Kuze kube yilapho usanda kubamba isikhala esincane ezandleni zakho, futhi manje - futhi asinaso isikhathi sokubuka emuva! - cabanga ukuthi ungagubha kanjani iminyaka emibili yengane yakho. Kulungile, siqoqe ukuhluka okuthakazelisayo kakhulu kuleli holide.
Kuphi ukugubha iminyaka engu-2 yokuzalwa kwengane?
Ukumaka iminyaka emibili ingane ingaba ekhaya. Ikakhulukazi, eqinisweni, ebusika. Kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi lokhu kusho imikhosi evuthayo futhi evamile etafuleni! Ngisho nemvelo evamile yasemakhaya ingenziwa umkhosi - kuyoba nesifiso. Vula umculo, uhlobise amakamelo ngezigqoko, amabhaluni nezinye izinto ezithandwa kakhulu izingane. Qaphela!
Ngokwemvelo, ungabona futhi ingane engu-2 ubudala. Iya olwandle noma ehlathini. Ungathatha nawe ukudla okumnandi, ube nepikinikini , ukulanda umculo omuhle, ukudala imizwa ejabule, futhi kubaluleke nakakhulu ungakhohlwa ukuthatha ikhamera noma ikhamera. Ngokuqinisekile nonke nifuna ukuthatha isikhathi esijabulisayo. Futhi ungabonisa amavidiyo nezithombe kumntanakho okhulile futhi uthinte wena.
Ungawugubha kanjani usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana oneminyaka emibili?
Mema izingane! Yiqiniso, ingane izokhathazeka ngenkampani yabanye abantu abadala - vumela izingane zidlale futhi zijabule ngaphansi kokulawula kwakho. Kodwa ungamemeli izingane eziningi kakhulu: ngenkathi ingane ineminyaka emibili kuphela, kungcono ukumema abantu abathathu noma abane, ukuze bangadluli isimiso sezinzwa sezivakashi ezincane.
Kuyafaneleka futhi ukucabanga ngemenyu yezingane. Khumbula ukuthi izingane ezingalesi sikhathi azithandi ukuhlala etafuleni isikhathi eside, ngakho-ke kufanele ufake ukudla okulula kwimenyu - amaswidi amancane, amakhukhi, izithelo. Iziphuzo, ijusi lungcono kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, izingane, ezedlala ngokwanele, zinganelisa indlala futhi zithole amandla, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo iholidi ngokwalo lizohlala lingavamile futhi liyingane.
Ekuphileni kwengane, usuku ngalunye lubaluleke kakhulu. Ngonyaka odlule ingane yakho ayizange iqonde ukuthi yiliphi leli holide, futhi manje ingayithokozela ngokugcwele. Hlela ingane yakho usuku olumnandi, olujabulisayo olugcwele imikhosi, futhi ungayithokozisa ukumomotheka kwakhe ngosuku lwe-biennium, bese uhamba ngezithombe eziningi.