu kubizwa okuthiwa yi-social "kwisakhamuzi". Isikhathi sokugcina esasizungezile sasisempi kuphela. Wayenakho konke esimisweni esiqondile: ukuphakama, ukuhamba, ukudla. Futhi uma indoda ngaphambi kwezempi yayingenalutho oluhlangene namabutho ahlomile, kwakunzima kakhulu.
Manje ukuthi le ndoda ibuyele ebuthweni - yisize ukuba ivumelanise - iya ku-cinema noma kudlalwa. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi lesi senzo sinomlingiswa othandana noma wobuciko, angicabangi ukuthi ufuna ukubona ifilimu mayelana nempi.
Ngabe ungaluthola kanjani omunye umfana kusuka ebuthweni? Mxhase umuzi, ngokuqinisekile lapho engekho emzini kuye kwaba nezinguquko ezithile. Futhi manje, lapho umfana evela ebuthweni, uzoba nesithakazelo kukho konke, ngisho nokuthi, futhi ngaphambi kokuba engakwazi ukulalela - isikwele esisha, indawo yokudlela, umbukiso womculi wendawo. Mtshele ngokuphila kwabantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo nabangane: mhlawumbe othile oshadile, futhi othile unabantwana.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi abazali bakhe balinde ngokungapheli lutho. Cishe bahlanganise itafula elicebile ngama-raznosolami, yebo kuyaqondakala - lokho umuntu angathandi ukukudla. Kodwa kwakudingeka adle ukudla okwesikhashana okwesikhashana, okwakungamjabulisi neze nge flavour ezihlukahlukene nama flavour.
Kodwa akekho oshiwo ukuthi uma abazali bebeke itafula, ngeke ukwazi ukukwenza. Emva kwesidlo nabazali nezinye izihlobo bammeme ukuba avakashele.
Amantombazane amaningi anesithakazelo kulo mbuzo: ingabe abafana bashintsha emva kwebutho? Futhi bavela kanjani lapho? Impendulo engafanele yale mibuzo ongawutholi, ngoba bonke abantu bodwa. Yini engashiwo ngokuqiniseka ukuthi abafana ngemuva kokuba ibutho libe yingozi nakakhulu. Zonke ezinye izinguquko, uma zifuna, uzozibona ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala ngemva kokufika kwakhe.